I have decided today that all common decency in this world has been lost.
Heres the picture. I have a female friend named Carlotta who I hang out
with quite a bit. Shes fun to hang out with, smart, witty, beautiful, and
has the same warped sense of humor I do. Who wouldn't want to hang out with
her ? As far as shes concerned I'm her big brother and I consider her my
little sister. She is married and I have no problem with that what so ever.
Shit, I go over to her house occasionally and her husband and I go out
drinkin or what ever and leave her there. (boys night out) She does
however have a drinking problem and usually when we go out I stop after
about 3 drinks so I can baby sit. Its not the greatest way to spend a night
but I would rather I go out with her and make sure she is alright, because
shes gonna go wether I do or not. A few times she has put me in akward
situations which luckily she was too drunk to remember. Despite the
oppritunities I've had I have more respect for her and her husband than
that. Anyway, back to all hope being lost. After the latest adventure with
Carlotta last week I have had about a dozen or so people I know tell me
things like "You should just do her." "You know you want her" or "Just give
her the dick." Are these fuckin people kidding me ? Are they such low
scum that they would take advantage of someone like this in a situation
where they know they can't consciously make decisions for themselves ? And
what about respect ? Shes fuckin married for christ sake !!! I dunno, but
to me thats somethin I think is pretty damn important and not something I
would want to be a part of ruining. If she was sober and single at the time
its a completely different story, but things bein what they are I don't see
how people could think like this. Please tell me I'm not the only one who
sees it this way. I need a little reaffirmation that the entire world
doesn't just suck...
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Closetgothbabe
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 05:31 AM
I think you should just tell her, while she is sober what she does
everytime she gets really trashed. Maybe it will stop then or she just wont
get as drunk.
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Meranda_Jade
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 05:47 AM
It's never cool to take advantage of a drunk person. Those people who say
you should are completely dishonorable. Not everyone in the world is like
that, but the people who do have a sense of honor and nobility are few and
far between. The entire world doesn't suck, but large parts of it do. I'm
glad you at least are one of the good guys.
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Ironboots
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 06:30 AM
You rock! You're a good friend, Geist! (good is an understatement)
And you can tell those other buggers to fuck off, they have no respect...
Makes you wonder who their mother is...
But I agree, this world is falling to pieces. When I look around my third
period class and think that this is the world's future leaders, I cringe.
These -chronological- seniors don't have one smidgen of respect for anyone.
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KatB
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 08:33 AM
'Common decency' is sounding more and more like a contradiction in terms.
You sound like a true friend.
Of course, some people are OK with 'open marriages', but I don't believe
that was the issue here at all.
I think I just feel sorry for the people you mentioned. Thay really lack
some ethical standards. But hey! what's new.
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RavensSoul
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 09:05 AM
It's a shame what people will try to get other people to do, just to get
some drama. These "friends" who were telling you to have sex with your
other drunk friend probably wanted to be around when the shit hit the fan
about the two of you sleeping toghether and more than likely they would
have acted all self-righteous about it.
I really hope I don't grow up to be like that. It's kind of a depressing
thought, really. But at least you're a decent person. It's nice to hear of
someone who actually has morals about what they will and won't do. *
especially when it comes to people you love and trust, or who love and
trust you *
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callei
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 12:03 PM
Just to flip things around a bit....
Congrats on not letting her take advantage of you! It is a little unfair of
her to treat you like a convenient hard-on when she is blitz, but, when
people get really drunk they tend to stop thinking about the consequences
of thier actions. Its nice to see that you stand up for yourself and havent
let her use you.
MystryssRavynDarque
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posted on 28/3/2003 at 01:41 PM
Wonderful, wonderful of you Geist. Nobody should have advantage taken of
them when they are intoxicated. If the person has told you they would have
sex with you, then they get drunk, ask their permission and then go about
your business with them, if they say no, don't, if they are too drunk to
have no idea about what is going on or has not given their permission in
the first place, do not invade their space. I know a guy who fucked a girl
at a party because she was drunk and had no idea. Now nobody has any
respect for him. Don't be like him.
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Anonymous
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posted on 30/3/2003 at 10:52 AM
You’re not the only one who sees it this way.
Taking advantage of someone who’s under the influence is wrong.
Good boy Geist, you've earned a toffee!
Seriously, way to be a real gentleman. Next time someone tells you to do
otherwise, flip out and go ninja on they asses.
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Geist
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posted on 30/3/2003 at 05:29 PM
TOFFEE !!! Anyone else got food for me ? I promise I'll be good. I'm pretty
well trained and house broken too...
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Mara
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posted on 30/3/2003 at 06:10 PM
Heres a cookie hun...... i wish some guys would take a lesson from you
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Closetgothbabe
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posted on 30/3/2003 at 06:24 PM
Strawberry Cheese Cake?? hahaha
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