Group Sex Date Saturday, April 20, 2024 - 04:42 AM PST Topic Smut Monogamy won out in our little poll about favorite relationship types. I'm not suprized or unsuprized really. Although i have a feeling that some people may have voted for it more than once, thereby skewing the results abit. It raised a question in my mind. WHY monogamgy? Isn't it "cooler" to want tribal or trine or something?. I mean, the emerging stereotyes are that all girls are bisexual and that all men want to be with two bi girls. I though that trine would win out since that is the subculture archetypical relationship. Even Penthouse Letters says so. So I ask again why is this select group of people so different? Are we all lying? Are we all that selfish? Are we all that lazy? Every girlie in a t-shirt that says porn star is insinuating that the wearer will and wants to sleep with many people. Yet they are often unapproachable and no fun when you do get them in bed.  Boys that will dance with two girls at a club, often will get scared and leave if the girls make it clear that they are a) together and b) willing to go play. Dinner party's ought to be renamed, since there tends to be very little "party" and way too much dinner involved. (this is sort of an inside joke, but I bet most of you get the point. After all this post is from the Mistress of Orgies. hint hint.) My point here being that there is ALOT of lying going on. As far as selfish goes, well I can understand not wanting to share your favorite toy, or your car, but there is no way to NOT share a person. You have to share them with themselves at the very least. Every friend they have ever had, every family member, that scary teacher that they tell you about, the people at work, the people on the freeway, the whole rest of the world really. You are already sharing thier time and attention, so why not be part of that sharing instead of pretending that it doesnt exist? The logistics can be more difficult with three or four than with two you say. I tell you that you are wrong. They are easier, actually. You KNOW what to do with your hands. OK yes there are that many more knees to deal with, but there are that many more mouths to kiss. Its an even trade off really. Its just as easy to meet two people as it is to meet one. Actually (again) its easier. After all most people that you meet are in congregation places; dance clubs, cafes, work, buses, etc. Its rare to meet someone in a room with just your two in there. So if you are lying, remember that the proof is in the pudding as they say, and that you will get caught out and laughed at. If you are lazy, well stay that way. Who wants a lazy lover? If you are selfish, consider the lie that you are trying to believe and see if you can understand that sharing your time with some one doesn't make them your mindless, souless toy. It just means that you have shared time. On the flip side, when getting intimate with 2 or more people, be careful that you dont feel intimidated by the looks of any of the same sex people. This can lead to competition and make it less fun for everyone This article comes from Shmeng http://www.shmeng.com/ The URL for this story is: http://www.shmeng.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=News&file=article&sid=174