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Articles: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... |
Posted by
bettie_x on Sunday, November 11, 2001 - 04:20 AM PST
*sigh*I've had my feeling hurt.Just for fun, my fiance put a very nice picture of me up on www.amigothornot.com to see what would happen. It was for laughs, as it is a ridiculous website, but very fun to play on when you are bored, and a favorite of mine next to retaking the tests on the spark or pleading for answers on a messageboard :)
I usually am pretty middle of the road about my looks. I know I am an attractive girl, not a playmate hotpants knockout, but I'm pretty. Same with the gothdom bit. I'm middle of the road, could go either way, I just like bats and black clothes..is that so bad?ANYWAY....I had my self esteem a good bolstering...ranking in at about a 6.3 or so...I checked today, and I was at a 5.8. I checked the stats, and some people had gone through and given me so many 1's that it knocked my points down 5 percents!This is so stupid, but it made me really sad and I don't understand why.Like I said, I know I'm not a knockout, but I'm NOT a 1! Am I?I also saw some very pretty girls who had the same thing happen, those that I would give a 10 over and over and over, who were blasted down with a barrage of 1's. I'm not talking just hot, but ethreal beauties that'd make your lipstick curl! 1's!have any of you been to that website? Are you one of those petty catty jealous people that try to kill someone's self esteem, even if it's on a ridiculous website?I just don't get it.Is this pointless? Stupid? Am I dilusional or just suffering a fit of self loathing brought on by something totally beyond my cotrol or contempt?I'm eating onion rings with barbeque sauce to counter the effects...it's not working.here's the link to the picture:http://www.amigothornot.com/r/?eid=OVEV&key=BDYSPLet me know if they are right *sniff*and if not, give me a ten and show those bitches who's goth...er..boss. ps- and just for the RECORD, I'm a 6.7 on hotornot.com....so there. :(I'm gonna go see if there's any booze or soy icecream in the freezer...maybe that'll help :(
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com)
on Nov 11, 2001 - 10:32 AM
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You are a babe darlin' and catty, scared preteens are going to hate you for it, they cant help it. Our society teaches women to hate every other woman that they see.
If it makes you feel any weirder, i heard about that site while eavesdropping on some xian kids that go there to be mean to goths (satan's little helpers was what they called goths. that is why i started listening to thier conversation)
*hands over the soy icecream* Its vanilla swirl and there are gummybears in the fridge, next to the salsa.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by BlueVampyress on Nov 11, 2001 - 11:48 AM (User info | Send a Message) | nevermind those idiots!i like your picture!plus..its is really nice and you are beautiful..i gave you a ten! |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Nov 11, 2001 - 10:48 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/strangeasangels/ | You guys are nice....I don't even think I'm 10 status, but a 1?! I'm not fishing for votes either, but I can't figure out why it bugs me so much! I put it up as a joke, and for curiosity's sake if nothing else, but it made me sad!
I saw a horrid girl in bad crow makeup who's score was higher than mine!
It's stupid....but the garlic mashed potatoes I've been stuffing my face with seemed to help...
satan's little helpers...hehe...if only they knew...*snicker* |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by Silvernyte (silvernyte@hotmail.com)
on Nov 11, 2001 - 01:26 PM
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I'm with callei and bluevampyress. I thought you were a cutie when I first say you in the mall. I voted a ten for you. Everybody has their own tastes and some people just can't stand it if someone looks better than they might, old or young. I have seen very few goths that I thought were down right ugly. We all have a beauty about us in our own way, men and women alike.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Nov 11, 2001 - 10:50 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/strangeasangels/ | aw*
It's funny, barely any of my regulars know my name, but when they drop by or call for me, I'm "that black haired girl with the seahorse tattoo"
I still haven't seen you! Incognitopants...
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Heh, look on the bright side.
by Comedian (comedian@callatg.com)
on Nov 11, 2001 - 02:40 PM
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At least Cliff Yablonski hasn't gone trolling down there to pick up new pictures for his site yet. Goths give him a lot of fuel for the fire.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by Fergshmuck on Nov 11, 2001 - 03:41 PM
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How adorable.. oddities competing for status?
In any event, I was a hard, cold bitch at voting in that place.. but you, my dear, earned either a 9 or a 10.. I can't remember.
Only 2 girls I saw got 1's, and that was because they made even ME cringe.
`rik
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Nov 11, 2001 - 10:56 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/strangeasangels/ | I'm not so harsh as I am honest...it's not so much their attractiveness, I look at what's in the background like posters, paintings, whether or not they bothered to move the box of goldfish crackers out of the scene, clothing, hair etc.
I rarely give out 1's, about as often as I give out tens....
But I don't understand the purpose of just going out willy nilly smashing self images because your's sucks. I think it's because it's anonymous. Stupid cowards...
I'm gonna go check my rating again. I'm thinking of just taking the damned thing down and being done with it. |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by NightSide (nightside@vampirefreeks.com)
on Nov 12, 2001 - 08:54 AM
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Well.... You should have no worries. Remember people like to poke fun and it is not that often ment as spite, look at my pic and the comments in the member pics here.... But I figure that I am doing pretty damn good all things concidered at 47 (ya remember we have been around a long time just not popular and neatly catorgorized). I guess one gets to the point that what others think don't matter so much eventually....
Betty you ARE a very pretty girl and don't let one or two jerks bug you. Remember the ones that gave you the low marks could well be gay..... Or just hate others that look better then they do..... In any case from reading your writing you do KNOW that you are not a 1, don't let some dirtbag that has a hot mouse finger mess your day. From what I saw there one person can vote over and over so it was like as not just one jerk-off trying to make everyone feel as bad as they do when they look in the mirror.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by whitedove on Nov 12, 2001 - 01:35 PM
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Listen, you are beautiful. You have to understand that there are those hateful brats that think it is fun to go to Goth sites and post hateful messages, flame members, and even vote low on polls of how 'goth' a person looks. Another thing that was already mentioned was that - Women are raised now to think of all women as competition and to not look at them as beautiful. amigothornot.com defaults the view to show both male and female pictures, so young girls will vote you a one and asshole overly religious people (who are actually curious or aroused by us, because if they weren't they would not be there) will give you ones. Don't let people who only wish they could be like you get you down. Your fiance thinks your beautiful, and that should be all you need - but if it isn't, I think you look awesome.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Nov 12, 2001 - 06:47 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/strangeasangels/ | Well said. I know all this, and I didn't want it to sound like I was fishing for compliments or good votes or anything, but I was just a little miffed, angry, and confused.
That's why I don't really associate with women that much as that is how the really ARE!
Even if you are married or taken, they still viewed you as a threat to something....their relationship (even though you are married), their popularity, their status.
Hell, just watch elvira: mistress of the dark
Patty in that movie was just like the girls I run into...shallow, superficial, jealous, catty, and ignorant. Hell, it's a superficial website, but that's no reason to be goddamned MEAN.
and yes, my fiance thinks I'm pretty...and that is more than enough I could ever want... |
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My love
by Anonymous-Coward on Nov 13, 2001 - 04:35 PM
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You don't ever have to worry about your looks. You are a beautiful star. We can all aspire to be you. You are perfect in every detail. I love your smile and the sound of your sweet voice. Your eyes melt me and in your arms I find comfort and love. I will be yours forever. I can only wish that you will be mine. I am so lucky to have you.
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Listen here
by VampCourt (Morbidchic@hotmail.com)
on Nov 16, 2001 - 06:01 AM
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betty im not going to tell you that your pretty.. you seem to have a good understanding of that. but dont let a stupid website like that knock down your Esteem. I am so hateful twards the media and how the media proclaims how women should be.
Oh your not pretty unless you have massive tits and a frail bone rack of a body. so basically men want half dead dying malnutritioned pumped up on silicon women. Thats discusting. and for that, THat website is discusting. So fuck that. Fuck it in the goat ass. You should write a letter to the person who runs that website and let them know what silly little chicldren they are being. Who the fuck cares if your goth or not to a buncha people you dont even know. your you. enjoy who you are and life your life. FUCK that website. :D
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
on Nov 17, 2001 - 12:18 PM
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I really want to stress that I'm not fishing for compliments, though you've all been far nicer to me than those jerks on that page.
Yeah, it's superficial, yeah, it's ridiculous. It's not the people who put up the page, hell I put my picture up there myself! Nobody twisted my arm, and my complaint isn't with them at all. I actually like the website, if it isn't good for a laugh, it's good for finding neat outfits or makeup or hair ideas. And it's a good way to pass a long dull sunday night when I get off work or can't sleep.
Maybe it's just that of the people there I'm alone in my ideals that someone can be prettier than me and that IT'S OKAY. That as a girl I can see pretty girls and appreciate it, and I DON'T view them as competition, hell, I've got michael, I keep my looks up, what is there to compete against?
I think maybe it's just because I don't try to kid myself thinking that every girl is out to get me, trying to outdo me, and that looks are everything. But as I don't hang around girls very much, I guess I got blindsided thinking that the typical female stereotype was a myth, save for some instances I've encountered....an exception, not the rule.
It's been very educational to say the least...
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by Anonymous-Coward on Nov 21, 2001 - 05:58 PM
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Im not signed up on here, so i cant put a name, and 'cause im scared im'a lose this site.. Ahem. Now, as for the thing. Honey, you're a beautiful girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont get down on yourself because of that, as for the goth thing, gah, who cares? As someone who is seen that way... i just say, "I am who i am, live with it. No fucking labels. Period."
ontop of that.... 99.9% of people think goth is about worshipping manson and listening NIN and cutting and satanism. Is it?
Im hoping your answer is No. Because it isn't. People are people. And people are stupid.
*sigh* gah, human ignorance is so underrated.
Love,
Tasia aka Raven
Poorsicktwistdme@aol.com
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by Anya on Jan 20, 2003 - 02:39 PM
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The site wasn't able to show up in my window. :(
But anyway, don't worry about people like that - it's their problem if they're not attracted to you...not your's. Besides, beauty is "in the eye of the beerholder. ;)" figure of speech wise.
I'm pretty vain myself, but only for I have a low self-esteem...so I have little room to talk. But I can say this much: physical beauty sometimes is a natural thing people look at, but if they cannot discern a deeper meaning, then you cannot say their judgment is accurate, no?
Maybe it's a different story with everyone, but from the wisdom, expression and goodies you give to this site, I think you're beautiful. :) It's who...not what, that makes the beauty of someone.
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com) on Jan 20, 2003 - 04:49 PM (User info | Send a Message) http://bettie_x.tripod.com/ | Oh god I totally know that, believe me, and my husband submitted my picture to the site as a joke, which only ended up revealing the cattiness of the general female population! I saw girls there that were drop dead GORGEOUS...curl your nails gorgeous...who'd recieved a score of LOW low numbers, which made me seriously angry, because you KNOW that they were given by other girls!
I don't think that pysical beauty is the end all and be all of life, not at all....but I guess as an artist I'm very focused on asthetics and I am a very visual person. I like to see pretty people (and pretty doesn't mean thin, or perfect either) and I can appreciate pretty people. Hell, most of my work are female figures! Some are concentration camp thin, some are chubby lovies.
I think the anger comes from the fact that I was once again proved right that girls are hopeless...and who wants to be right about that? |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by AltarielOfTheUnderworld (seregiel@hotmail.com) on May 21, 2003 - 12:51 PM (User info | Send a Message) http:// | I believe the whole web page moved to www.gothornot.com , but then again, I guess there's a whole lot of those pages out there... |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED... by Erishkigal on May 21, 2003 - 01:45 PM (User info | Send a Message) | Yes, it has. My pic is up there too... lol... purely as a joke. Its the most posey and cliched gawth pic... I am taking in down within the next couple of days. |
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Re: www.amigothornot.com. I'm SOO PISSED...
by morbid-freak (morbid-freak@myhellhole.com)
on Aug 20, 2003 - 04:11 PM
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I think you are just lovely, I havent visited the site except to see your picture and I think gothic goes far beyond looks I think the site is kinda stupid. But everyone has their own thing. Im not one to argue,I rated you a perfect 10 :) dont give a fuck what they say, your better than them anyway. well, Later
Love always,
^Morbid^
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