KittyGoesMrow
Fanatic Posts: 218 Registered: 30/4/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 3/6/2003 at 05:31 PM |
I probably don’t know shit about relationships because I’m so young, but, I
have been trying really hard lately to find the perfect person for me. AND
IT JUST AINT WORKIN’. (Excuse the
southern slang.) So I have decided to just sit back and let them pass by.
If they want me
they will come to me, I say. And if they don’t have the balls to approach
me then I don’t need them anyways. For all the couple of past years I’ve
tried so hard I’ve finally said, “Fuck it”… I’m not going to try because
I’ll just end up jaded like the rest of the millions of people that did
what I’ve done already to an extent they are simply fucked in the head! And
at such a young age I might add… before they even know what the fuck love
is. And now ill wait for love, the right kind, instead of some false
realism of a fantasy that I’ve so longed for and pictured. I’ll let it come
to me. |
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KittyGoesMrow
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posted on 23/3/2005 at 01:43 AM |
Ahhhh... memory lane.... I feel uber dumb after reading that and acutely
remember thinking i knew what I was talking about at the time ____________________ Anata ga sabishii toki, bokumo sabishii n da yo |
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RavensSoul
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posted on 10/7/2003 at 06:17 PM |
Love, to me is just being there when your someone special needs you, or
them being there for you. It's being a sturdy brace to lean on and a crying
shoulder for teary eyes. Love is trust and a mutual understanding of one
anothers wants and needs, and a willingness to fullfill both. Love is
looking for the good during the hard times, and appreciating the good times
when they come. And I guess, love is seeing completion of yourself in the
eyes of another. ____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is to
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts of
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PoeticChaos
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posted on 10/7/2003 at 04:32 PM |
Love. Who is to say just what love is? I, personaly, believe it to be that
feeling you get when you are completely content with someone, even if they
sometimes annoy you or make you angry. But when you truly love someone, you
forgive them for their faults almost the moment they are displayed.
However, love can be taken away from you. So don't take it for granted and
as soon as you find it, hold on to it (without smothering the person) for
as long as you can, 'cause one day you could turn around and suddenly the
one you love could be gone from this world (or vis versa).
[Edited on 7/10/2003 by PoeticChaos] |
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Meranda_Jade
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posted on 12/6/2003 at 10:38 AM |
Schitzo, that was the most wonderful explanation of it that I have ever
heard... thank you... ____________________
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Dense
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posted on 11/6/2003 at 08:46 PM |
You still say you are sorry. Even though you were forgive before you even
asked. ____________________ i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius! |
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/6/2003 at 03:59 PM |
A famous movie star once said, "Real love means never having to say sorry."
I've got some guesses, but still contemplating on it more. |
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Psychopixi
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posted on 11/6/2003 at 04:55 AM |
Aww, that description made me feel all happy. Who needs Disney love? That
sounds just fine itself, and a heck of a lot more realistic. ____________________ Do not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate life. |
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Schizo
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posted on 10/6/2003 at 08:07 PM |
Love exists, it's just not quite as bright and shiny as the Disney movies
would like you to believe.
Love is damn tough stuff, and it's hard as nails. That heady, rushing
feeling you get around that special someone? That's not love, that's
adrenaline. It wears off. Actually, tends to come and go. If that's what
you're looking for, prepare to be disappointed.
The best definition of love that I can find is a willingness to do the hard
thing for another's benefit. Which can also be interpreted conversely, to
not do the easy thing for another's benefit. In other words, don't do
everything for someone who needs to do it on their own. Babying isn't
love. It's indulging your desire to be someone's fairy godmother.
Which is why love takes understanding. You can't love someone you don't
know. You can want to love them, but until you know what they need, you
won't be able to do anything about it. But I guess to take the trouble to
find out a person's needs is the first flowerings of real love.
And that's why love grows deeper, even if the excitement fades. Love has
very little to do with excitement. Excitement is to love what alcohol is
to nourishing food. They go very well together, but it's the food that is
necessary for life.
And there is no perfect person for you. There are no perfect people,
period. Just find someone whose faults you can accept. When you really
love someone, often the faults end up being the things that endear them to
you the most. And find someone who accepts your faults. And then you can
support each other as you deal with life and all its challenges.
You will find that love in its steadiness, as it lives beneath the scenes,
almost unnoticed, yet essential to every part of your life, will be far
more satisfying than the intoxicating burst of extacy that sometimes
accompanies the start of a relationship. ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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Dense
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posted on 10/6/2003 at 04:29 PM |
I have yet to see prof it doesn't. ____________________ i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius! |
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Remy
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posted on 10/6/2003 at 05:41 AM |
Either the fear of the alternative or hope, I would say. ____________________ "A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of
nothing." - Oscar Wilde |
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Abbadon
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posted on 10/6/2003 at 05:37 AM |
What makes everybody so sure love exists? ____________________ Light is changing to shadow, and casting a shroud over all we have known. |
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Dense
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posted on 9/6/2003 at 03:45 PM |
dress blues are free but you must cover shipping and handling ____________________ i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius! |
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MorteAscendo
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posted on 8/6/2003 at 04:15 PM |
God damn, The day i finally have some time to come one i choose the thread
where its just a Sailor bashing!!! What did i ever DO TO YOU!!!!! WAHHH!!
NEvermind, fuck that, I stand my ground and defend....ummm...shit, we do
suck. Screw it! CARRY ON!!!
And Dolo, you knew that i would be drawn to something like this i knew
that i was going to read it. Punk ass... Merry, Thanks for the back-up
chocolate starfish eater. ____________________ "Roses are Red, Violets are Blue. I'm a schizophrenic, and so am I". |
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Psychopixi
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posted on 8/6/2003 at 03:44 PM |
And Wales. Shipped to Wales too. ;o) ____________________ Do not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate life. |
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Erishkigal
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posted on 8/6/2003 at 09:02 AM |
Hmm... I'd done the same as you, and last year mocked my 15 year old best
friend for being in a year and a half long relationship at such a young
ago... My 1 yr anniversary is on Monday. Oops.
I dont think, as teenagers, we NEED to find love yet. I think the best kind
of love is the kind you get from your friends. I'm not denying I like to
have the Boy there, or I would have ditched him by now, but it was more
pure chance than actually hunting him down. We're still at the really early
stages of our lives, we dont need to get settled with anything just yet, or
anyone, at least in my opinion.
Hmmm... do the sailors come with those stripey little suits? And are they
willing to spend days in a small box being shipped to England? ____________________ Let viagra bring the magic back. |
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Dense
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posted on 7/6/2003 at 10:06 PM |
Here is another sailor for bidding on. Shall we start the bidding at one
dollar. As for relationships the best thing to do is go out and have some
fun than when you are not expecting it you meet some one. Some times it is
a good relationship some times it is not. But when it is all over in done
with make sure you learn a lesson from it. As for permanent ones I figure
if the two of you can't break it off after fights than it has the
possibility to go on for a very long time or it could be one of those
superficial things. How can you tell well... "you just know balls to
bone"-the Oracle ____________________ i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius! |
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 7/6/2003 at 01:28 AM |
Personal experiences are not the -best- thing to give advice on most of the
time. However, I've dated a guy for a year for him to dump me on Christmas
Eve and well...kind of sucks, but oh well. I have eyes on someone myself
and still a bit skeptical for I been burnt before so I know how you are
feeling there, but with a different set of reasons.
Enjoy life while you can, I guess...then again, I'm learning to do that
myself now. It's hard getting over my shyness. *yawn* I'll post more
later mayhaps. |
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 6/6/2003 at 10:21 AM |
Note to ladies: Previous advertisement is misleading. Please note: Salior
trianind entails ability to drink amounts of liquor and slep for extended
periods of time. Money spent is your own, usually on cigarettes, and lettle
treats bought to appease him. Has habit of yapping shrilly at odd times,
many times while "shining the brightworks."
If still interested, drop me a line. I am more than happy to ret him out. ____________________ Okay, dazzle me. |
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AloneSoul
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posted on 6/6/2003 at 10:08 AM |
If you’re patient then time is on your side...
Mostly. ____________________ but at least you know, just how much pain there is in living |
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