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Author: Subject: Dirty Jewelry

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 12:00 PM
I was with this guy for 8 years. He had bought me a rune ring that stands for health. It matched his ring exactly. We both wore them on our right ring finger and people often thought they were wedding rings.

We broke up last April and when things started going really badly, I had to take off the ring. I just couldn't keep it on my finger. I would find that I had taken it off without knowing it and just dropped it. Happened all the time. I would suddenly notice I wasn't wearing it and then find it on the coffee table or by my computer where I had removed it without knowing.

Keep in mind that I wore this ring for so long that it took months for the crease on my finger to go away. This is one of my favorite rings which is why he bought it for me. I want to be able to wear it again.

So I have tried saging it and salting it and it still feels yuck. I showed it to a friend of mine and she held it for a second, got a sick look on her face and dropped the ring.

What more can I do to make the ring wearable or am I going to have to destroy it.

 
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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 12:29 PM
I had a ring like that once. I had to destroy it. It had all sorts of badness associated with it. it's sad that it happens to be a favorite, but sometimes letting go is the only way. Things got better for me after I did go ahead and destroy it. I don't know of anything that could make it wearable again... If I think of something I'll let you know.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 01:22 PM
I have a ring like that. It was a three year relationship, and I stopped wearing the ring in the year we were seperated. Even though we got back together, I can't really wear the ring anymore. It's just too much of what we were, and what happened, and It doesn't feel right anymore. I still keep it, I just don't wear it.
Your ring is much more...negative. If you've tried the usual deep cleaners, and it still stinks of the bad, you're going to have to get rid of it. It just wouldn't be a healthy thing to have hanging around.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 02:30 PM
I, too, had a similar ring... my suggestion would either be get rid of it, or, if you can't bring yourself to do that, put it in a "safe place" in a small box or bag that you rarely go near and that would not affect the energy around you.
My first instinct would be to get rid of it, however.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 05:25 PM
I heard a story once about a guy who had a ring like that. He got it from his uncle. The ring was so fucked up he had to take it clear across Mordor and dump it in the fires of Mt. Doom. And he was just a little guy.

Just be thankful your ring isn't that fucked up.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 07:14 PM
I am curious... is this more an emotional response or a psychic one?

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 08:02 PM
My favorite ring has that sort of history. It's a garnet that my boyfriend bought me the first summer we were together. When we broke up at halloween, I buried it in a graveyard at midnight (I know, how typically goth, etc., but it felt right!) and it stayed there all winter until April, when the issues that caused our breakup were resolved. I dug it up again, washed it off, and wore it up until just recently. Now I wear it on a cord around my neck, because I have a tattooed ring now that represents the new aspects of our stronger, healthier relationship. But I can't part from the garnet, because it was the painful past that brought me to where I am now.

When a ring or other piece of jewelry becomes deeply connected with a relationship, it often takes on characteristics of that relationship. My love for my boyfriend was buried inside me for a while, and I considered it dead. So I felt a corresponding urge to bury my ring. When that love was reborn, I found the ring again.

If you connect your ring with your relationship, as it seems obvious you do, then you will need to do with it what you did with your relationship. Otherwise, those things that led you to break up will linger with you.

I am sure that it was hard for you to give up your 8 year relationship too. I am sure you wanted to keep it, but it just made you feel "yuck". But you had to let it go, and you will need to do this with the ring, too.

And just as a new relationship can come (or an old one be renewed), so can a new ring, or other talisman come to your life to fill the void created by the loss of the old. But the new will not come until you release the old.

It's OK to mourn your ring, just as you mourned your love. I know it is not fun. But I think you will find that it will help you progress in the healing process, and rid you of the nasty vibes.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 10:42 PM
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I am curious... is this more an emotional response or a psychic one?



Definately a psychic one. I don't really have alot of emotions left for him. It has been a year and though we dated very seriously and I was his live in bdsm slave for five of the eight years I have pretty much gotten my closer.

I don't even look at the ring and think of him. As far as I'm conserned it is my ring but something negative clings to it that isn't me.

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 10:47 PM
bury it in salt under the stars, by the new moon... tradiditional...

Alternately... an over night soak in water, clear glass wrapped in black cloth, and allow it to sit on the sill in the sunlight... change the water every day , do this for a week...

Feral

 

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  posted on 25/2/2004 at 10:49 PM
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bury it in salt under the stars, by the new moon... tradiditional...

Alternately... an over night soak in water, clear glass wrapped in black cloth, and allow it to sit on the sill in the sunlight... change the water every day , do this for a week...

Feral


Thank you. I'll give it one last try before I give up the ring for good.

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 12:40 AM
nono... in salt... for a month... in a bowl... salt, as stated in the old traditional beliefs, was the hadn of the divine... it will solve most negativity problems... if that does not do it... I know many more ... they get more involved as you go on... now... is the neativity being sent at you currently? if so... there are steps that need to be taken to change that...

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 01:04 AM
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I heard a story once about a guy who had a ring like that. He got it from his uncle. The ring was so fucked up he had to take it clear across Mordor and dump it in the fires of Mt. Doom. And he was just a little guy.

Just be thankful your ring isn't that fucked up.


Hehe... you are such a smart ass Devin! hehe *nuzzles*

(FYI: I didn't realize there was a quote option so I deleted the original reply to you Devin and reposted it with the Quote)

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 01:06 AM
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nono... in salt... for a month... in a bowl... salt, as stated in the old traditional beliefs, was the hadn of the divine... it will solve most negativity problems... if that does not do it... I know many more ... they get more involved as you go on... now... is the neativity being sent at you currently? if so... there are steps that need to be taken to change that...




Yeah.. I tried just salt by itself but didn't put it in the sun and I was still in my old apartment which held alot of his negative presence since he had spent alot of time there and helped me "break the place in" hehe. Now I'm in a new place and there is no trace of him here. I should try again and do it longer in the sun as you suggested.. thanks.

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 01:37 AM
cool.. if worst comes to worst... if you attend the party... I know of a couple interesting ways to clear it...

Feral

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 02:13 AM
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cool.. if worst comes to worst... if you attend the party... I know of a couple interesting ways to clear it...

Feral


What party? Devin introduced me to the site and I'm still getting to know the place so I am missing alot while I learn to navigate everything.

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 10:24 AM
Rayce:
Here's the thread

http://www.shmeng.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=XForum&fi le=viewthread&tid=550#pid12887

 

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Rayce:
Here's the thread

http://www.shmeng.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=XForum&fi le=viewthread&tid=550#pid12887


I'm a single mother living in Seattle so making it to New Orleans is next to impossible

Wish I could go

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 12:16 PM
Rayce: well... if it ever comes down to it... we can still get it clean... my crew and I like to travel...

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 12:29 PM
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Rayce: well... if it ever comes down to it... we can still get it clean... my crew and I like to travel...


If you ever come up this way let me know

I love meeting new people

 

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  posted on 26/2/2004 at 12:44 PM
When my girlfreind and I broke up she gave me back the ring I proposed to her with. For a while I would take it out and just stare at it...I was really careful with it. Then one day it dissapeared and I haven't seen it since. So I hope you can find a way to keep it, because it's not just a symbol of bad times, it's also a symbol of the good times.

I saw your site.....the pictures are great.

 
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