pale-face
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posted on 24/10/2004 at 06:54 PM |
| if that's why they find comfortable, all the power to them. Mind you if
someone is wearing something to that nature it's not to say they are trying
to look like a hooker, but it's not exactly as if they are trying to be
conservative... by any means. ____________________
fucking classy.
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Merry_Widow
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 10:37 PM |
So you don't care what people wear as long as they are comfortable. But
your state of uncaring extends only to the point that they wear more
clothing than you wear in underwear.
What if someone is perfectly comfortable and happy wearing a bikini-cut
bottom of some sort and some cleverly placed electrical tape? Is she to be
thought a slut, hooker, or crack whore because she is choosing to reveal
more than you prefer? ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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pale-face
Fanatic Posts: 478 Registered: 22/9/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 04:20 PM |
I believe we have had a misunderstanding. I have no problem with people
wearing clothing to feel comfortable, or another reason. but when people
start dressing in less clothing than I wear in underwear. I don't see how
that is considered sexually appealing, or fashionable in any manner.
'discretion is the better part of valour' – anon.
[Edited on 23/10/2004 by pale-face] ____________________
fucking classy.
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MystryssRavynDarque
Extreme Fanatic   Posts: 648 Registered: 24/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 11:06 AM |
| I'll wear a shorter skirt and a tighter top with a low neckline and boots
every now and then, usually when I am going out to a club or something in
the evening, but just because I do does not make me a hooker or prostitute.
Frankly I just feel good in the clothes. I wasn't allowed to wear such
"provacative" clothing before, but now I can wear what I want to. It makes
me feel good to be able to wear what I wish to wear. I'm not going out
looking to get laid by everyone, hell I don't even like the boys who are
probably giving me the most attention, but I just want to feel good in my
own skin and know that I am a beautiful woman who has the right to choose
her own clothing. I wouldn't mind getting hit on by a lovely young woman
while in the clothes, but I wouldn't mind getting hit on by the same woman
in my frumpy clothes. Hell, I would feel better with a woman hitting on me
in my frumpy clothes. That means she looked past the bare skin and the
make up and saw me. ____________________
"People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 10:46 AM |
| Well, some people would feel the need to explain or justify their manner of
dress when some random idiot calls them a whore or a hooker for looking as
they do. ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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pale-face
Fanatic Posts: 478 Registered: 22/9/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 10:28 AM |
quote:
The females that put
more time and effort into thier "costume" and wear loads of make up, match
thier shoes to thier purse, and wear the "right" bra for that shirt arent
trying to look like whores.
Yes, All of that makes sense, but who is it that puts the time and
conscious effort into thinking weather or not what they wear appeals to
some one. since when did girls (or anyone for that matter) have to justify
themselves by dressing a certain way? ____________________
fucking classy.
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callei
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 06:08 AM |
This arguement always bothers me since the people having it dont cover
themselves head to toe and shun all make up and hair dye. Its that old
arguement "well "I" dont dress like a ho, I just like red lipstick, dark
eyes, bed tossled hair, tight pants/short skirts, and shirts that fit."
your average crack whore wears jeans and a T-shirt when they are
working.
Your average streetwalker wears something easy to get in and out of, like
shorts and a t, a short dress, or something like that.
Your average brothel worker wears panties and a tank top.
So any woman that wears jeans and a T-shirt is dressing like a crack whore?
a summer dress means you want to look like a stretwalker? those tanktop and
panty sets that Gap sells are "prostitute" clothes?
The females that put more time and effort into thier "costume" and wear
loads of make up, match thier shoes to thier purse, and wear the "right"
bra for that shirt arent trying to look like whores. They dont go out
shopping and ask each other "does this make me look enough like a crack
addict?" They ask "does this make my butt look fat?" and "do you think this
will go with that red top I have?", just like the rest of us do.
Any clothing that you put on to be street legal is a costume anyways. so
what does it really matter if that costume is "soccor mom" (fitted slack
(that show off the ass, plung neck shirt, fitted with wonder bra with
cleavage enhansment, and little sandals with painted toenails and an
anklet) or "runway on a buget" (short skirt with sheer stockings, same
pluge neck fitted top and bra, but with more bra showing, and boots that
cover the possibly painted toes) the short skirt one isnt showing as much
as the soccor mom is really.
If you REALLY look, I mean take off the social blinders and LOOK at what
"respectable", grown women are wearing, and compare it to what teenagers
are wearing, you will see that the kids have a LOOOONG way to go before
they are as slutty as thier seniors.
____________________
Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and vampires
away.
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/10/2004 at 12:40 AM |
| If you want sexy just look up the law of the forbidden. Don't blare your
appeal through a loudspeaker, just let your skirt ride a little higher than
it should on "accident" and let the ensuing rumors say it for you. Nobody
likes an unwrapped gift, and nobody I know can resist the agony of
anticpation when the wrapper is peeled back in one place just enough to
trigger the imagination of "ooo...what's under THERE?!" ____________________
Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas.
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 11:04 PM |
| Bullshit. Just because someone dresses in a provocative manner, does not
mean that they will fuck the first person that looks at them. A short skirt
and low-cut top does not a promiscuous person make. ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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pale-face
Fanatic Posts: 478 Registered: 22/9/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 09:11 PM |
quote:
is it strange that people
that want to get laid try to show their prospective lovers that they are
interested?
in my opinion I think it's wrong when they try to show themselves to every
one, in turn trying to get laid by every one. don't get me wrong, I have
nothing against casual sex. but to have sex with every one that lays eyes
on you is just not right.
____________________
fucking classy.
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Domkitten
Fanatic  Posts: 470 Registered: 23/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 07:42 PM |
Dress however you want. The best accessory for getting laid is condoms or a
pair of handcuffs, and you don't need a midrift sweater to wear either of
those.
Of course, that can lead to a whole new realm of problems, but mostly from
the people who are not getting laid, who will be jealous of not only your
ability, but your intention to do so. ____________________
It's like kegel exercises for your throat.~Monolycus
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callei
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 05:21 PM |
| no they arent. sexy has always been one step to the side of prim house
wife. It will probably continue to be as long as this society thinks that
sex has a price and that sex is something only "sluts" or "hookers" do. So
women that are attempting to have sex in thier lives will have to dress
like, well, women that want to have sex. really, when you think about it,
is it strange that people that want to get laid try to show thier
prospective lovers that they are interested? ____________________
Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and vampires
away.
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pale-face
Fanatic Posts: 478 Registered: 22/9/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 03:50 PM |
| ya... I think it's interesting how all those girls who are dressing to be
'sexy' are beginning to look more and more like hookers every day. ____________________
fucking classy.
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RedQueen
Member   Posts: 98 Registered: 18/10/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 08:38 AM |
| Yeah, I think that it isn't so easy to make a jest of someone when you know
and could possibly sympathize with their motivations. Also, people's real
life stories usually aren't half as interesting as the ones you make up for
them. ____________________
Today's liberals are tomorrow's conservatives. When my generation is the
conservatives, we'll be fine letting gays get married and creationism vs.
evolution in schools will be a laughable issue.
But by god we'll be sticking it to the damn cyborgs!
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callei
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 05:47 AM |
| I think the thing that is bothersome about people that dress to get laid in
all settings because they want/need attention to have self worth is that we
dont want to know that much about them. I mean, its fun to people watch and
all, but its mor fun to make up stories about them than to KNOW what thier
story is. Its takes some of the fun out of people watching when they come
with Cliff notes. ____________________
Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and
vampires
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away.
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 22/10/2004 at 02:48 AM |
Wow. I read my previous posting on this topic, and blushed. All I can say
is, I've come a long way, baby!
God, why should I care if someone wants to dress for sex? Go for it!
Nothing wrong with it.
Although, in my defense, most people who dress for sex don't do it as
gracefully or honestly as some of the sex-goddesses here. Most people I
know who want people to want them do it for all the wrong reasons, and
couldn't possibly feel worthy or valuable unless every red-blooded male in
viewing wasn't passionately lusting after them.
But just because so many people seek sexual attention for the wrong
reasons, doesn't mean that someone can't seek sex for the right reasons.
Wow, what a difference a year makes! Is it just me, or has the "Resident
Christian" Schizo been fading quickly of late? ____________________
"You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
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MystryssRavynDarque
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 648 Registered: 24/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/10/2004 at 08:25 PM |
| When I was in the tenth grade there was a boy who was 6'7" and I am not
sure of his weight but he used to play football, well, I helped him dress
as Frankenstein for the Halloween costume contest at my school. It was
very fun walking around wtih Frankenstein all day. ____________________
"People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is
the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell
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pale-face
Fanatic Posts: 478 Registered: 22/9/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/10/2004 at 03:44 PM |
this has all gotten interesting to say the least. especially:
quote:
wanna know the greatest
sound in the world, Someone fisting a jar of Mayonaise
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fucking classy.
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RedQueen
Member Posts: 98 Registered: 18/10/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/10/2004 at 08:11 AM |
| Isn't that your job? Wink, wink. ____________________
Today's liberals are tomorrow's conservatives. When my generation is the
conservatives, we'll be fine letting gays get married and creationism
vs.
evolution in schools will be a laughable issue.
But by god we'll be sticking it to the damn cyborgs!
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magusshade
Coward   Posts: 9 Registered: 21/10/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/10/2004 at 08:10 AM |
| Oh, I forgot Don't spank me. ____________________
It's all fun and games till somebidy gets hurt. Than its hillarious
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