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Re: Playing Games
by Devin (devin-at-vibechild-dot-com)
on Jan 25, 2004 - 01:31 PM
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Oooh those are good! I'd love to watch you shut down boys sometime.
Here are some bad ones:
"Do you do this often?"
"How many women have you slept with?"
"Are you trying to seduce me?"
"Are you a player?"
These are questions they have probably gotten before. They will tell you nothing, and you won't catch them off balance.
My ex had a girlfriend who was brilliant at this. A guy was pulling this stuff on her in front of us once and I got to watch. He was amusing her and she was tolerating him, but when he tried to get her out of her thinking state with a little hypothetical story, and then anchor the feelings to him, here's what she said (prolly not verbatim, but close enuf):
"Oh that was a terrible way to do it - let me try... Imagine the club is closing and you're out in the parking lot with a girl you just met. She's so hot for you that she unzips your pants right there and is giving you the best blowjob ever. She's looking up at you and begging you with her eyes to shoot it down her throat. You're just about there, and you're thinking about how this is the best feeling in the world. Then you snap back to reality" (she smacked her hand on the table loudly at this point) "and you realize that this girl could have been me if you'd had more game."
She interrupted him and confused him by not telling him what exactly he did wrong - then she raises HIS arousal (she said it in a very sexy way, i was even getting bothered listening). Then she snaps him out of that state abruptly and anchors the loss of those good feelings to his lack of skills. Brilliant bit of psychology right there, you'd think she was a shrink, but she was a stripper.
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