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Re: Love
by Schizo (Aranea@spidersdance.com)
on Mar 14, 2004 - 09:57 AM
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The thing is, there is enough truth in the statement about finding yourself through loving someone else, that it is next to impossible to fully refute. You CAN find aspects of yourself through interaction with others, even through love, and develop yourself, etc. Everything in life brings out new sides and teaches you about the way you are. But that's no reason to get into a relationship. And you really should find an awful lot about yourself FIRST before getting into relationships, or you're just begging for disappointment and pain.
And generally what people mean when they say that is that they don't have much of a self at all to start with, and find a "self" by losing themselves in someone else and absorbing everything about them. It makes them feel "whole" and "worth something".
Come on people! The only person you need to love to really find yourself IS yourself!
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- Re: Love by Shade on Mar 14, 2004 - 10:42 AM
- Re: Love by callei on Mar 14, 2004 - 01:34 PM
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