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Disillusion: The feeling that never fades... |
Posted by
AlteredMind on Friday, June 17, 2005 - 12:01 AM PST
The feeling that never fades...
This is for everyone that has suffered the loss of a loved one. We try soo hard and yet we still fail . Love is a feeling that is rarely touched, but when it is love is something never forgotten . I have suffered this loss and this feeling. Confusion and blame are the common responses , and I really just don't know what to do .
Love = Pain if it's not played right. I want soo badly to get rid of it all , and to see if it is real . I do not know if fate exists , but if it does it needs to take its course . If you have ever felt love you know this feeling. It is where nothing seems right without that person there. Where you catch yourself thinking about them and wonder why. It is why you forgive them no matter how big the sin they commited . It is when just the thought of them makes you want to cry . It is the point where you realise why it all went wrong , and how it could be fixed. This is what I am going through and it has really affected me. I have tried everything to try and get over it but it is still eating at me.
This is not with a family member but with a mate. I know that everyone goes through something similar sometime in their life. I need assistance from some of these people. I need someone who can relate to me to help me get over this. Any suggestions?
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Re: The feeling that never fades...
by Meranda_Jade (Meranda@mymind.com)
on Jun 24, 2005 - 02:53 PM
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I'm a little confused. Is this about someone dying, or is it a break-up?
if it's a break-up, the advice I have for you is... it will fade. It will hurt for a while, and the more you keep poking at it, the more it will hurt. Try to think about other things and forget for a while the loss. later, when it doesn't hurt so much, you can look back at the good things in the relationship and it will give you a warm, a-little-pleasant, a-little-sad feeling. Love isn't necessarily pain. It feels really, really good while in the flush of it. It's only when there's uncertainty that there's pain, and (I'll let you in on a little secret), those highs and lows are all a part of the total experience. When you're "in love" everything you feel is sharper. Every warm, cuddly feeling, every slice of disappointment, every feeling of betrayal and every towering inferno of rage. Sometimes you're floating on clouds and at other times you just want to tear your own heart out to escape the utterly profound desolation and misery. But you know you're enjoying the hell out of every second of it. It's because the experience of feeling things at their most intense is what makes people feel the most alive. This is where we get drama-queens and chaos-junkies. They create experiences specificially tailored to make them feel every emotion at its highest level, often making a nuicance of themselves to everyone around them who gets caught up in their drama. Othere people, when sorting their emotions out for maybe the first time (as young people do when they first fall in love) simply ride the wave, get over it and look for the next new high. Don't worry. Broken hearts are very easy to heal. That's why they can take getting broken over and over again. Good luck to you.
And if it's a death, well... I'm sorry for your loss. The same advice applies, to a certain extent. Don't poke at it until you're sure you're ready to look at it and enjoy the memory of the good times you shared.
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