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Re: Group Sex
by Devin (devin-at-vibechild-dot-com)
on Oct 25, 2001 - 09:41 PM
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Along those same lines, you'd be suprised how many people lie about poly stuff - not just being bi. I think they're a little quieter about it, cuz the people that do it just want to please whoever they're after, not the world. With the bi thing they think they're being cool - but at least in my experience, the ones that lie about sharing good are doing it to please me. After they decide they want to keep me around, and they find out that that's only gonna happen if they share good, they'll try to convince themselves that they can do it without even putting any thought into what that means. I've seen people totally talk themselves into thinking it was the perfect thing for them, and they'd go play with someone and be all happy that I didn't mind - and then when it was my turn to play, or we'd find someone who wanted to play with both of us, they'd freak out and go completely psycho and unreasonable. I've also been on the 3rd end of this one and it sucks just as bad to get really mushy with someone, only to have their partner (who's idea it was in the first place) change their mind when they figure out that it's more than sex (no i'm not bitter why do you ask?). Or at some point it would just suddenly hit them that they weren't gonna be able to 'make me' monogamous, and they'd get their ego wounded and leave...
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