Sweet Boy Date Thursday, April 25, 2024 - 08:25 PM PST Topic Icky People I just broke up with my boyfriend that I have had for quite some while, and right after that a goth guy here (!) contacted me over a Swedish community site. Since I am who I am, I thought that it must be some kind of sign. I mean, since I just broke up and everything. So I call him up and we decide to meet. I bring my non-gothic friend the first time I see him, and he seems like a nice guy. Not many opinions about things though, but I thought he just were shy. Anyway, we continue keep in touch... He mails me about 3 times a day, calls once a day and messages my cell phone all the time. It was sweet in the beginning, but after a while... yuck. So then comes the second time we meet. We go around some in town and then go to a café. Then he starts to cuddle with me, and kiss me. Hum, I think. One kiss, sure... but then he should get my body language that I'm not into that stuff with people I barely know. But he continues... I manage to kind of stay away anyway. What am I to do? Shout in his face that it is too soon? Maybe I should have. But the point is that the behavior he has shown me is very disturbing. He has told me he has tried to kill himself... And this is a guy that gets so hurt and pissed off just because I can't answer a message right away. So, the day passes and it's time to go home. Instantly after he left, he sends a message to my cell. Then when he gets home he sends a mail. Then when I don't reply at once, he send another. Then he calls. Etc, etc. And he keeps on doing this every day. The point with all this is, we are not dating at all. I meet him as a friend, and he knows that. So when I finally tell him it's all over he goes: Sure, like I thought something else. Don't you cuddle with your friends? Okay, how many of you kiss your friends (french kissing), hold their hands in public and sit and hug and kiss them at a café... hum... When I did all this, I only did it because I didn't know how to say no. I never kissed a guy before (yeah, I know). So it was all new to me. Anyway... maybe it's just me. I don't know why I can't stand it... It's like he's choking me... But yet, isn't a sweet guy everything a girl could dream of? Hum... maybe I'm strange... but, right now, I don't want that kinda guy. This article comes from Shmeng http://www.shmeng.com/ The URL for this story is: http://www.shmeng.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=News&file=article&sid=321