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Author: Subject: Too much sex ?

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 06:58 PM
I didn't know where to post this so I figure this is as good a place as any. I need help.... I'm scared. Terrified even. I've been with the same girl for almost 3 years now. This is her first serious relationship, and both of ours first serious sexual relationship. We met in drivers education when she was 15 and became very good friends and then didn't see eachother for almost a year after I joined the military. Well one night while I was at my first base attending my training school I got a call from my brother telling me that Tracy had called looking for me. Come to find out he had called her house looking for her, but when she got on the phone all she talked about was me and ased how I was doing. So my wonderful brother figuring he had no chance with her did the next best thing and brought us together. I called her the next night and we spent hours on the phone talking about the few memories we had together and both expressing that we had a thing for eachother but that we were to blind to see the other was interested. Anyways, after discussing the hardships of a long distance relationship we both decided that we would give things a try and hope they worked out for the best. And they have. I got to go home for 2 weeks during that christmas and another 2 weeks after I finished my training school. between these first two visits we became very close, and shared parts of ourselves with eachother that we had never shared before both emotionaly and physically. This is where it all started. I've created a monster. I have every mans dream and I don't know if I can handle it. Honestly my girlfriend is a nymphomaniac.

Main Entry: nymphomania
Pronunciation: "nim(p)-f&-'mA-nE-&, -ny&
Function: noun
Etymology: New Latin, from nymphae inner lips of the vulva (from Latin, plural of nympha) + Late Latin mania mania
Date: 1775
: excessive sexual desire by a female

Its not like she's out sleeping with every guy in town. The only one she wants is me. All day... every day... If I didn't HAVE to work or eat I think she would keep me in bed 24/7 . I don't know if this is possible, but do you think there is such a thing as too much sex ? I feel burnt out physically and I'm not sure how much longer I can keep up....

 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 07:49 PM
Consider yourself one of the luckiest men in the world....

 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 08:36 PM
Shut up. Do push ups. Fuck pussy.
I thought that's what you straight guys were programmed to do. Stop bitching about too much sex, or your alpha male military buddies will think you're gay. You wouldn't want that would you? O_O
God damn. People complaining about perfectly good sex. That pisses me off.

 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 08:48 PM
I had one guy back in high school...the guy I went to the prom with...announce to our little group of friends that I was addicted to sex and wouldn't leave him alone about it. All that accomplished was to make his friends jealous and me think he was the only guy his age that didn't like sex without having to beg for it.

I know it's probably frustrating that you've "created a monster" so to speak, but seriously you should just look at it like "oh my god I must be great" for her to want you that much. Cuz believe me, if you were a disappointment to her, she'd go look elsewhere. So bottom line, just be proud.

 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 09:07 PM
I am SO just going to assume you were being sarcastic stic.

DO you feel that the sex has sort of eclipsed the part of the relationship that you liked the most? The emotional aspect? I'd prolly be a little bothered if michael said to me "less talky, more fucky", because well then you feel like a proverbial glory hole and nothing more. She could either just REALLY REALLY like sex, be using it to make herself feel better (acceptance and all that lovely messed up woman garbage), or for other reasons.
My suggestion is either talk with her about it, or get a mini fridge next to the bed, a computer so you can work from bed, and one of those little things with the adaptors for loooong car rides when you gotta pee.
Just be OH so careful, you think she's crazy now, just wait until those "gimme it NOW" hormones kick in during the second trimester of pregnancy.

 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 09:29 PM
I guess its kinda like you said Bettie. I feel like we've lost something from our relationship. Any phone conversation that last more than 15 mins turns into phone sex. lol. We've never even been able to go out to a movie and finish the whole thing. I won't even begin to list the places we've messed around at. *although it has led to some great stories to tell when i'm drunk* And don't get me wrong Stic, I'm not complaining about sex. Its more of the fact that I don't know how long I'm going to be able to keep her happy sexually.... and then what. I can't stand the thought of losing her. The only thing in my life that makes me happy is seeing her happy. Oh and as for your other comments Stic, what does my sexual preference have to do with this ? I'm VERY open minded and willing to give anything a chance. Blah. And at least one thing we agree about is the whole children thing. Niether one of us wants children. EVER. Don't get me wtong I love children. As long as they are not mine. You can spoil them and then send them home.
 

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  posted on 28/1/2003 at 09:53 PM
Not to be a downer or anything, but I dated a nymphomaniac for a time and it is NOT every man's dream. Nymphomania is a very self-destructive mentality in which the woman (for guys it is Satyriasis) seeks sex to make up for a damaged self esteem. Beyond the fact that it is annoying to be woken up every twenty minutes ("What are you, some kind of protein vampire??"), you have to deal with a larger package of issues than just the symptom of sex. I don't suspect that is what is going on here.

I hope that everything works out for you, Geist, and this is probably a natural development considering the fact that you have both only very recently begun exploring the carnal... but I would recommend that you reassure her that she can bring more to the table of your relationship than just her body. Best of luck!

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  posted on 29/1/2003 at 12:09 AM
Okay so now I sorta feel like an asshole. I would have said to seek some help for her if I'd thought it was truly nymphomania. I took it that you were just getting a little more sex than you wanted, expected, or actually needed. If it turns out that it really is nymphomania, then it's a really serious issue, and can be horribly self-destructive. There are women who've been found "lodged" on gear shifts, etc. because of their problem. I just didn't take it as this being the case here.

I know there was a period of time that I was "pestering" my husband a little more than he was able to deal with. I wasn't working very much at the time, and he was working two jobs at the time. So I've since reasoned it out that it was the quickest way to be very close to him very quickly. I realized that our relationship was not based on sex, it was based on love, and that sex was just a beautiful expression of that love...when there was enough time and energy to actually do that.

I think I was influenced somewhat by movies, and talk shows to think that guys just don't get anything from cuddling. I know better now of course. Those guys who don't want to cuddle are not in love, and really are just in a sexual relationship only. Maybe she is just feeling like I used to, that if you are too tired then she's doing something wrong. Maybe just point out to her that you still love her and want her and always want her, but that sometimes you just don't have the time or the physical energy to go through the whole thing. I know that once I realized that he actually wanted me even though we weren't constantly nekked and humping, then that greatly improved my ability to feel secure.

 

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  posted on 29/1/2003 at 12:14 AM
The best to do would be to discuss it with her. nuff said. and if she loves you. then she will understand.

 

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  posted on 29/1/2003 at 08:21 AM
I love the words "voracius appetite." It means that maybe, just maybe, the girl can keep up with me.

 

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  posted on 29/1/2003 at 08:57 AM
This is defiantly something which needs to be discussed for everyman has his limits. I agree with Courts advice.

 

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  posted on 30/1/2003 at 02:17 PM
Okay, I'm a little confused on one part. Is this a long distance relationship right now? Are you at home visitng and feeling a little burned out on your vacation? Or are you both in one general locality?
If it is indeed still a long distance realtionship, and you are briefly visiting, you might be able to write it off as cramming as much happy fun time into a small window of oppurtunity. God knows, I do it all the time.
If it isn't still a long distance relationship, then I will to echo Court's advice, because it was exceedingly eloquent in it's simplicity. You need to sit down and talk to her.
Another thing, do you maybe feel a little down because, due to the fact that she is constantly trying to get more and more out of you, that you aren't doing something right and satisfying her the first four times around?
I hope things work out for both of you.

 

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  posted on 31/1/2003 at 10:42 AM
Geist...you dog, why didn't I hear about this earlier! Sheez...
Is this the same girl? Man...I am missing too much.
My advice, bear down and get to work...or, what I do in the situation is what the grrls are sayin'...have talk ya' know. I kinda' had a similiar situation, although not as extreme...I explained it to her, and got a really sweet and flattering answer...then, well...things went back to how they were before, but I was happier.
Gesit...I am so having a drink to you tonight... mad props...now all you need is a good bar-brawl and a beaver sidekick.
And really...honestly man...Nymphomania, and a few weeks of sexual olympics are two very different things bro.

 

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  posted on 3/2/2003 at 12:56 AM
"Nymphomania is a very self-destructive mentality in which the woman (for guys it is Satyriasis) seeks sex to make up for a damaged self esteem."

Um, how do you figure? I'm not saying that thats not a possible cause, just that its not the only possible cause. Maybe her mom was a nymphomaniac and she grew up thinking that spending ones spare time on ones back as much as possible was normal. Maybe shes just a lot less inhibited and expresses sexual interest alot more easily. Maybe she just really really likes sex.

 

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  posted on 3/2/2003 at 01:07 AM
WEll its not a long distance relationship any more. We've been in the same location for about 13 months now. At first I things were fine, because we had both been without each other for quite a while and had quite a bit of built up "tension" . Thank you for the advice everyone... we'll see how things go with the talk tonight. wish me luck.
 

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  posted on 3/2/2003 at 05:50 PM
Alugarde, I said very clearly that I did not suspect that this was a case of nymphomania. Nymphomania is an abnormal psychological condition and it takes a clinician to diagnose it, not people talking on the internet. If she's "...just a lot less inhibited and expresses sexual interest alot (sic) more easily" or "...just really really likes sex", it is not a case of nymphomania, it's just a woman who likes to have sex. If a person's attention wanders, they do not suffer from Attention Deficit Disorder and you do not suffer from dysentery every time you go to the bathroom. It does not matter how frequently a person is having sex, it is their motivation for seeking it that determines whether it is or is not a case of nymphomania. Casual and careless use of terminology leads to hysterical over-reactions, bad advice and does more harm than good.

(Another mental note made... time for this wolfie to seek new company) Tschs.

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  posted on 3/2/2003 at 10:13 PM
Ah, crap..didnt see that last line there..

 

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  posted on 4/2/2003 at 05:16 PM
Sounds like you got your hands full....LMAO
 

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  posted on 4/2/2003 at 09:21 PM
I think she will be fine if you talk to her and by her a vibrator. Let her get some of that sexual tension out before she sees you, and maybe you can spend more time talking and less time on your back. Of course, you could get crazy and learn to discuss philosphy during sex, it's amazing the kind of mental gymnastics one can be capable of during physical gymnastics.

 

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  posted on 4/2/2003 at 09:37 PM
Already got the vibrator... tried that one. As for the talk things didn't go quite as well as I hoped. She started crying about how I don't want her any more... *sigh* things will get better.
 
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