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Articles: Poor Poor Girl... |
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vampcourt on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 04:11 AM PST
My friends call them chickenheads. which is a slang for slut or whatever.. but i'd like to go more in depth with this stereotype..
They all act, dress, smell, giggle the same way. and what is thier quest? To plan thier whole entire lives around wether they *might* suck a dick at that *big fun* party! You try to explain to them that what they are doing is degrading to themselves and they dont wanna listen. i dunno if its just bred into them they have to be that way.. but its sooooo sad...
And then..they look at you like you're dirt because.. GODFORBID.. you think for yourself.. and thats what makes me dislike them..
Seriously.. Its annoying as shit when you try to have a normal conversation with them and all they want to talk about is how much weight they lost not eating for five days and how they hope "so and so" notices. It makes me wanna vomit. For christ sakes.. women are NOT supposed to be like that. But.. if you watch channels like MTV? its total breeding ground for that stereotype. Its so sad. You got these young 15 year old girls who focus their whole lives around looking pretty for the opposite sex. and not only that.. you have to be about 60 pounds and have fake boobs and lip jobs.
What is up with that? why can't women just not give a flying fuck and wear what they want.. eat what ever the fuck they want (and as much of it as they want). Smell however they please.. The list could on forever. But i think its re-gawdamn-diculouse.
And im not saying it's bad to be pretty.. or femme.. but i just see too much focus on being an object today in society. it's like.. you're not worth anything unless you're considered desirable enough to a male.
And its true.. I listen to guys.. I listen to how they talk.. "I would do her. yeah i'd bend her over a counter and give it to her." You never hear "well she's pretty, but she also has a kick ass sense of humor/personality/mind."
THAT'S sick. Sicky sick sick. I know this rant has weird opinions from me. but i dunno.. i guess it's an observation and I just wanted to see if any other girls see that.
Girls are so much more fun when they are themselves and comfortable with who they are.. not all frazzled out about who's lookin at them, and getting a boner... *snicker*
*oh yes.. and this rant isnt a mad angry thing towards all men.. only a few.. :)
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Ooh! Me First!
by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com)
on Feb 20, 2002 - 04:22 AM
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As someone who, in high school, was utterly clueless about fashion of any kind and never thought about how much I weighed and STILL got noticed by all those horny high school boys, who would have f***ed sheep if there hadn't been a social stigma, I have to say to these girls GET OVER YOURSELVES!!!!!
There is SO much more to life than whether this or that guy noticed you. Sure, having a guy is nice. There are lots of benefits, if you find the right one, BUT the right one will notice you regardless of whther you lost three pounds over the weekend or sucked him off at last night's party. Seriously.
Get out there, have a good time. If you look like you are having fun, people will notice you. People are drawn to fun (weird, huh?). Then, when you are old and 23 like me, you can lie around in your PJs all day while your guy who noticed you anyway asks if he can get you anything.
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Yaaar?
by Dolorosa on Feb 20, 2002 - 05:04 AM
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As the resident goth sailor...sex-addicted woman chaser and all around troublemaker...in an odd sort of way, I agree with what your saying. I'm guilty of the whole, look at a girl and say something along the lines like "Yeah, I'd tap her till her ears bled." However...I'll throw this out too, I do love and respect females for the multitude of their qualities, not just the sexual stuff. It's the mating game, a stupid primordial little instinct we have, where guys strut and act tough, while girls giggle and look pretty...it's like watching the discovery channel. It does make me kind of sick to my stomach. Still we're all victims (or participants) in it to some degree...Despite myself, sometimes I'm only interested in finding out about a girl's other qualities if her simplist and most apparent are pleasing. Girl's are a lot the same way if I'm not mistaken, they just look for different things.
I dunno', confusing myself again...which I seem to do often. Bottom line is, it happens...chickenheads should be shot on sight (just 'cause they're irratating bimbos who cater to equally irratating testo-jocks)...
By the way, at least once I've said "Wow...she's hilarious...I'd do her in a heartbeat." Based entirely off a girl I met on shore duty that was probably the most witty person I've ever met. For some people, despite how good we try to be...it all boils down to grunting and screwing.
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Re: Yaaar? by Xaoswolf (Xaoswolf@hotmail.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 06:19 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://Xaoswolf.tripod.com | I'm with Dolorosa here, I too have been known to say "I'd do her"(so much so, that when a pretty lady walks by, my friends just say "Yes, I know". But that is beside the point.). If I just see a girl from across the fountian in the mall, and I have never talked to her, don't know her, and can only see her rear as she bends over to tie her shoe, then what is wrong with thinking that. If I'm at a party, I normally wind up talking with the ladies(where oh where are these wild oral orgies you're talking about??) and then decide on whether or not they are funny, smart or what not. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by Rogue (judenouveau@yahoo.com)
on Feb 20, 2002 - 06:07 AM
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Doesn't sucking a dick at that *big fun* party fall under the category of "eat what ever the fuck they want (and as much of it as they want)."?? Second question, as a male i must ask exactly how i get invited to these parties if the female partygoers are planning such activities in advance...
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by Anonymous-Coward on Feb 20, 2002 - 06:35 AM | Im sitting at home, eating ice cream and laughing at those poor sods who waist their time trying to loose wait by starving them selves, Just so that some guy (who spends all day admiring his beautiful hair in his pocket mirror, thinking he's fonzy) notices them! Dont they know that there are guys out there that (how ever shallow they apear) actually care about what you like to do on the weekends,what kind of music your into, instead of, whats your bra size and are you a virgin?
Its time to start living without worrying abaot your weight or wether youve got the latest top.
Life is to short!!! |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 07:02 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.gothicamateur.com | Yeah, and if you get a guy who ONLY cares how much you weigh, that you have nice tits, or a spot-free face, and doesn't give a flying f*** what you like to do in your spare time, movies you like, music you listen to, etc...let me tell you, those relationships stop begin fun after the first day or so. He is only going to want the sex and not be at all interested in being involved in your life in any way. Ask yourself, is that what you really want?
You might think "I can change him and he will learn to love me", but you can't. I learned that one the hard way and wasted two years of my life on a guy who was never going to think being with me was better than being with any other girl.
Advice from someone who has been there: Be yourself. Let YOU shine. There is someone out there who will fall for you as you are, then you don't have to worry about changing him or changing for him. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by VampCourt (Morbidchic@hotmail.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 09:19 AM (User info | Send a Message) | Its really really good to see people agree.. especially girls.. :) |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 11:23 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.gothicamateur.com | Well, I hated highschool and was glad to escape. And if I guy wanted me to suck his cock, I'd make him beg for it. And then *maybe* I would, if I was in the mood. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 01:01 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.plynlymon.com | Im torn here; do i go for the obvious dick tease joke, or the obvious B&D joke? The dick tease ones all seem too obvious to say to a cam girl, and the B&D ones are funny but require gestures for full impact.... bummer.
I guess i have to go with option three; make fun of the shallow response that implicates the author as a chickenhead.
*sigh* back to work for me |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Feb 25, 2002 - 10:56 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/strangeasangels/ | Oh c, wading through life's little dilema's yet again so gracefully....
I've never heard "chickenhead" before...I thought they were called cock teases and uh, call me old fashioned...but I still thought they were called sluts?
I dont' get out enough. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 10:16 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.plynlymon.com | YOu get in good with the mistress of orgies and she plans some little gala event who's invite list is made up of brit'knee spears looka likes with no gag reflex (from all that scarf and barfing) and the need to have thier self-esteem validated by *ahem* 'real men'.
Or i can point you to a frat party and save myself the work...... |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by Rogue (judenouveau@yahoo.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 11:39 AM (User info | Send a Message) | Oh, the mistress of orgies is wise and powerful, the embodiment of female beauty and strength. Yea, she throws the best orgies, be they of sex or food or blood. Is it working yet? Thing is, i want a frat party without the frat...sorta like a gathering which is blatantly biased in the male:female ratios to improve the odds of finding these self-hating women with odd nutritional habits...
VampCourt, of course i knew what you meant, but my way is more fun and i have never been one to let reality or intention get in the way of a good dirty time. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 01:18 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.plynlymon.com | So alnmost any afterhours goth club with clean bathrooms will do? wow that makes my job easier! *waves her hands around and makes spooky noises*
So Dev, this auguest is your b-day right? and now we are all employed again.... and my parents want me to come up and house sit....
Do i hear a cult b-day orgy coming up? |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by Devin (devin-at-vibechild-dot-com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 08:32 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://devin.vibechild.com/ | I'm all for that :) But we might have to import people, cuz I can only think of one girl in Seattle that I'd let anywhere near me nekkid. (Won't she be flattered when she reads this). Anyone up for a vacation in the Northwest?
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by Xaoswolf (Xaoswolf@hotmail.com) on Feb 21, 2002 - 05:42 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://Xaoswolf.tripod.com | Hey, frat parties aren't all that bad, you just have to find the right frats. I mean if the frat you go to doesn't have the big guy with the viking helmet on that is very, very drunk, then you are at the wrong frat party. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by oohp (oohp@gotik.nu)
on Feb 20, 2002 - 11:05 AM
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Blah. Well it's true. Chickenheads want to be objects and they're treated as such. Most guys won't care if they got a "kick ass sense of humor/personality/mind" because chickenheads usually got none of those (see the 4th paragraph), so they're probably just "good fucks" I guess. And then, there are certain male idiots that probably lack (good) sex and what they do, well they talk that bullshit you mentioned.
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Re: Poor Poor Girl... by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com) on Feb 20, 2002 - 11:30 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.gothicamateur.com | These girls really do all look, act and dress exactly alike. There is nothing to choose between them. Girls, seriously, if you are just like everyone else, what is this hunky guy going to care if it's you or your best friend or your worst enemy sucking his cock, so long as someone is doing it? Be the one who stands out in the crowd. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by ravinsaend (-)
on Feb 20, 2002 - 12:46 PM
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Yes..it IS rather sickening.
I, for one, would rather see these poeple shot at low midinght(too bright at noon, my eyes would hurt and I wouldn't be able to see it) than have them anywhere close to being in my presence. Especially considering most of them are too stuck on themselves to ever listen to anyone, including me, even though some of them seem hellbent on BEING in my presence. Anyone that is going to act like that and not listen to me so they can realise how imbecilic they are being should disappear.
I for one, am one of those of the male variety that'll turn around and talk to the "ugly fat-ass" as some very stupid poeple would say, because she's more interesting to talk to than some stuck on herself, 60-pound bimbo, that doesn't know anything about anything other than, "Does this make me look fat?"
And some poeple wonder why I hate humanity so much...
Oh yes, and any man that doesn't realise women are worthless without a bit of personality should be shot along with said women.
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by Paladin_Black (zeppy4@hotmail.com)
on Feb 20, 2002 - 10:38 PM
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I think that it's society it's self for girls that wish to look "perfect" not many men care all that much.
There are some girls at my school that put on a ton of makeup (which could only be removed via shovel) and they still look hideous, and it's those girls that pick on me.
What’s worse still is they have nothing to pick on about.
But before I get carried away, no I don't believe girls have to look like dolls or princesses to attract males all they have to do is ask "hey do you like me?" the world would be a much better place. :P
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by Anonymous-Coward on Feb 24, 2002 - 06:02 PM
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You fucking dike tree hugger. It is quite simple. chicken heads don't mean shit to us, don't be jealous of them. As far as smelling or looking good us guys have to both smell or look good even to get the low end chicken heads, or at least slip them some ruffies. So quit complaining, go on a diet, and wear some purfume. Either that or get yourself a crew cut and join the carpet munching profession.
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Proactive Compensation by Monolycus on Feb 25, 2002 - 12:23 AM (User info | Send a Message) | Well... this is a new one. I have heard plenty of guys pout about how a woman must be a lesbian AFTER they get shot down, but after your comment about how "...guys have to both smell or look good (et cetera)", it seems you are putting the Horse of Compensation before the Cart of Rejection. Whatever gets you through the night, I s'pose. |
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Re: Proactive Compensation by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com) on Feb 25, 2002 - 11:42 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.plynlymon.com | When all you are doing is masterbating with someone else in the room, then i guess that it is important that they fit the fantasy in your head.
When you are actually having sex with someone, the fantasy in your head tends to be ABOUT that person.
This person may have had sex with someone in the same room, but they are still a virgin. And lets not get me started about virgins talking about the rules of sex.... |
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Keep a civil tongue in your head when addressing a lady, young man! by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com) on Feb 26, 2002 - 06:04 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.gothicamateur.com | I think this falls under the category of "feeling comfortable with being as rude and insulting as possible because of the anonymity of the net". Well, it's just not acceptable, pal. I think you owe someone an apology. If you can't state your opinion without being an asshole about it, I doubt anyone wants to hear it anyway.
I guess some people are just bitter because the "chickenheads" won't suck *their* cocks. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
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I so know what you mean, court, I see it every day.
I swear, when you work at the mall, life is reflected in the things you see at the mall.
I see twelve year old girls makeup that would make rupaul charles cringe and shorts that even daisy duke wouldn't touch. Ask them what they're up to today and "looking for guys".
Well, I take a mental image of everyone and how long it'll take before I see their face on the side of a soy milk carton.
I've been there too. Fat, ugly, etc. I had the biggest crush on a guy at the mall when I was a teenager, and he wouldn't look twice at me.
Someone I am now friends with brought him into my store one day and after a while of talking to her, I remembered it was the kid I had a crush on EONS ago. She said he told her I had a smackable ass and how hot I am. I laughed. I'm now a married woman as of sunday at 3:30pm, and I thought with self satisfaction and my happiness with the best man in the world I can call mine, and thought "not good enough for you then, too fucking good for you now."
All I hear from girls is debate on who is dating/fucking who, how much weight they have to lose to wear a skirt that is 1" shorter when it should be about 5" LONGER, and how to meet boys.
Call me a dyke if you will, but I never focused on that at that age. I was busy with school and the few friends I had and on SURVIVAL. My husband met me when I was just on the last leg of my weight loss marathon (which was done NOT by puking or starving, I did it the old fashioned way) and though how someone looks is top of the list of first impressions, we realized quickly the wonderful things we saw in each other, not how well we packed into our pants (though that is NOT a bad thing).
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Kids should be kids by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com) on Feb 26, 2002 - 06:14 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.gothicamateur.com | You only get to be a kid for so long. Young people should be out there enjoying youth without the emotional trauma for a few years. There's plenty of time to find a mate later. You have a precious few years to learn the skills to get you through the rest of your life, and the quickest way to get laid is not the most important skill.
I think back on all those girls in high school who were pretty and popular and who had a dozen guys drooling after them all the time. Most of them now have a couple of kids and work at McDonalds and never left town.
What about me? I, a HUGE nerd in high school with no fashion sense at all, am on the other side of the world, studying archaeology and living with a man I love and who loves me. I have a naughty website which mean there are maybe hundreds or even thousands of guys who would not be averse to having sex with me, and guess what? I don't care!
Be a kid, learn the important things, and you will have a better life to live in the long run. |
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Re: Poor Poor Girl...
by DarkMistress on Jul 06, 2002 - 09:15 AM
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This girl who was my friend a few years ago is just like that. I've been goth since...well forever. We're only 13. She's not goth and she doesn't want to be seen with a goth. But she tells me secrets of hers a lot. Recently her dad found her diary and read it, it told about how she gave a guy who was high a blow job and she only knew him for an hour. Let someone who she knew was a loser dress her in her swimming suit, and she made out with him. Made out with a bunch of different guys from the local *pop* club where ironically most STD's are spread. They grounded her for a week, then the same day that she was let off her grounding she went to the club. She told me that her parents said that it was wrong to go through her stuff, thats why she could go. I think it's bull shit. If you're going to ground the girl then don't say YOU'RE wrong! The fact is-you can't possibly feel good about yourself if you're doing shit like that. Especially if you're this age and especially if you don't know the guys you're doing it with. I don't go to parties because the guys that are at them will probably rape me and I don't want to be around people who are idiots. If I could find a guy who liked me for me then I'd be fine, I'm not going to go out of my way to get the attention of some loser who can't see how great I am. hehe.
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