feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 8/7/2004 at 11:21 AM |
Shade: not in my situation... my way of dealing with things is the same...
but for different reasons... I get angry EASY... so... I give it a couple
days so I can be objective... ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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MystryssRavynDarque
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 648 Registered: 24/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 8/7/2004 at 12:33 PM |
I have had a few days to think over what everyone has said about me.
Nobody hurt my feelings, nobody made me cry, and no I am not shutting up or
canceling my account. Let me state my point of view more clearly now on
some of the specific things which were said.
First of all I do have a back bone. Sure, people may think I don't, but
look what I am doing now. I don't post on everything with some heavy
handed opinion because I don't always have the right thing to say, or
somebody else has already said it better than I could, and what would be
the point in repeating everyone else. Wasn't that one of the things
somebody complained about in the past? Just because I am not mean to
people or because I care about someone's feelings and I don't pounce on
everyone for every little thing doesn't mean I don't have a back bone. I
have taken risks in posting on here before, and that shows courage and
bravery (a.ka. a back bone).
Second, I am blonde. Yes, and I don't care what stereotypes you think of
when you think of a blonde, but I am not that stereotype at all times.
Sure I have the "blonde" moments, but most people do whether or not they
have blonde hair. I am also cute. I will always be cute. There is nothing
wrong with being cute if you don't use it to get your way in the world. I
do not do that all of the time. I am a smart, intelligent, caring
individual. I am not just a cute blonde.
I also know that I have had many people around me to help me out, and I do
try and listen to them, but before I moved I couldn't do everything
everyone who was trying to help me told me to do. Now I have the chance to
become who I want to be. So if there is something to life I desperately
need to know, tell me before it is too late.
I also feel that I do have a personality. I am still trying to figure out
who I am, but I think most people are for their entire lives. Give me some
more time. Most everyone has had many more years than I have. Things like
this take time.
Boy do I feel better. I thank you for your criticism and for trying to
help me. Honesty does everyone some good, so thank you for being honest in
your opinions.
____________________ "People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell |
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 8/7/2004 at 11:27 PM |
Shade: (warning, another slightly disgusting analogy not related to the
situation at hand) The overhaul is on hold, and this is the first shop I'll
pull into when I decide to take myself off the blocks in the front yard.
I'm taking the first step and getting my fluids checked by the
husbandmechanic tonight! (AHAHAHAHAHA)
Sorry. Long day at work ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/7/2004 at 11:00 AM |
i just got through reading, what i beleive was, the very first war between
pants and skirts. It was one of the funniest things that I've read here and
it seems like a good time was had by all who were involved. That one forum
lasted from June of 2002 until march of 2003, 13 pages long. I just want to
know what happened to that part of shmeng? I know not to expect the lot of
you to be happy all the time, but now that everyone has vented out their
frustrations is it ok for us to get back to the fun again? (that includes
but is not limited to: forum topics that we can debate over that don't
involve hostility between members, fun forum games, and of course those
whacky goth jokes) ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak." ~
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/7/2004 at 11:11 AM |
zero, man, you read but do not comprehend...
"incredibly loud mouthed, and interested in participating, I've yet to see
you say anything, anything at all, that was interesting, insightful, or
challenging. It's one thing to be learning, to try to establish a
comfortable place in a pre-existing world, but your just a shade of gray.
You fade into the background and make no identifable remark. Contribute
something worthwhile and maybe people will want to pay more attention to
you. "
____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/7/2004 at 09:14 PM |
So if you want it back why don't you do it yourself? If you want to be
entertained, then entertain yourself and make it good enough that someone
else wants to play along. You'll find a lack of hopping when you demand
(or ask) that someone dance a jig for you.
And fuck fuck FUCK goth jokes. We've all heard them, they're funny once,
and everyone who posts the same goodamned one over and over and over STILL
thinks they're the first one to hear it. If I want a good laugh I don't
make lame attempts at social cultural humor that everyone has already
heard a zillion times, I go needle the fucking pagans in the yahoo chat
rooms until I either get threatened with a "curse" by some fucking
whitelighter or one of the high-panties pagan computer geeks boots me out.
Now that kids, is ENTERTAINMENT. ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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Zero
Fanatic Posts: 459 Registered: 15/2/2004 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/7/2004 at 06:09 AM |
oh i'm sorry, totally my fault. i just wanted to know if it's ok for to
start posting again. i didn't mean i wanted someone else to do put
something up. i just wanted to know if i would be ostracized for doing so.
I also wanted to know if everyone is done with dishing out the tough love
yet. i got my answer. ____________________ "It is a fool's prerogative to utter truths that no one else will speak."
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callei
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/7/2004 at 06:51 AM |
Zero, the people that think you are grey will continue to think you are
grey until you do stuff that impacts thier day. the people that dont will
continue to not think so, probabaly because you have done something to
impact thier day. You wont get a vote of confidence from everyone. No one
here does or has. Ever. No one.
make forum if you want. Go post on other forums if you want. write an
article if you want. You cant "fit in", but you wont "fit out" any more
than you, or most anyone, already does. ____________________ Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and vampires
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/7/2004 at 01:30 PM |
Hate to break it to you Zero, but the tough love is never over. Whenever
someone is in need of tough love, we will hand it out. If they need
snuggles, they will get those too. This is not meant to be a one-time
thing, limited to a single forum, but a reawakening of our sense of duty to
NEVER AGAIN let things slide just because we're scared of the consequences
of being honest.
And there was never any rule against posting other things other places
while the Tough Love forum was active.
If you want to post something, then post something. If someone has a
problem with it, they will tell you then. If someone likes it, they'll
tell you that, too. Simple as that. ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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IamSquid
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 658 Registered: 27/5/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/7/2004 at 10:08 PM |
Okay so Feral and DK addressed their distaste for the links I post in the
shoutbox. Allow mee to put forth MY perspective. If I post a pic of
Rasputin's penis in a jar I can understand people getting upset. HOWEVER,
when I post articles which address the current movement towards a Brave New
World, only a few people speak up.
Why is this? What is really more upsetting? A man who's having some fun
with his rare condition in which his colon is leaking out of his anus OR
the fact that the US government is implimenting plans to put the masses on
behavior-modifying drugs?
This is my commentary on people in general. I have brought it to Shmeng
because I feel that this is a place where my message would not be lost.
That and the fact that I'm a complete fucker with no kind of dignity.
[Edited on 7/15/2004 by IamSquid] ____________________
i wanted to die, and then it progressed into wanting everyone else to
die so i could watch, and then me die.
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 14/7/2004 at 11:43 PM |
Squid... it was not the topic... while I find the topic fascinating... one
must be given a choice to se ethe images... OR WARNED what was there...
*chcukles* had I known that it was going to be graphic... I could have
steeled myself... instead I see necrotic testicles without preamble
____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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IamSquid
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 658 Registered: 27/5/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 02:20 AM |
I can see how yoo might feel this way. As I have said before, I believe at
this point people know mee well enough to know anything I pot in the
shoutbox is more than likely not work-friendly. And just to clear things
up, nor is it reccomended viewing if there are children present, not to
mention the elderly, people suffering from a heart condition, Christian
fundamentlists, the mentally handicapped, pregnant women, ninja turtles,
and anybody named "Steve." ____________________
i wanted to die, and then it progressed into wanting everyone else to
die so i could watch, and then me die.
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 08:00 AM |
dude... that is my point... fuck work friendly... just some warning...
*snort* ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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IamSquid
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 658 Registered: 27/5/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 10:38 AM |
Yeah, and that's MY point... yoo ought to know mee well enough by now that
the words "IamSquid" appearing before a link should be interprtied
"Warning: This is something really fucking nasty!" In the case of the guy
who's ass was leaking entrails I DID give a warning because I thought not
even the fact that I posted it was warning enough.
And actually, I repeated the warning a few times, even between people's
comments of disgust, because that was pretty gross, even by my sandards.
The two I have posted since then: guy with the flesh-eating bacteria on his
scrotum, and the home circumscion kit, were both TAME AS HELL in
comparison.
Alright alright, yoo want mee to throw out warnings more often I will but
keep in mind, the more yoo click on the links I post, the more yoo become
desensitized to them. ____________________
i wanted to die, and then it progressed into wanting everyone else
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 11:00 AM |
you're not as bad as my friend who insists on posting "worst case
scenarios" of venereal diseases and medical anomalies on her LJ. I've seen
enough gooey crusty red infected girl and boy junk and "oops my butthole
fell out" pictures to last me a LIFETIME. ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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VampCourt
Fanatic Posts: 293 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 11:09 AM |
HAHAHHA i know who your talking about.....
Asscake anyone? ____________________ "Thou shalt not be afraid of the dark, nor of graveyards nor ghosts nor the
devil, for thou art scarey and mean." -The Goth commandments
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IamSquid
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 658 Registered: 27/5/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 01:07 PM |
Yeah, my old roommate used to have this book on disasters of dermatology.
Some of the venereal diseases isn there made mee understand how some people
can choose to be chaste their whole lives. One of the worst is a picture
of what appears to ebe a massive califlower made of skin until on closer
inspection, it's the most extreme case of HPV yoo could ever imagine! ____________________
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-ickgirl |
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bettie_x
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1570 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/7/2004 at 11:07 PM |
*puke*
Thanks jerk, you just made me lose the last of the leftover tofurkey. ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 16/7/2004 at 03:31 AM |
squiddo... perhaps you are missing the point... while a fascinating
topic... we don't want it in the forums? ____________________ The earth turns on a tilted axis - just doing the best it can.
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IamSquid
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 658 Registered: 27/5/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 16/7/2004 at 06:09 AM |
Yeah, okay, yor probably right. It's not like I posted a pic ofthat or
anything. I just go a bit nuts if I go a whole day without offending
anyone. I think I'll go shake a baby now.... ____________________
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