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Articles: The Games We Play... |
Posted by
Geist on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 - 12:10 AM PST
I know its been a while since I posted boys and girls, but sorry... no witty banter this time. I'm all business... I'm here about women. To be more specific the things women do. The same tactics that every woman (ok maybe not every, but 99.962%) uses when her man breaks up with her.
Can anyone here in class tell me what that is ? Show of hands please... Yes, you in the back. Thats right those two little words, "I'm pregnant". I'm not calling all women liars and I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but in my experience the 3 or 4 times it has happened have all been a load of shit. I mean seriously ladies... what do you expect to gain from this ?
I mean if you know it isn't true, why even go there ? You might get him back temporarily but eventually he is going to find out that the oven is empty. And then what ? You expect him to stay around after he finds out you're lieing. Hell, if the only reason he is with you is because you are pregnant is that really the kind of man you want ?
First of all you're damaging any kind of friendship you might have been able to have and you are sure as hell vaporizing any chance of working things out and getting back together. I don't know... I guess it all boils down to WTF were you thinking ?
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Re: The Games We Play...
by Schizo (Aranea@Spidersdance.com)
on Jul 29, 2006 - 01:38 AM
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I don't know about the 99.962%. Maybe 99.962% of slack-jawed idiots. Maybe you haven't been picking them for their brains or ability to make rational judgements under emotional duress.
Sometimes it is true, though. Like with me, finding out I was pregnant a week after the break-up. But I came armed with a loaded pregnancy test, and wasn't interested in a reunion tour at the time, either. Of course, we also ended up back together, and now have been married for two years next month.
Of course, the "I'm pregnant" lie when used as a way to regain your man is only matched in stupidity with the "I'm pregnant by someone else and want you to pay for my abortion and while you're at it my bills I racked up for the summer we were broken up" truth. It can actually be somewhat effective when coupled with a convincing attitude of "I've learned my lesson and there's no one like you after all." Of course, the results only lasted long enough to lose the baby and pay the bills before the girl was running around with the baby's father again. So I would only recommend this as an approach if you only need money, or if you are truly repentant. It really doesn't result in a long and lasting relationship, and can breed a whole shitload of resentment and a loss of all vestige of goodwill or remnants of friendship. Just a little hint to anyone who was thinking of trying this approach.
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Re: The Games We Play... by Geist (tattooedslacker@yahoo.com) on Jul 29, 2006 - 12:49 PM (User info | Send a Message) http:// | I'm sure you know that no matter how stable someone seems... sometimes things like this make us act out of character. Although I admit... they start to seem a little off their rocker after a while. Thats usually what tends to end things. For you guys out there, if you are ever in this situation, I believe I've found probably the best way to handle this situation. First of all remain calm. Don't act shocked. Don't trust an over the counter pregnancy test, tell her that you and her are going to schedule an appointment to go see the doctor, and then if she is pregnant, when the time comes you want a blood test. If shes not pregnant then shes not going to play this drama out for much longer, knowing that eventually she'll is going to get caught. If she is, step up, be a man, and take care of your responsibilities... That is your child after all. And no matter how much you don't like her, never let your kid know that, and try not to fight in front oy your child either. It is so much better for your child if you give the appearence of being friends... even if its only for pretend. |
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Re: The Games We Play...
by Arthegarn on Aug 17, 2006 - 06:01 AM
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I had one of these once. She WAS pregnant and for a while there I even thought she was mine (even though we were properly protected) until I saw even the dates didn't fix. I told asked her, she got violent. I asked for a gene test, she refused. I stopped seeing her altogether. After the child was born she phoned me to menace me with going to the Court to claim the child's paternity, I answered i would really welcome the gene test I had asked for two months ago. She hung up and I have never heard from her again.
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Re: The Games We Play...
by Anotherlostdog (choking_sands@hotmail.com)
on Aug 27, 2006 - 08:58 PM
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i'm also not sure on the pecentage, but i have only been with 5 women thus far, and that has already happened once, but this one is smart at being cruel and demeaning!!, she is on a medication that actually shows positive for pregnancy on a test! i don't know how and frankly i don't want to. but now she even still calls and talks even though i know the whole thing was a bold faced lie. so basically the only real thing i have to say in this entire comment is be F***ing careful. and just cause they seem sane and quite nice doesn't mean a thing
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Re: The Games We Play...
by Catiana on Sep 04, 2006 - 11:34 AM
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I think saying 99% of women do that is a bit harsh. I am sure the number is much, much lower, as most women are not complete and utter imbeciles.
However, I guessed right away what you were talking about when you said the tactic that every woman uses, so it must happen too often.
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Re: The Games We Play... by feralucce (feralucce@wayoutonthecorner.com) on Sep 07, 2006 - 10:57 AM (User info | Send a Message) http://www.wayoutonthecorner.com/feralucce | Women, being people... are idiots.. the average iq is 80... in most cases...when an iq is higher than average..it is considerably higher... ..meaning it takes fewer bright people to dumb to keep it as "high" as it is... in spite of the mean iq... there are many many many more that are dumber than the 80... it is estimated that 50% of the population is in the range of 65-70... 63, clinically... is titled "moron"...
therefore... statistically... at least have the women... ARE that stupid |
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Re: The Games We Play...
by have_no_mouth_must_scream (-)
on Sep 07, 2006 - 07:01 AM
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Next time: I would act surprised if I were you and I would tell them that is impossible because I had a duct obstruction and check the look on their face. :D
I think 99% is an exaggeration but I don’t blame you for thinking that because you really had bad luck with those women.
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Re: The Games We Play...
by Hal (-)
on Jan 23, 2009 - 02:40 PM
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This a good argument for abstaining from sexual activity until marriage. A breakup with your girlfriend would not bring this issue up. If she said she was pregnant, you could tell her to go talk to the dude who knocked her up( what righteous indignation that would be).
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