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What the fuck?
by Anonymous-Coward on Jan 17, 2002 - 02:32 PM
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Jesus Christ, it's not like the woman is living with her. There's call blocking, there's peepholes for doors, and there's just plain not talking to them. It's bullshit saying you can't avoid anyone- avoidance being the wrong concept. You want to tell them that you don't want that person involved in your life any more. Which is an option- she's not letting the husdband pay child support, which makes him a no-show and unable to be a detriment on your life, and you can just ignore the ex. If she's coming up on the street and harassing you, that IS THE TIME TO GET A RESTRAINING ORDER.
ask yourself "qui bono?" in this situation.
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Re: A Quest For Creative Solutions
by nocta on Jan 18, 2002 - 12:22 AM
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It's unfortunate that schizo must accept financial support from her ex, but you gotta do what you gotta do. What you *don't* gotta do is put up with crazy women with children from the same man as you. I think schizo should do whatever she can to get the crazy woman out of her life. We know that the crazy woman has no problem with hitting schizo and making her life miserable... Would you really want a woman like that near your child?
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Re: A Quest For Creative Solutions
by Schizo on Feb 01, 2002 - 04:48 PM
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Love ya, Bettie!
If you only knew how I LONG to move out of this horrid town! If you only knew how I HATE being within walking distance of this woman!
I've decided to try to do this on my own financially. If I put my ex's name on the birth certificate, then if anything happens to me, he's in the running for custody of my child. He is not in a position in any way to properly care for my child. It's worth sacrificing convenience and money to protect my baby from that danger.
If he contributes anything on his own, that's his decision. I certainly won't turn it down. But I won't be like this psycho slut, who plays games with his heart for his money, and then when he quits his job (as he did a few weeks ago, the idiot!), kicks him out on street and starts running around with other guys. No one will ever be able to accuse me of using him for his money. (If he ever has any again.)
Of course, I have to turn to the government for assistance for a while, but I'm also trying to think of ways I can do this on my own, eventually. God! I hate the welfare office! I went there the other day, and just spending time in the waiting room with all those bleach-blonde, stringy haired, sweatpant clad, cigarette voiced women clutching screaming brats in Disney movie outfits with runny noses, I felt saturated in white trashiness. God FORBID that I ever become that! I WILL retain my class and dignity, no matter how tough things get! Even when I have to go on food stamps and things like that!
Are food stamps goth? Perhaps I should just turn vampire and live off of other people's blood. If I turn vampire while I'm pregnant, will my child be born a vampire?
Ah, the mysteries of death in life.
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