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Re: Spice in the Vanilla Rack
by Rogue (Rogue@skew.org)
on Mar 12, 2004 - 06:06 AM
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I can see your point there, and I have gone through a similar thing. For me though, it is my paralysing shyness at clubs and the lack of knowing how to start conversations that keeps me from meeting people. I like going to clubs and have a good time, but often don't talk to anyone unless Meranda introduces us. She approaches people and gets approached by them, because it seems to be the role of women to be approached and the role of men to approach, and cuz she's hot.
I try to not let it bother me though, because I know that it is my doing and that I need to both seem approachable and do some approaching if I want to enjoy the same kind of attention that she does. I have the occasional relationship, every other year or so, but it is almost always somebody that is introduced to me by someone else. That's something I am working on currently, and I actually think that most of the people who go to the clubs where I go are also dealing with the same sorts of things, they just use their clothes to try and lure people into making the first move. Like the guy in black and white that looked like Vanilla Ice at 1470, if you noticed him.
I guess my point is that you never know if people are interested or not unless you find out, and they may be wondering the same thing and not approaching you so you have to approach them.
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