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Re: Group Sex
by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com)
on Oct 25, 2001 - 01:58 AM
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It is so amazingly strange to me to lie about sex. I mean if you say that you like something a thoughtful partner will try to do it to/for/with you. If you DONT really like whatever it is that you lied about, this can make for a very akward time. You partner wonders if they are doing "it" wrong, you wonder why they tried this. Lots of shmeng.
It seems to me, naive fool that i am, that one of the few things that it makes sense to tell the truth about is sex.
I mean this is one place that lies can kill, after all.
Also, if i see one more idiot wearing a collar and acting all dommy, i WILL kick them. For all of you that dont understand why this is stoopid, let me spell it out for you. People who like to DOMINATE others dont wear a SLAVE collar. No O-rings or D-rings.
For those of you that think you "might be bi" try it a few times then think about it again. Just because you think is cute does NOT mean that you are bi. It just means that you can identify a cute person. Just because you got drunk and kissed a person of the same sex does NOT mean that you are bi. It just means that you got drunk and kissed someone.
Dont pretend that you are into something that you arent sure about. It will just freak out the people that havent tried it or dont like it, and piss off the people that are into and try to pick up on you.
On a side note, I am bi. honestly truely and for sure. I experimented with poly love, but i am too lazy and too easily confused to be a realiably good partner. I LIKE monogamy because i am selfish and so is my partner. That doesnt mean that i dont day dream, fantasize, and drool over other people on occation. It just means that i do all that WITH my partner and he does the same with me.
One of the myriad of things that i love about him is his appreciation of beauty.
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