so that new foster home they moved me too is great.
BUT on my way there i got to find out why i was being moved, the lady that
was my foster mom had told me that they had called and said they were
coming to get me...
what actually happend was she had found out that i was bisexual and she
didnt think her 18 year old daughter who is "perfectly normal" would be
safe sharing a room with me. ???
I remind you again that i am 15 and she thinks that her 18 year old wouldnt
be safe with me... fucking people...
obviously that lady was too sheltered when she grew up...
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KittyGoesMrow
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posted on 25/2/2007 at 09:15 PM
You can come live with me... >_> i need something to lick.
Edit:
On second thought I'm 18 and that wouldn't go over so well with the cops
LOL
I forget these things sometimes =
Damn legality...
[Edited on 26/2/2007 by KittyGoesMrow]
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pale-face
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posted on 25/2/2007 at 09:18 PM
Unfortunately there are people like that that we all have to live with
during one point of our life or another. I find these people although
annoying, completely harmless. These people are just incapable of creating
thoughts that have more syllables that their first name. I say this all
about people who are ignorant, People who are too impatient to read enough
to make an educated decision before they vote, People who are just stupid
enough to create what becomes the, as you say "sheltered" people. I’m sorry
that I have gone off on a rant. There are a few things that have really
been getting on my nerves lately and i have trouble keeping my opinions in
check when the subject arises.
The girl is having a crisis... her life is in shambles... and she is airing
a legitimate complaint... and you make a tasteless come on... you are 18...
act like it...
how about addressing the issue?
or not saying anything at all?
or at least get to know the girl before you recommend fucking...
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Schizo
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 10:52 AM
Feral...
Amen. That comment just made me cringe... honestly, KGM, you've been here
long enough to know better... if the situation had been turned around, and
it was an established member starting the forum, and a new person had just
bounded in and made that comment, I would have instantly smelt troll
roast... why is it any different when the topic author is new, and the
comment-writer has been here for years? Except to give you even less
excuse... PLEASE... having been here for a long time does not give you an
excuse to not think before typing...
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dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
littlegothgirlthatcould
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 12:45 PM
its all good you guys... the lady i am with now seems nice enough, she told
me she didn't (excuse my french) "Give a Goddamn what the fuck I like" and
that everyone has their own personalitys and that the lady could come talk
to her if she had a problem with me...
and KGM... well, as interesting as your offer was, im afraid i am going to
pass, i am having a bit of a fucked up life as you should have read, and
besides that Im kinda taken. Sorry.
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No... it's not fucking alright... it shows an inherent lack of a)respect
for you and your situation... b) maturity that is fucking frustrating...
lastly c) common fucking sense
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pale-face
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 05:31 PM
sounds like youve landed in a reasonable position lgg, the home your in
seems to have a nice woman with a level head running the place.
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KittyGoesMrow
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 09:18 PM
And since when is everyone sitting on a butt plug.
A.) Feral just because I like girls and not you(in-that-way) suddenly sends
me flying to your shit-list. Or if I ask for something about my computer
because I compliment you as a knowledgeable human being OR respect you as
a good photographer to ask you about your opinions on my work. SUDDENLY I'm
thoughtless. ...
B.) Apparently making tasteless jokes was outlawed since I was last
here.
C.) Again.. it was a JOKE... you all should know me better than to know I
wouldn't say something like that seriously.. I'm sorry I could be more
thorough.
D.) Since when have I ever been a troll?
Point being the only one who seemed to get my joke was the person it was
directed at.
Please people... flinging shmeng at me really gets you no where.
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Starlight
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 10:28 PM
Lgg, it's always better to be in an atmosphere in which you can flourish,
so it's probably a blessing in disguise that the former home you were in
quietly found you a new home. In a situation like that, it's best to cut
your losses and move on. Hope the new home continues to work out for you
well.
____________________ "When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've never
tried before." ~Mae West
YES... the following is plagiarized from a post by ME in another thread...
but it fits RIGHT TEH FUCK HERE too
To quote devin on the karma free zone "Here is a place where anyone who
doesn't have enough karma to post elsewhere on the site can whine without
fear of losing further karma.
I can't promise what the reactions of other people will be, but the karma
scripts will leave you alone. "
Paraphrase: the computer won't give a shit... but we might...
I want to point out this basic thing... I reacted... SCHIZO reacted...
Angry and reactionary... and the understanding one... and I know at least
thre other members that DID NOT THINK IT WAS A JOKE...
one member said that your comment about licking "seemed like more of her
attention whoring for cheap giggles."
SO... if that is the perception of that comment... perhaps that you need to
re-examine and think before you post...
the rest of your response to that...I am going to ignore...
I left you alone.,.. I tolerated a lot of what you have said, as I was
hoping you would grow up... and flower... like someone that joined when you
did... I am done waiting... you are now an adult... you now get teh same
treatment as the rest of the adults... teh baptism by fire... say or do
something that is percieved as stupid... expect the standard "don't be a
dipshit" response...
you wanted to be one of us... now you are... if it's too much.. go
away...
I am done responding to this... one response per dumbshit event...
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KittyGoesMrow
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posted on 26/2/2007 at 11:15 PM
I'm not here to impress anyone. I'm here to be myself. I'm sorry I'm not
allowed to joke or if I'm not very clear in my joking.. so get over it. You
act like i crawled up your ass and fucking died.
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Schizo
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posted on 27/2/2007 at 03:10 AM
KGM... girl... honestly... we all have gotten a swat at times when we have
blundered... if you can't handle it without going on an off-topic rant like
that, then honestly, I don't know what to say...
I can assure you one thing... Feral is not pissed at you because he can't
get into your pants, and that was a very tasteless thing for you to say.
Right now, it is starting to feel like you crawled up our asses and died...
I hate to say it, KGM, really... but this is not OK... Feral's reaction
and mine were just the usual Shmeng correction that we have all gone
through at some time or other... but what you just threw in Feral's face in
return... was just plain pure shmeng... no capital letter... I am so sorry
to see you turn out this way
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dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
Domkitten
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posted on 27/2/2007 at 04:06 AM
Man, I do have to stop lurking. In my defense I haven't been lurking I've
been on vacation, but now I'm back to let you know, I've be lurking.
As it were, LGG you have a sucky situation. I concur with MJ in another
thread, you have three years, you can tough it out. It is possible, while
it does suck, but I know form experience it is possible to come through
this kind of shitty situation and be okay.
Finding a place to vent about it always helps. Welcome to the vent capital
of this particular corner of the web. The longer you stay the more fun
venting you will see.
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it was not clear that you were joking... that is part of the issue here...
and I am going to point out again... since you made it obvious with the
other statements that they were funny... the previous one, missing the
LOLs...comes across as serious... I am not the only one who saw it this
way...
I don't care if you want to impress... but when more than one person takes
away the same impression from a communication... it was flawed... the
burden of understanding lies with teh communicator...
and read this sentence... it is not that you were crass... it is not that
you were telling a joke... it was that we did not see a joke... because you
did not communicate that to us.. in ANY WAY... this is what I tried to
explain last night... you can make jokes, but when they are percieved as
NOT JOKES... they receive a totally different response...
secondly... in this situation... the joke... was totally inappropriate...
and not funny... not to mention... since it was not clear that it was a
joke, it was a felony... propositioning a minor for indecent acts over an
interstate communications medium is a class b felony... so..no matter how
you slice it... it was a bonehead thing... NOT TO MENTION...
it was insensitive... yes, she is forgiving over it... but some of us...
are not
lastly... your response... I adress something tangible... right here in
front of everyone... your response was to get snotty, and shmengy... and
start flinging personal insults... frankly...I no longer give a flying rat
fuck if it was a joke... if you think I went too far... you should look at
bettie x's discussions with me... I was far less aggressive with you... and
she and I... while hostile, angry and verbally violent... never got
personal... it was never an insult... ironically enough... the one time I
treat you as an equal... you turn into a child...
when you grow up enough to realise that schizo and I... being at the far
ends of teh ractionary spectrum... reacting to something in roughly the
same way is an indicator that ...that something is not kosher... AND that
our addressing it DIRECTLY is indicative of someone being treated as
equals... come back to the adult table... for now you are still sitting at
the kiddie table... where you belong...
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Dolorosa
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posted on 27/2/2007 at 08:27 AM
I've been long away and my posts are typically few and far between as of
late, however I will of course jump in here feet first, on track with the
original thread, and speak my thoughts on the matter, as incoherent as they
may be.
One: I read the title, Fucking People, and I thought, my...on many
occasions I have found myself to get a kick out of doing that, then I read
the actual post and my thought bubble switched.
I think the situation you landed in there isn't as bleak as it may seem.
You're a foster child, and foster children are a mixed bunch...some are
great, some are terrible, but all are carrying around a lot of pain with
them. The lady your with may be taking in all honesty what may be the
wisest course of action given the information she has and what she's
preparing for. You may be a perfectly sweet and harmless bisexual, but she
doesn't know that yet, and might want to clear that before taking any
risks. And honestly, some people DO have an instant gut reflex against
difference, a lot of people actually. Heres a chance to show em the
light.
Try not to take it too hard, roll with the punches and make sure to land on
your feet, I hope you'll be fine.
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KittyGoesMrow
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posted on 27/2/2007 at 10:45 AM
The reason I'm getting so pissed off is because you jumped my ass over
something that i fail to see being so important... maybe because i knew it
was a joke and you did not... fine.... whatever. I'm still not beating
myself up over it. And yes... one of my flaws is lashing out at people when
they say things that really have no need to be said. I hate to call it
STUPIDITY because i do see your point of misunderstanding but you went
about it all the wrong way. Fairly this was all a big misunderstanding but
i feel that you initial reaction was a little drastic. So therefore i
responded with something equally drastic. It didn't have to be true that
feral wanted to get into my pants or whatever. Maybe no one has realized
over the years but i'm a tad bit sarcastic and a tiny bit sardonic... you
know I haven't had the easiest life myself and I don't expect you all to
pity me... you don't know what things in my life have made me the way I am
and judging me for a few pointless and stupid comments is just not right.
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Schizo
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posted on 27/2/2007 at 10:53 AM
KGM... not judging you.. at least not over the comment... judging the
comment, yes... but you, no...
Either you see our point, say oops, sorry, or you disagree, and give reason
why...
The response you gave Feral and I is one reason you are at the kiddie
table... we would much rather see you at the adult table, but that is up to
you...
And LG, sorry for the diversion... I am glad your new foster mother seems
like a sensible and relaxed person... I hope all goes well for you there...
*hugs*
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dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
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I responded the same way I would have to anyone in that situation... either
you want to be an equal, or you want special treatment... if you want to be
an equal...then expect a reaction like that from something that was pretty
offensive...period... no discussion on it... if you want special
treatment... then you get coddled at the kiddie table...
the difference here is that I condemned your statement... not you... yes it
was drastic, but warranted by the standards of my Modus Operandi... I am
not the only member that thought that it was OUT OF PLACE... there are at
least three others aside from schiz and myself...
but the key here is this... I condemned your comment... you responded by
flinging poo...
I flirted with you 2 years ago... it was harmless... and it was in
private... the assertion that my response was because you liked girls and
not me... was inaccurate and honestly... insulting... I was willing to let
the comment slide after my response... but your personal attack and
vitriolic venemous vehemence at this... earned you a seat at the kiddie
table in my book...
I can see ME taking something wrong... but 4 others (three plus schizo)
makes me doubt the accuracy of my impression...
and once again, repeating myself... you want to be one of us, but you don't
want the smack down from a friend that thinks you fucked up...(mistake -
fuck up, synonemous) ... pick... you are either one of us, or you get to
play with the newbis...
The real issue is timing and placement... not the specific words... in
another part of teh forums... would have been perfectly fine... but this is
kinda like someone saying "I have cancer of the mouth." and the response
being "Oh... that reminds me...wanna make out?" or at rocky horror
screaming "Kill a cripple! SAve a parking space!!" near the end of the
movie when the campus association of handicapped students is in the theatre
for a show... some things are what we call contextually sensitive when
dealing with appropriateness... the fact that the guy with asperger's
syndrome has to point this out is a sever does of irony... a good vintage
too
no matter your decision...I recommend that you don't attempt to make
personal attacks when someone calls you on something... had I called you a
a stupid slut wannabe look-at-me... that would have been different... but I
didn't...so it's not
Now... if you want to talk about this... do it in the forum you made for
it... because I am getting back to the topic here
[Edited on 2/27/2007 by feralucce]
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lgg: is the new house still as good ? I mean, sometimes something seems
good then looses its luster... so... after the initial beauty...is it still
pretty?
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