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Articles: Tick, tock, tick, tock... |
Posted by
Schizo on Monday, April 01, 2002 - 10:40 AM PST
Ick. Ick, ick, ick, ick, ick. It looks like I'm about to fall into the hands of fundamentalist Christianity again.
The deadline for my eviction is fast approaching. I have to be out of my home by April 15th. I suppose I could fight it, but since I can't afford the place anyway, why bother?
The nasty thing is, the only place that seems to be opening up for me to live is an absolute HORROR HOUSE going by the name of His Mansion. Their website is www.hismansion.com for anyone who wishes to sympathize with me fully.
Of course, my biggest concern right now is getting a roof over my head, and they do work to help get you on your feet again. But in the meantime, I have to deal with people who look at me as a "ministry", who will see me mainly as an unwed mother who needs the Lord.
How on earth am I to convince them that I already "have the Lord" quite nicely, thankyou-very-much? Somehow I think my unusual takes on Christianity aren't about to be embraced with open arms. Especially when I found their opinions on "New Age" teachings. EEEeeeevil! How they will rush to reindoctrinate my polluted mind!
God! I already went through 3 years of this! Will I really have to endure Bible classes again? It was bad enough when I thought I believed the same way as all my teachers, but now it seems intolerable!
And what about my decision to allow my ex to be involved in the process as much as he can handle short of putting myself in danger by depending on him? They'll probably label him a bad influence and ban him from my life.
I'm fucking 25 years old, for crying out loud! I already know what they want to teach me before they even say it! I REFUSE to be molded into their little model of a repentant unwed mother! I'm not repentant!
All I want is a place to live and to be left alone. I will be respectful. I won't leave pentacles lying around, or teach their most valued students to cast a circle. I won't blare my devil music or try to seduce the resident males. I will be grateful for the gift of food and shelter, and the help to regain my stability of home and finances.
But beyond that, I will not go.
I dread it. But what else can I do?
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by gdlke (-)
on Apr 01, 2002 - 10:52 AM
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My God don't do it!!! Have you done any research on places like that? I can recall reading horror stories about such places. And I am not joking. I read them in the Chicago Tribune. Seriously consider finding another option. And look and see if you can find any information online about this place. I am sorry that I don't have a solution but... I recall some of these single mothers who wishes they would have lived out of shopping carts rather than be subjected to the intense indoctrination.
Gdlke
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Meranda_Jade (Meranda@mymind.com)
on Apr 01, 2002 - 11:31 AM
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ewww.... I went and looked at the website, that place is awful... do you have friends you can stay with? I know you don't want to leave New Hampshire, but I'm thinking that there are a lot of people here who would take you in and help you get on your feet, I remember Arthegarn inviting you to go to spain, even... If you came up with rent by the 15th, would that buy you some time to figure out your situation? Perhaps we could take up a collection...
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don't go
by Poison on Apr 01, 2002 - 11:33 AM
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I took a look at the site you mentioned and I have to ask you: ARE YOU 100% SURE YOU WANT TO DO THIS?
I understand your situation and all but I'm sure there must be better places than that. I mean... "His Mansion Ministries is a community of Christians using Biblical counsel to help dysfunctional young adults", that I got off the first page and if that's not enough, I got this from the section called "pregnant women in crisis":"The program focuses on life change through faith in Jesus Christ and Christian discipleship. The gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ is the foundation of all that we do." I saw a slideshow filled with cows and korn.
Life change? Dysfunctional young adults?
I think I've made my point.
Oh yeah, and the picture on the first page is a sketch of a sheep.
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re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Shadowman (shadeofme@jippii.fi)
on Apr 01, 2002 - 09:01 PM
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Well, if I were you, I wouldn't do it. I just checked their website and I'm littlebit shocked. Pages full of ( I'm not sure is this right word ) not-so-clever propaganda about their community. Okay, okay, I'm sure they have good intensions and goals, but still it makes me think whether laugh or cry. "Our Vision is to rescue the perishing, and to disciple and equip people to enter the harvest field and be effective laborers for the kingdom of God." This is their vision? *tsk* So, is their ultimate goal to help people to feets again and then offer some more "protection"? Most people are still so nice and kind, that they feel that it's the only way to pay back hospitality and join 'em and become content workers kept in order by the Bible.
But anyway, don't do it. I'm sure that there's always another place to go. If you could stay with your friends or relatives for a while, it would help at least some. And I don't know how the systems work there and please don't get this as offence, but would it be a considerable option to contact social workers? I'm quite sure that with their help you can find satisfying solution. And don't give up!
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by darclight (an_impression_of_sound@yahoo.com)
on Apr 01, 2002 - 09:07 PM
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That place sounds pretty sketchy.
Anyway, if you find yourself in a pinch and just need a place to chill and regroup, I actually live four / five hours northeast of you (I think--according to your member profile). So that's an option if you want / need it.
Feel free to email me if that sounds like an idea.
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
on Apr 01, 2002 - 11:15 PM
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OH Schitz, please please please don't go there...
Contact a social service place and find subsidised housing, go stay with a friend, hell moving back with your family is a more suitable thing to do than this....
Unless...
Of course, if I had no ties, I would be a wandering integrator...I would worm my way into churches and eat them out from the inside or at least make myself to be a "presentable lamb of god" just for the fun of treachery and deciet. But you know me.
Seeming how you already stated you don't wanna cause trouble, I think your best option is putting up with the family until you can figure out what to do.
It's HIS mansion afterall...it's just a front for a brainwashing center that lures in the poor, derilect, and hopeless people that need help, not god.
They need a place to stay, not brainwashing.
Look up social services, shop for rental places online (http://www.rent.net) and section 8 housing and get help, not surrender to the most convenient vulture.
Yucky yucky place...I dont' like "his" mansion...reeks like zombies and sacrificial lambs.
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But... That's not what you need...
by Arthegarn on Apr 02, 2002 - 02:41 AM
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Schizo, my sweetest, why are you going there? That's not what you need. I have skipped through the page and it begins by talking about dysfunctional young adults. You are not dysfunctional, and henceforth you need not that kind of help. You do not "suffer from a variety of spiritual, emotional, and / or behavioral problems". You are pregnant and have very little money, that's all. Perhaps you should leave all that clear to them when you enter, for the sake of honesty...
Abd why do you bother about people looking you as "ministry"? Let them look at you as they want to and ignore them! You're a goth! You should be used to that! Just rationalize it. You are an unwed mother, and that's a fact. A fact you are not going to hide nor anything. None of it is your "fault", that's not how you planned things, you didn't throw yourself in the arms of Satan or anything! All they can tell you about is breaking the 6th. You have two roads here, either lie as a whore and say you know you sinned and also know that God has already forgiven you so there is nothing more to talk about; or discuss that you have sinned. I anticipate strong resistance here. According to Catholic doctrine you have not, but a rigid, fundamentalist interpretation as the one I guess you'll find will get you into quote duel...
And I don't see any prblems about being looked to as ministry. I am many times, and I look at people as ministry most of the time (sorry fellas). So what? Let they look at me as they will, they will have a rough time getting between me and Abba. As for needing the Lord... don't we all? Don't they? Turn their talks around, speak as one who has authority and others will listen and be surprised.
Remember the tolerance issue. They may be just well intentioned people as many catholics are who really think that oif you do not embrace the One True Church you will roast in hell. Just remember how closed their wiews are, and how blessed you are because yours are not. Don't be closed, think of it as if you could learn as much from them as they can from you (there is always something to learn), and then sit at a table as equals and see who teaches who. You are not to convince them of anything, if they want to talk to you let them talk to you and then keep what's worth and disregard the rest. They have a right to think they are right and you're not (so do you) and, though I am against proselytism and do not practice it, I understand those who do. Let them rush to reindoctrinate your polluted mind and crush at its walls of faith and reason!
Then, of course, I don't know how are Bible classes up there. I really enjoy them the way we do them... And I don't know how are Charity institutions: I am not familiar with any Christian charity institution besides Caritas (well, yeah, an Evangelist one, but much modeled after Caritas and most of the time working side by side). Isn't using someone's problems as an advantage to indoctrinate them unfair? Caritas helps people without asking anything, without indoctrinations or bible talks. Actually, as numbers go, they help more Muslims than Christians. They give testimony by example, just as Jesus did, never caring whom did He heal, romans, publicans, sinners... That's the only true way, not brainwashing.
From my humble and completely different experience all I can offer is the thought that, if I was in your position I would not have a problem. What are they going to do? Teach me? Talk me about the Bible and God's love? Well, perhaps I could learn something, and these are my favourite topics of conversation. Most likely I talk circles around them, and I'll wager you do, too. Worse that could happen is getting bailed out becouse I was turning people to Catholicism (hehehe).
When I think that here (Christian) unmarried mothers here are put as an example of illumination and God's love... And all you are going through... Get all my love and my prayers, sweetie. You are strong and will go through anything.
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by whitedove (jaroddove@doveworksentertainment.com)
on Apr 02, 2002 - 11:09 AM
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If you could travel to where I'm at I could give you a job at my store and there are income based apartments here too. That is one thing you could do...
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Riggy (ArcheryGirl@juno.com)
on Apr 02, 2002 - 04:41 PM
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Want the advice of a secular girl thinking of going Wicca? DON'T DO IT!!!!!!! The place looks awful.... stupid as it sounds, i've always been afraid of Christian churches for as long as i can remember. If you're like me, the "God-talk" will drive you nuts.
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Schizo on Apr 02, 2002 - 08:54 PM
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OK. I want everyone to heave a BIG sigh of relief with me, on the count of three. Ready?
1... 2... 3... *SIGH!!!!*
I'm not going to have to go to His Prison after all! My dear friends and surrogate family (on whose computer I am now typing) have offered to let me stay with them as long as I need to! The mother used to run a daycare, and she's not going to be working this summer, so I'll get a baby-sitter as well as shelter! Their daughter, my best friend, who has been in Japan, is coming back to the US for a while to go to school, so she'll be there for the end of my pregnancy and will see the baby! And their 2 youngest sons are like my little brothers, and have pretty much the same taste in music that I do. The one big bummer is I'll have to give up my kitty, but to make things even better, I'm going to be just one town over from my hospital, within reasonable distance from my baby's father, and I'll have a place to store all my things!
Hip, hip, hooray!
What a relief! What a load off my mind! I'm on cloud nine! I KNEW I didn't have to worry about things! I KNEW things would work out! Maybe I had to contemplate being shut away in His Alcatraz to fully appreciate this release.
Now, just to pack and clean! *UGGHHH*
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Schizo on Apr 04, 2002 - 07:24 PM
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I just got the application for this place in the mail yesterday. I thought you might enjoy hearing some choice tidbits from it.
From the application itself:
Three of the things they seem to think necessary to know about you are:
1. Have you ever been involved in a homosexual experience? If yes, explain.
2. Have you had any exposure to pornography? If yes, to what extent?
3. Have you ever been involved in a cult or involved in occultic activities? If yes, please explain.
The first two are included under the "health" section of the application, along with questions about drug problems and sexual abuse. Quite obviously, homosexuality or a taste for pornography are considered "sicknesses" that need to be "cured."
A basic rule book is also included. Here are some choice examples of the restrictions imposed on the residents of His Mansion.
Only certain Christian music, classical, and instrumental music is allowed. You may only bring 6 CD's, subject to approval by the staff, but you may not bring a CD player.
Only 6 books allowed, also under approval of the staff. All other reading material must be checked out of the His Mansion library. No secular magazines.
Objects relating to the "occult" or "New Age" are forbidden. (I wonder if my bell that I use pretty often would be forbidden? Or just things that are obviously "occult". I don't think they quite know what they are getting into with that rule. They'd have to end up banning just about everything!)
No body-piercing, dyed hair or "extreme" hairstyles, and no clothing that identifies with what they would consider a negative part of your past life. (Sorry, no gothic clothing! I wonder if they'd even let me wear black?)
Avoid arguments. (What the staff says is right, I guess, so disagreement and debate is out of the question!)
All money gets turned into the Senior Mentor, and spending money is allocated and monitored by the room Interns. (Although, since you aren't allowed to leave the campus, what good, or harm, is money anyway?)
And then there's the whole isolation bit. Only 20 minutes of phone calls a week, which may be monitored. No visitors for a month, then only one visit a month from either your sponsors or your immediate family. You must be with a Staff member at all times (not just during visits.) Letters and packages must be opened in the presence of a Staff member.
These are just a few of the more spectacular rules. There are many more (including the "if you do not work you cannot eat" one, indicating that you may be starved into good behavior.) Alot of them scare me, since they seem to be open to some pretty severe abuse. Not that I think they necessarily ARE abusing their powers unduly, just that the possibility seems frighteningly open.
Plus the whole extremely evident fact that their goal is to indoctrinate. Not just to create strong and healthy people, but to create obedient and submissive Christians.
I am SOOOOOOO glad that I'm not going to end up there! I don't need to be spiritually rehabilitated, thank you very much!
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Re: Tick, tock, tick, tock...
by Rogue (Rogue@skew.org)
on Apr 05, 2002 - 05:50 AM
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Christian shelters are exactly what inspired your state's fine motto.
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