I hate it when you are talking to a girl you know, and her
cousin/sister/friend messages you to ask what you think of her.
Then you have to wonder, did your friend put her up to this, or is this an
unsolicited questioning? And if it's unsolicited, will she tell her
friend? Does she think the same as you? will this just make things weird?
Is it already too late and things are already weird?
A pox on you women, why not just ask yourself?
Seriously, most guys like that...
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angel_of_death
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 12:09 AM
its a fear of rejection thing...
____________________ I know whats it like to want to die, how it hurts to smile, how you try to
fit in but you can't, how you hurt yourself on the outside, to try to kill
the pain in the inside.
I don't really think it is a fear of rejection at all... I personally think
it is a power trip thing... you let the guy know that you are interested,
it gets his missile in a twist and then you can play with him at your
liesure...
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MystryssRavynDarque
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 10:14 AM
I think you got that right Feral. Girls are tricky, but so are boys. It's
all a rough game if you asked me. Everybody teasing everybody and
everybody being crazy. Hormones drive us mad!
____________________ "People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell
MRD: you give most men wayyyy too much credit... the average male is to
fucking dumb to pull that off
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Zero
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 06:48 PM
feral: that's probably the only thing i'll ever agree with you on....yes
men are dumb...and as a man i feel i can say that.
The whole dating thing is such a fucking stupid game. i hate it so fucking
much. i had my feel of it when i realised that everyone here only came to
get laid. that's all anyone seems to be worried about. It sucks! Then i
realised the games that we all play. I pretend not to notice a girl staring
at me and she pretends like she isn't staring and we do this all through
lunch.....then she speaks and i get so freaked out i almost choke on my
Hamburger. The whole things enough to make me wanna swear off the opposite
sex for a while (longer).
____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak." ~
The Sandman, Dream Country
I didn't come here to get laid.....and nobody here would try it, cuz they
know I'd kick their ass and then have my husband kill them.
There is a simple rule to follow, beleagured fellows of the male
chromosome.
Men are from mars, girls are from HELL. Period. I'm a woman, and I can't
stand us most of the time. We are (most of us, not all are this way)
rotten, vindictive, childish, competetory two faced wicked manipulators.
There are some good girls out there, we're not all that way, and most of us
hate the way most women are. They ruin it for the rest of us, and drive me
out of my skull. I feel for you guys, I really really do.
____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas.
I didn't come here to get laid.....and nobody here would try it, cuz they
know I'd kick their ass and then have my husband kill them.
There is a simple rule to follow, beleagured fellows of the male
chromosome.
Men are from mars, girls are from HELL. Period. I'm a woman, and I can't
stand us most of the time. We are (most of us, not all are this way)
rotten, vindictive, childish, competetory two faced wicked manipulators.
There are some good girls out there, we're not all that way, and most of us
hate the way most women are. They ruin it for the rest of us, and drive me
out of my skull. I feel for you guys, I really really do.
____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas.
DeathFromLife
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 09:20 PM
girls do nothing but fuck with your mind... and guys are too stupid to know
what's going on.
there are times when guys might think they know what's going on or they
might think they know they are being mind fucked, but chances are... when a
guy senses a mind fuck... it's not really like that at all.
and i can say this because i'm a guy and it happens all the time.
but related to the topic: dating sucks. and it is stupid when people get
their friends involved. it reminds me of all the middle school melodrama
love-affairs that spread through the halls like a disease. a very...
annoying, short lived, virus.
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Andree
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 09:59 PM
LIke a virus except you're not immune the second time around.
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dead-cell
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 10:58 PM
Most women are egotistical maniacs. Those that are the exception usually
gravitate to this site. Really to women it is all about their ego a good
example would be Mrs. Macbeth. She was one evil, sneaky, power hungry
bitch. Yet another testimony to Shakespeare knowing his shit. So, yeah
women being evil is nothing new.
____________________ co-worker: "Your gay!?"
myself: "Didn't you see my rainbow pin?"
co-worker: "I just thought you liked skettles."
-(yes, it actually happened to me)
Zero: guess what... most of us came here to do something other than get
laid... and your statement, while heartflet was infinitely insulting...
Death from life: we cannot help it... like all primates wwe respond on an
instinctual level like a trtibe... and we will always do so...
dead cell: HUMANTS are egotistical Lying pieces of shit... not just women,
not just men
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dead-cell
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posted on 13/8/2004 at 11:35 PM
quote:
dead cell: HUMANTS are egotistical Lying pieces of shit... not just women,
not just men
This is true. Perhaps I should have stated it as men are less concerned
about climbing imaginary social ladders.
____________________ co-worker: "Your gay!?"
myself: "Didn't you see my rainbow pin?"
co-worker: "I just thought you liked skettles."
-(yes, it actually happened to me)
angel_of_death
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 12:22 AM
in the defence of chicks, if guys wernt so dumb, there would be no need for
manipulating ect... you guys dont take hints, thats why games get played,
learn to take hints!
____________________ I know whats it like to want to die, how it hurts to smile, how you try
to
fit in but you can't, how you hurt yourself on the outside, to try to
kill
the pain in the inside.
gothicmorman
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 01:11 AM
there was this one guy in my german class in grade nine. he like me. so he
asked me out. i liked him so i said yes. now we are going out, we will most
likely be going out for a very long time. it seems simple to me, but i have
had a friend ask me to ask a guy what they think of her before, i said " i
dont understand, he is sitting across the room why dont you ask him
yourself" she got mad at me and called me a bitch. i still dont quite
understand.
personally i agree with bettie. lots of girls are just players and they go
through guys like they go through cute little ankle socks.
angel of death - many guys are too dumb to take hints, it is true.
therefore they should be told straight out. " hi i have a crush on you and
would like to get to know you better, would you like to go on a date?" but
of course that would defy the social rule that guys ask out girls... oh
dear no, my poor heart, i think i might go read a book...
the ruthless
Zero
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 07:24 AM
To feral and bettie: Guesss what, i didn't mean the website...i meant here
as in where i am....college..i thought you guys would have figured it out
by what i wrote
" I pretend not to notice a girl staring at me and she pretends like she
isn't staring and we do this all through lunch.....then she speaks and i
get so freaked out i almost choke on my Hamburger."
Then you assumed...."hey, he must be talking about the site"..whoops..sorry
[Edited on 14/8/2004 by Zero]
____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak."
~
The Sandman, Dream Country
Zero: ok... my bad... BUT...when you are posting HERE... EVERYONE assumes
that HERE is HERE... unless you sepcify that HERE is THERE...
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Meranda_Jade
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 03:11 PM
You know what I hate? Boys who say they would rather girls be more
forthright about saying what they want, about stating their feelings, and
then using that and trampling right over them. That's what I hate. Any idea
why they do that? Why do boys like girls only when they play hard-to-get
games and treat the rare honest ones like filthy whores? Maybe if boys were
less cruel, girls wouldn't feel the need to be cruel either.
Seriously guys, more girls would be willing to ask you how you feel about
them if they weren't afraid of getting a shitty response and dumped the
next instant.
The reason they send their girlfriends to ask about it is to avoid just
that sort of confrontation. Most boys, if you corner them, especially in
the beginning of a relationship and ask things like, "So, where is all this
going?" will feel trapped and smothered and the first thing that comes
out of their mouths is usually something amazingly hurtful and mean. I'm
sure they don't really mean it. I'm sure it's just because they panic and
can't think straight. It's easier for you to talk to the girl's best friend
about it so the girl can be a little more sure of your intentions before
she goes and invests more of her feelings into you and raises her risk of
getting hurt.
Just take it for what it is, she's showing her interest in you in a safe,
non-threatening manner. Work with it and eventually you'll be able to
communicate directly with each other, after some trust has had a chance to
build up.
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Zero
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 04:13 PM
quote:Zero: ok... my bad...
BUT...when you are posting HERE... EVERYONE assumes that HERE is HERE...
unless you sepcify that HERE is THERE...
is that from Alice in wonderland? ok Mad hatter what did you do with
feral?
I keeed keeed
MJ: I've been screwed over by that before. and i didn't much care for it.
If you're interested, make it known don't get your best freind to ask
us...and then change you're mind after your freind successfuly convinces us
to ask you out...which completly changes the whole relationship creating
intensly awkward moments.
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speak."
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The Sandman, Dream Country
Anonymous
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posted on 14/8/2004 at 05:07 PM
quote:in the defence of chicks,
if guys wernt so dumb, there would be no need for manipulating ect... you
guys dont take hints, thats why games get played, learn to take hints!