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| Articles: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away! |
Posted by
Schizo on Monday, October 08, 2001 - 06:50 PM PST
Ex's are horrible.
Boyfriend's ex's are worse.
Boyfriend's ex's whose lives are in shambles because 1. they cheated on the person who was taking care of them and 2. they were stupid enough to hook up with an unemployed man and get pregnant by him, are absolutely the nastiest things on the face of the earth.
Especially when said boyfriend has 2 kids by said ex, and said ex and said unemployed man are living off of the money for the kids, and taking trips to the beach and the mountains while boyfriend and I are struggling to save enough to replace our cars.
And of course, now the ex decides she doesn't like the unemployed man, because he gets drunk and pukes on the carpet, and threatens suicide.
She likes to brag that all the guys who go with her become suicidal.
So, guess who gets the job of hanging out with her constantly to make the unemployed drunk man jealous? My boyfriend. Guess who gets the responsibility of hunting down a clinic, taking her there, and paying the bill to get rid of unemployed drunk man's baby, so he won't end up having to pay for the baby itself when it comes? My boyfriend.
Of course, now, she wants to be here ALL THE TIME!!! She comes here almost every day. She was here for our first lighting of the firepit on the full moon. She shows up at dinnertime with the kids and their little friend, borrows one of our books and doesn't return it, moves the chimes we have hanging outside the door because she doesn't like it, erases the eyes on my sketch of myself on my whiteboard, TWICE, sits next to my boyfriend and tries to snuggle with him, writes the names of her little family under the door handles of his car, including her own on the passenger side, and would ignore me as if I were a fly on the ceiling, if I hadn't taken the matter into my own hands and pretended like she was welcome in my home.
I told my boyfriend how I feel, of course, but what can we do? Our new home is named FarAway, but it's not nearly far enough away, because she can walk here. And then my boyfriend takes her here as often as not.
He's doing it because he needs to help her get rid of this guy, so she can pull herself together and make something of her life, so he won't have to pay for her and all her loser boyfriends and all their kids, just so his own kids will have food in their refrigerator.
He says he doesn't want to be with her again, even though she is being nice to him now, as he says "the way I liked her." I believe him, that he won't go back. But I know why she's being nice to him. She wants him on the string. She doesn't really want him back either, but she wants him to spend all his time with her, and take care of her, and be at her beck and call, just so she can own him and manipulate him. And especially, she doesn't want me to have him. Which is why she tries to make me an outcast in my own home.
So far, I am stronger than her. I have the upper hand. But I want her to GO AWAY, leave me alone, leave my boyfriend alone, just DISAPPEAR. But that can never happen as long as those kids are children.
So, in a way, I'm hoping she will stop being nice, and show herself the bitch and whore she is, so that my boyfriend will feel the same need to NOT HAVE HER HERE that I do. I try to tell him that she is using him, that she will never learn to pull herself together and stand on her own two feet, unless he leaves her to the consequences of her own actions. And then he says, what about the kids? And he's right.
I guess the only solution is to get custody of the kids. Which will cost money to do. Which we don't have just now. And even that won't get rid of her, because she would be over constantly to see the kids.
Damn, damn, damn, damn!
If I didn't care about this guy so much, I'd be out of here in a heartbeat. This is insane. Is it so horrible of me to wish that she gets humanely and instantly killed in a car accident or something?
And then I think of the kids. Damn, damn, damn, damn. There's no good way out.
THIS is why lying little self-centered little cheating bitches should all go down! This girl and her type are one of the cancers of the universe.
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Re: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away!
by Xaoswolf (Xaoswolf@hotmail.com)
on Oct 08, 2001 - 07:52 PM
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I hear that, why do crazy girls just get crazyier after you break up. Not going into details now, need some sleep, but if you really want to know about the crazy girls in my past, well I'll tell you, but first, I'm tired...
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Re: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away!
by Lucinda (Lucinda@Camelot>com)
on Oct 08, 2001 - 08:32 PM
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From what I'm reading, this girl is playing a game. And winning. This is completely unfair to you both.I hate to sound mean but you need to draw a line somewhere.It's your home too.
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Re: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away!
by Schizo on Oct 09, 2001 - 05:54 AM
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Oh! And she called my kitten Ophelia a runt! Now THAT'S unforgivable!
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Re: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away!
by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com)
on Oct 09, 2001 - 08:55 AM
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depending on what state you are in you can get free, YUP free help to sue for the kids. a restraining order is not out of line either.
And he doesnt have to pay for another kid if he gets the DNA test.
the fastest way to exercise your power and get the ball moving is to call social services and tell them that the kids are being neglected. then HER house will be invaded and possibly the kids will just get placed with you.
just make sure she isnt snooping outside a window when you call....
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Re: Nasty Annoying Person Needs to go Far Away!
by chameleon on Oct 10, 2001 - 06:05 PM
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that sounds like the situation one of my friends is in. Advice for you, talk to social services like callei said, and try to change the situation, even if it does require other people who aren't direct yrelated to the situation.
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