diabolus_ab_caliga
Occasional Poster   Posts: 12 Registered: 27/3/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 12/9/2003 at 05:33 PM |
I'm severly annoyed with people telling me off about wear revealing
clothing, if I want to show off that I'm not fat and bulky and have a
reasonably good figure, that is my own buisness is it not? I'm not picking
up any guys, it doesn't bother me. The point is, I'm not dressing up for
anyone....I'm doing my own fucking thing...but I am curious. Are there any
goth guys between 15-25 who live in Ontario? Well.....that was Ironic...
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Dolorosa
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posted on 15/9/2003 at 09:10 PM |
Ironic isn't the word I'd use...although the word I'd use would still end
in "ronic."
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AloneSoul
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 01:16 AM |
I’ll put it this way, there’s no problem with being “sexy” publicly. You
aren’t dressing tastelessly so in most cases it’ll probably be jealousy
that they’re feeling. That’s a good output too, not to care as how others
view you so long as you know you who are. Under constant criticism the
ignorant suggestions can get aggravating but that’s understandable.
Is being “sexy” a trend? If you mean dressing tastelessly then yeah, I’d
say so. Back in my old high school I knew girls who followed the fashion
trends and one was tacky dress for the purposes for looking attractive.
Instead they rather demeaned themselves and were treated like objects last
I knew. *sighs*
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 10:15 AM |
Ummm... you are in the wrong place if they feel that you should not dress
revealingly... anyone who feels that they have the right to tell you off
for that is a twonk...
BUT... contrradicting yourself in that manner... I agrgee with Dolorosa...
definitely ronic...
Feral ____________________
The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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Merry_Widow
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 12:54 PM |
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Sardonic-Pain
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 02:44 PM |
For one I agree that you should be able to dress how ever you want and even
if you are bigger than the average anarexic you can still be sexy....Us
bigger girls can be just a sexy as anyone else even if we are bulky and fat
is a harsh word...But hey Dress how you want However Tasteful or Tasteless
it is
HOWEVER....a shmeng forum isn't a dating service ____________________
My Life is like a porno-Without the sex-Just the weird music
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chameleon
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 04:56 PM |
| Why can't everyone just wear what is comfortable to them and not bitch
about it? I swear, that would solve so many problems... ____________________
The perfect mind is like a mirror. It grasps nothing. It expects nothing.
It reflects but does not hold. Therefore, the perfect man can act without
effort.
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VampCourt
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 05:00 PM |
It also depends on what some people think are sexy too. Most things
considered "sexy" are way way WAY mainstream and most people arent even
phased by it anymore. everything is sex in your face these days anyhow.
which i got really bored with.
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devil, for thou art scarey and mean." -The Goth commandments
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 05:37 PM |
Yeah, once upon a time, showing your ankles was considered incredibly
provocative.
I figure it's what you're dressing for. If you're wearing sexy clothes
because it's what you think is pretty, and it makes you feel pretty, go
ahead. But if you're wearing sexy clothes to get attention, and make
people want to sleep with you, then you've got a problem.
And if someone is going to diss you for wearing what you like because they
think it's slutty, then I would say that they could very well be the sort
of person that you really don't need to have as a friend. If your
intentions are in the right place, it will show, and those with sensitivity
and discernment (who are, after all, the people I would rather surround
myself with) will figure out what you're about, and won't ostracize you
because you like a certain cut of clothing.
But then again, if you really are dressing for sexual attention, then those
same people of sensitivity and discernment will figure THAT out too, and
you will be likely to attract only mindless drones and guys who want to get
in your pants but not get to know you because all they care about is your
body. Which people would be those I would very much rather NOT surround
myself with.
Oh, by the way diabolus, beauty is not a size. One of the most beautiful
girls I know is most definitely plus size (though not morbidly obese or
anything - that's a different category), and the sad thing is, I don't
think she realizes how lovely she is. And I know alot of ugly girls with
so-called "perfect" bodies. Beauty is not a size, or an age, or a fashion
statement. We need to train our eyes to find beauty in all the variations
of humanity. It's out there, although Hollywood would like us to think
otherwise. More people need to learn to show off their alternate forms of
beauty, and teach us all to not despise unapproved types, just because
we've been told to.
The only thing ugly about obesity is the fact that it is unhealthy, and
often denotes parallel unhealthiness in the mind and emotions. But then
again, it is just as unhealthy to be severly underweight. It's just a more
fashionable unhealthy. How shallow is that? ____________________
"You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
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Sardonic-Pain
Fanatic Posts: 248 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 16/9/2003 at 10:48 PM |
Well Stated Schizo....
If my friends wern't as good as they are i'd prolly be pretty bad off
because i was depressed over the fact that I didn't look like the girl in
the magazine and then i realized why should i have to be they are
airbrushed anyways and i am beautiful...I make sure to tell my friends how
beautiful they are both inside and out because if you dont posses inner
beauty then what do you really have? ____________________
My Life is like a porno-Without the sex-Just the weird music
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SindelChaos
Occasional Poster  Posts: 46 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 18/10/2004 at 02:06 PM |
quote:
Why can't everyone just
wear what is comfortable to them and not bitch about it? I swear, that
would solve so many problems...
 Well, because
unfortunately, some of us would end up blind or wishing we were. *shudders
at the possibilites*
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pale-face
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posted on 18/10/2004 at 02:25 PM |
there are many people who deserve to be out and out removed from society
for bringing a whole new meaning to ignorance is bliss. people around me
are in size 1 and 2's, wont talk to people because they have a bad hair day
and literally harass other people because in their own minds they are the
spitting image of perfection and they can not sin.
people are just insecure with themselves. and until we can change that.
none of this will change. ____________________
fucking classy.
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Abbadon
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 08:50 AM |
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RedQueen
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 08:54 AM |
| Well, your icon sure as hell is sexy, Abbadon. I love the cheshire cat
from Alice! my friend wants him as a tattoo. ____________________
Today's liberals are tomorrow's conservatives. When my generation is the
conservatives, we'll be fine letting gays get married and creationism vs.
evolution in schools will be a laughable issue.
But by god we'll be sticking it to the damn cyborgs!
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 01:22 PM |
"Why can't everyone just wear what is comfortable to them and not bitch
about it? I swear, that would solve so many problems..."
Except for one small detail...
I feel most comfortable in the nude... I wear clothes only for the comfort
of my fellow human beings. ____________________
The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
Hohenheim of Light~Full Metal Alchemist
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RedQueen
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 02:07 PM |
That's very considerate of you, feralucce. But what if we were all more
comfortable with you naked?
[Edited on 10/20/2004 by RedQueen] ____________________
Today's liberals are tomorrow's conservatives. When my generation is the
conservatives, we'll be fine letting gays get married and creationism
vs.
evolution in schools will be a laughable issue.
But by god we'll be sticking it to the damn cyborgs!
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pale-face
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 02:34 PM |
| i say you go for it feral. clothing is a rather old invention worthy of
getting rid of by now. ____________________
fucking classy.
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 02:37 PM |
RedQueen: then we would live in a world much much different from te one we
are in... i am a large bear of a man...
Pale Face: convince the police and I'll go for it ____________________
The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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pale-face
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 02:52 PM |
| well you could go live at a nudest colony, but thats no fun. ____________________
fucking classy.
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RedQueen
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posted on 20/10/2004 at 03:13 PM |
Hey, I like large bear men. My boyfriend is extremely hairy.
Wait, somehow that sounds vaguely wrong... ____________________
Today's liberals are tomorrow's conservatives. When my generation is
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conservatives, we'll be fine letting gays get married and creationism
vs.
evolution in schools will be a laughable issue.
But by god we'll be sticking it to the damn cyborgs!
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