beastwithin
Coward   Posts: 5 Registered: 17/7/2003 Status: Offline
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 posted on 18/7/2003 at 04:07 PM |
| Hello this is the new and improve beast. I had to go a little underground
with getting a girl friend and all (and i lost my password and i dont have
the same email as before). Lets get to the point. I was going out with
this girl that i dug and i think that she dug me too. We did every thing
together. But she also had space so i wasnt smothering her. So here is
the million dollar question WHY THE FUCK DID SHE BREAK UP WITH ME???? ____________________
Death is the final answer but if you are going to have fun on the way there
remember this are babys going to die.
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Cashmere
Member   Posts: 58 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 05:20 PM |
What good will it do asking complete strangers that question? It would be
far more effective to just ask her if you really wanted to know the reason.
[Edited on 7/19/2003 by Cashmere] ____________________
"Truth is always on the move. It is always somewhere, but never in the
foreground, never on the surface."
-Franz Marc
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic   Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 08:10 PM |
Yeah. I agree with Cashmere. Gotta ask her first THEN vent to us.
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Dense
Member  Posts: 73 Registered: 5/6/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 08:21 PM |
Because you have buck teeth.
No but really I can't help you out with that little info. I am in
adgreeance with Cashmere though. Me perrsonally had never had a relatonship
that sucked. Some that ended crappy, but hey leasons have been learned and
not repeated. So I am on disageeance with you on the title. Some have
crappie times others may leave a some thing in your heart that is simulair
to that hang over taste. I personnally though enjoy them even the bad ones. ____________________
i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius!
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beastwithin
Coward Posts: 5 Registered: 17/7/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 08:07 AM |
| In her exact words to me this is what it was "your a awsome boyfriend but
im not ready for a realationship, we can still be friends" ____________________
Death is the final answer but if you are going to have fun on the way
there
remember this are babys going to die.
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MystryssRavynDarque
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 648 Registered: 24/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 09:00 AM |
| These are issues which we know nothing of. We do not know her, we do not
know what she wanted or what you wanted. You were very vague with your
tale of heartbrake, so perhaps if you elaborate, but if you are unable to
do so, then you are screwed here. Go ask her! I asked my ex boyfriends
why they broke up with me so that I could learn about myself, and frankly
it has helped a bit. Perhaps if you ask her this will grant you the
opportunity to grow. So go be fertelized by your own manure. ____________________
"People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell
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beastwithin
Coward Posts: 5 Registered: 17/7/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 01:14 PM |
| Here is the deal people. I go to get my tarot cards read about once a
month. So the morning after she dumped my sorry ass i went to get them
read. The cards said that I had just lost my love but right after that
there was a sign of rebirth. But it was under one condition. That i dont
bloody talk to her. That is why I cannot elaborate any further. Honestly
i would if i could. but i am just trying not to fuck things up cosmicly.
I am only trying to find sugestions and trying to start a forum for a place
to vent for myself and other people in the same situations. ____________________
Death is the final answer but if you are going to have fun on the way
there
remember this are babys going to die.
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Dense
Member Posts: 73 Registered: 5/6/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 02:11 PM |
| I think you are the only one that is in this situation. I can under stand
your need to vent, so I am relaxed with it. As far as fucking up the cosmos
I would do it. But this is for personal reasons. I like to supprise the
heavens every now and then. It keeps them on there toes. You aparantly do
not par-take in that chaos. (I can't blame you they have a nastie bite,
turst me I know.) So in your situation I reconmend that tonight get piss
ass durnk while watching the stars. Than tomorrow nurse the hang over. In
the process, if you are wise, you will realize that with wine and life you
should take your time. Because rushing things will just cause head-aches. ____________________
i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius!
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic   Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 08:45 PM |
| I place the blame squarely on exceedingly bad grammar. ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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Dense
Member Posts: 73 Registered: 5/6/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 09:37 PM |
| mistakes can bee embarrassing. I won't edit so your post is not out of
place. I should have slowed down. ____________________
i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius!
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Mutant_Duckie
Member  Posts: 68 Registered: 13/7/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/7/2003 at 12:10 PM |
agreed. Relationships suck.  ____________________
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QUACK!
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beastwithin
Coward Posts: 5 Registered: 17/7/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/7/2003 at 09:50 PM |
I think i made a step in the right direction. Last night i was a little
drunk and was online on my I M I see that my x was on and yesterday being
her b-day and all i said happy birthday to her before i loged off. The
only trick was i loged off as soon as i sent it. I would like some info on
if that was a good or bad thing.
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Death is the final answer but if you are going to have fun on the way
there
remember this are babys going to die.
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/7/2003 at 09:53 PM |
I cannot say for hindsight is only 20/20, but I'll tell you what many
elders have told me: it's what you make of it.
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Cashmere
Member Posts: 58 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/7/2003 at 06:44 AM |
| I can see why it would also be a good thing to not talk with her. Can you
handle *just* being friends? If you cannot handle or if you ahve to
convince yourself to talk with her then don't do it. If you will only be
bitter and obsees about the past every time you see her, then you are not
ready to be in hers or anyone else's life. Figure out how you are right
now, then don't try to talk with her until it doesn't hurt. ____________________
"Truth is always on the move. It is always somewhere, but never in the
foreground, never on the surface."
-Franz Marc
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callei
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/7/2003 at 10:38 AM |
I bet she jsut didnt want to have sex with you. no point dating you and
getting all caught up the dating bs when you arent going to get laid,
right?
*really needs to stop drinking coffee* ____________________
Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and vampires
away.
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Abbadon
Fanatic  Posts: 499 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 03:35 PM |
| hehehe, wheres the fun in knowing? ____________________
Light is changing to shadow, and casting a shroud over all we have known.
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 31/7/2003 at 04:54 PM |
I blame the Tarot cards. They're lying...they're jealous. Go talk to her.
Nothing except death and boredom was ever achieved by sitting on your
ass...although arguably a few folks have achieved enlightenment that
way...shit, thats a really bad metaphor.
I suggest, taking the hockey mask off, being her friend...going out for
coffee or something with her and finding out a lot more about her...it's
fairly obvious your missing some details on the who and why of who she is.
Figure them out and then you have two options.
Seduce the unholy crap out of her by doing everything right that needs to
be done right, and when you do something wrong, do it in an endearing and
charming way. Also, subtly eliminate all threats to your goal through
passive aggressive rumor mongering and manipulation. If your canny and
cunning enough...voila, you'll have the lady...although you might think
differently of yourself in the end...eh.
Or...you could get her really fucking drunk. Thats always a gimme. Besides,
theres nothin' wrong with X-sex.
Personally I say...fuck da' cosmos.
And Tarot cards are only good for poker. ____________________
In the valley of the Goats, the Goat Fucker is King
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Dense
Member Posts: 73 Registered: 5/6/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 1/8/2003 at 12:15 AM |
| I am right there with you dolorosa ____________________
i am a misunderstood genius... Nobody understands that i am a genius!
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HuntressPlague
Occasional Poster   Posts: 29 Registered: 2/8/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 5/8/2003 at 08:34 AM |
UGH!!!!!!!! What ever happened to go with how you feel? Yes love sucks ...
Sucks to hell and back. Humans judge the littles things. If it is nothing
like their picture dream then they can not go for what is in front of them.
*grumbles* They forget that it is the soul and not the shell. That you
should want someone who completes you. Humans have waaaay to many issues.
Ok I bitch to much but when you spend about 2 years alone cause a) you have
a child and b) you have to many animals... Hello people LMAO I'll shut up
now. I think I wrote to much 
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