Xaoswolf
Fanatic Posts: 463 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 12/8/2004 at 10:42 PM |
I hate it when you are talking to a girl you know, and her
cousin/sister/friend messages you to ask what you think of her.
Then you have to wonder, did your friend put her up to this, or is this an
unsolicited questioning? And if it's unsolicited, will she tell her
friend? Does she think the same as you? will this just make things weird?
Is it already too late and things are already weird?
A pox on you women, why not just ask yourself?
Seriously, most guys like that... ____________________ Sometimes I dream about dinosaurs shopping for cargo shorts at the Gap.
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 23/8/2004 at 06:00 PM |
Well I'm gonna take the "know what I hate" line and run with it.
I had a great day at work yesterday. FANTASTIC. Lots of energy, LOTS AND
LOTS of customers in good moods, had lots of fun.
But what I hate is how ONE PERSON wants to come off as "funny" and is so
goddamned RUDE to you that you wanna clock off, take off your badge, walk
them outside and curbstomp their christing skull into jam. Then put it on
a bagel and give it to the first child that comes along that really really
likes bagels with jam. I hate how they get off on being so fucking rude to
someone that they're practically pitching a tent over it in their jeans.
And worst off he had a small boy with him, his son, who is going to grow up
with butthole daddy teaching him to be a LITTLE butthole in his
shitstreaking image. You didn't ruin my day like you hoped jerkass. And
when you asked for help and I walked by without responding and you had to
find your shit yourself, if I'd had the equipment for it *I'D* have been
pitching a tent for the look of WTF confusion on your face. When you left
with your friend and child and I said "have a nice day", and when you tried
to reply "thank you" and I told you I wasn't telling YOU to have a nice
day, I fucking meant it. Call corporate. I don't goddamned care. Know
what I hate? I hate YOU.
I'm sure that would be better placed in the screaming chamber, but well, it
IS something I hate, and it's not random screaming. ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 06:41 PM |
dead cell... you have an apology ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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dead-cell
Fanatic Posts: 344 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 05:03 PM |
At least apologize for hijacking the thread. ____________________ co-worker: "Your gay!?"
myself: "Didn't you see my rainbow pin?"
co-worker: "I just thought you liked skettles."
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EyeCandyRayce
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 04:57 PM |
I have issues and plenty of them to go around for that matter. ____________________ Suicide Hotline - Please Hold |
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Zero
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 03:37 PM |
what issue?? more deeper than what?? I really had no idea we even had an
issue. ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak." ~
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 03:22 PM |
Ironboots: the issue is deeper than that... it has stopped carrying on, and
I am done with it... no problemo... as for kissing and making up... fuck
that ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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Ironboots
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 893 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 17/8/2004 at 02:03 PM |
Ferchrissakes! Misinterpretation of a post doesn't call for getting one's
panties in a wad! Zero has explained what he really meant. That should have
been the end of it, instead of carrying on for seven angry posts.
I want you two to kiss and make up, pronto! ____________________ Piggy's got the Conch! |
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/8/2004 at 09:22 AM |
"for one thing...you didn't tell me that in IM...you wrote it under an
article.....i just can't find it." I don't believe you are right about
where that was posted, but I will concede on that point...leaving three
other points...
"you call me close minded and judgmental...but who is always the first to
immediately write someone off as and idiot after one post? " I give
everyone a chance... but when it comes to the stupid people... I may write
them off quickly... but i ronically enough... they go on to prove
themselves stupid in a mighty mighty way... being able to make a discerning
judgement does not make me closed-mindedd, it makes me astute...
I must say though... "Then you assumed...."hey, he must be talking about
the site"..whoops..sorry
" doesn't really seem like an apology... the tone is flippant and (here it
is again) kind of accusatory... dictionary.com defines insult as "To treat
with gross insensitivity, insolence, or contemptuous rudeness"... none of
these things "hurts my feelings", but your actions can still be
insulting...
"you've been whining the whole time"... whining: To complain or protest in
a childish fashion... what you did... confront: To come face to face
with... what I do...
Zero: a complete moron will always trip the alarm harder than someone who
is only a halfwit... you mistake reaction for action... but I am done... I
give up... I throw in the towel... I trried to help you understand... I
spent an infuriating week explaining this site to you in terms that the
major players on the site actually fucking agree with... and at every turn
you attempted to create a morality play or a logic trap... and I STILL
PLAYED ALONG... trying to make you understand... you come in here... you
tried to fit in, when you don't you ask us... not just me, because you had
the "can't we all just get along" shit going for a while... to change our
ways to accomodate you... you think, that because I don't get a public
censure that I must be scaring people into not talking and that I am
behaving in a way that is not supported by the site... but the fact of the
matter is... there may be a couple who wish I weren't so quick to judge...
but I do what I do, and were I such an ogre.... I would have been in no
karma land long before now... you know what that is like... now... just
fucking accept it...
BUT
you have this psychological need to have the last word... it is a
wonderfully entertaining thing to see... but I am done with it... and
you... this is the last time I will even bother to read your posts... or
respond... even when you take the time to ensure you get the last word
after this post
[Edited on 8/15/2004 by feralucce] ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/8/2004 at 05:46 AM |
for one thing...you didn't tell me that in IM...you wrote it under an
article.....i just can't find it.
for another thing feral, you call me close minded and judgmental...but who
is always the first to immediately write someone off as and idiot after one
post? who's the first to write somethig like " *shakes his head* "? It aint
me.....also if i haven't earned your respect enough to hurt your
feelings..how can i be "infinately insulting"? You managed to change my
apology for using the word "here" and twist it into "you still don't get
it".
oh yeah....about being a whiny bitch...you've been whining the whole
time...everytime i or anyone posts...i'll leave and come back thinking "I
wonder what feral will have a problem with this time?" Then you have the
nerve to call me whiny just for mentioning the incident once.....just once
on the whole site...and yes i know...i've talked to you about it maybe like
5 or 6 times but it was you and only you. And you've always come to me and
everyone else that's new in an accusatory manner...talk about hypocrasy.
[Edited on 15/8/2004 by Zero] ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak."
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 11:01 PM |
Zero
1) re-read your own fucking post... it is misleading... there was a
misunderstanding... again... again and again... it was not clear that you
were speaking of college... I am not the only one who READ WHAT YOU
WROTE... there was no jumping to conclusions...
2) you misinterpreted... Because you were insulting, does not mean you hyrt
my feelings... you cannot say anything that can hurt my feelings... because
you have done nothing to earn my respect... every time we have spoken you
have come at me in an insulting and accusatory tone... one must earn the
respect required to hurt my feelings...
3) You asked me how I could post something that was said in a personal
conversation and post it here... what hypocrisy... it is not what you
revealed, but that you would go against your own ethos... I was trying to
get laid when I came here... but I was sent here by the source of my
interest... and I did not come here specifically to get laid... my intent
while staying, was for logical and well thought out discourse... Because I
was trying to get laid at the time does not mean that my actions are
intrinsically linked to that goal... You see... unlike some... I temper my
instincts with intellect...
4) let it fucking drop... let's see... I was addressing the fact that you
felt wronged by someone else's commentary on one of your pieces, and were
too much of a pussy to address them face to face, or at least in the forum
for that EXACT reason and instead felt it necessary to post in a catty,
overly melodramatic and just all around bitchy manner about the comment.
You also directly quoted the post so that anyone who wanted to could do a
search and find the comment... and I am replying to a current thread in a
direct manner in my usual modee of speech. it seems like apples and
oranges... and when I stated just get over it... that, too, was a direct
response to a current comment... if you have a fuckign problem with the
comment made by a member adress it or just shut teh fuck up and let it
drop... being a whiney ass bitch about it does nothing save for make you
look like a ... well... whiney ass bitch...
in conclusion... you have been whiney, judgemental, hypocritical and
overall just a pain... on that note, I relegate you to where I feel you
have always belonged... I ahve mentioned recently (for 6 weeks) that I ahve
been trying to be kind... you were the first of the six... I give up...
you have proven yourself a) too closed minded and b) too fucking stupid to
adapt here... give it the fuck up ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 06:16 PM |
ok feral....i knew what you were talking about and i think everyone else
knew what you were talking about... and when someone uses sentences like
" I pretend not to notice a girl staring at me and she pretends like she
isn't staring and we do this all through lunch.....then she speaks and i
get so freaked out i almost choke on my Hamburger."
before jumping to conclusions one must first think...."have i had lunch
with Zero?"....before jumping to conclusions or getting their feelings
hurt.
BTW, feral..i remember you writing somewhere (i can't remember where) that
you came here (as in the website) originally to get laid...or maybe i was
reading someone else's handwriting.
Oh and lastly...you told me to let it go...take your own advice and let it
go...we got it the first time when you said it. (and i'm sure it wont be
the last) ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will
speak."
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 05:11 PM |
ok... since it was not clear enough in my humorous manner...
when you come to a certain place... whether it be digital or otherwise...
when you use the word here, we take it, as an assumption that you mean the
place you are at...
When, in the digital world, you are refering to a real place by using the
word "here"... you need to specify which place you are referring to...
REGUARDLESS OF CONTEXT...
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Anonymous
Posts: 116 Registered: 14/4/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 05:07 PM |
quote: in the defence of chicks,
if guys wernt so dumb, there would be no need for manipulating ect... you
guys dont take hints, thats why games get played, learn to take hints!
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 04:13 PM |
quote: Zero: ok... my bad...
BUT...when you are posting HERE... EVERYONE assumes that HERE is HERE...
unless you sepcify that HERE is THERE...
is that from Alice in wonderland? ok Mad hatter what did you do with
feral?
I keeed keeed
MJ: I've been screwed over by that before. and i didn't much care for it.
If you're interested, make it known don't get your best freind to ask
us...and then change you're mind after your freind successfuly convinces us
to ask you out...which completly changes the whole relationship creating
intensly awkward moments. ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will
speak."
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Meranda_Jade
Fanatic Posts: 511 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 03:11 PM |
You know what I hate? Boys who say they would rather girls be more
forthright about saying what they want, about stating their feelings, and
then using that and trampling right over them. That's what I hate. Any idea
why they do that? Why do boys like girls only when they play hard-to-get
games and treat the rare honest ones like filthy whores? Maybe if boys were
less cruel, girls wouldn't feel the need to be cruel either.
Seriously guys, more girls would be willing to ask you how you feel about
them if they weren't afraid of getting a shitty response and dumped the
next instant.
The reason they send their girlfriends to ask about it is to avoid just
that sort of confrontation. Most boys, if you corner them, especially in
the beginning of a relationship and ask things like, "So, where is all this
going?" will feel trapped and smothered and the first thing that comes
out of their mouths is usually something amazingly hurtful and mean. I'm
sure they don't really mean it. I'm sure it's just because they panic and
can't think straight. It's easier for you to talk to the girl's best friend
about it so the girl can be a little more sure of your intentions before
she goes and invests more of her feelings into you and raises her risk of
getting hurt.
Just take it for what it is, she's showing her interest in you in a safe,
non-threatening manner. Work with it and eventually you'll be able to
communicate directly with each other, after some trust has had a chance to
build up. ____________________
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 09:40 AM |
Zero: ok... my bad... BUT...when you are posting HERE... EVERYONE assumes
that HERE is HERE... unless you sepcify that HERE is THERE... ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 07:24 AM |
To feral and bettie: Guesss what, i didn't mean the website...i meant here
as in where i am....college..i thought you guys would have figured it out
by what i wrote
" I pretend not to notice a girl staring at me and she pretends like she
isn't staring and we do this all through lunch.....then she speaks and i
get so freaked out i almost choke on my Hamburger."
Then you assumed...."hey, he must be talking about the site"..whoops..sorry
[Edited on 14/8/2004 by Zero] ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will
speak."
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gothicmorman
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 01:11 AM |
there was this one guy in my german class in grade nine. he like me. so he
asked me out. i liked him so i said yes. now we are going out, we will most
likely be going out for a very long time. it seems simple to me, but i have
had a friend ask me to ask a guy what they think of her before, i said " i
dont understand, he is sitting across the room why dont you ask him
yourself" she got mad at me and called me a bitch. i still dont quite
understand.
personally i agree with bettie. lots of girls are just players and they go
through guys like they go through cute little ankle socks.
angel of death - many guys are too dumb to take hints, it is true.
therefore they should be told straight out. " hi i have a crush on you and
would like to get to know you better, would you like to go on a date?" but
of course that would defy the social rule that guys ask out girls... oh
dear no, my poor heart, i think i might go read a book...
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angel_of_death
Member Posts: 119 Registered: 4/4/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 12:22 AM |
in the defence of chicks, if guys wernt so dumb, there would be no need for
manipulating ect... you guys dont take hints, thats why games get played,
learn to take hints! ____________________ I know whats it like to want to die, how it hurts to smile, how you try to
fit in but you can't, how you hurt yourself on the outside, to try to kill
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