RavensSoul
Member Posts: 63 Registered: 27/3/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 07:22 PM |
Yea, we both fucked up on the whole relationships thing. And I'm not
justifying my actions by saying this, but at least I had the balls to tell
the guy I was with about my infidelities and let him decide how he'd
respond to my actions. I got lucky in that he didn't tell me to fuck off
and die.. but from what I've been told, the bastard has yet to confess his
wrong doings to this girl he's with. It's not fair to her, being with him
and not knowing the kind of guy he is, just like it wouldn't have been fair
to my boyfriend if I had gone on pretending that it hadn't happened. *
dammit, this is starting to sound like a soap opear*
Oh, by the way HEATHER!!! *you know anger when I use your real name* yes, I
will be calling and yelling at you. You didn't have talk about the whole
age thing and the illegleness and him just randomly showing up at my house
expecting to get some and actually getting it. You're supposed to zip your
lip about that part, girl.
Expect a maiming. ____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is to
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts of
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PoeticChaos
Occasional Poster Posts: 23 Registered: 14/12/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 07:39 PM |
Listen, well read technically, I know you told the guy you're with, but how
long did that take you? Besides, you didn't even tell him what happened,
you just said you had a fling with a guy and it meant nothing. But if it
had really meant nothing *i know it was your first and all* then you still
wouldn't be stuck on this guy and this problem. And yes, she needs to know
what kind of guy she's with. But your boy has been nothing but true to you
and you didn't even have the balls *even though you are a girl* to tell him
the whole truth. I mean you want to break up with him anyway, so just tell
him what really happened for once and get it the fuck over with. I mean if
he tells one of his friends then yeah it may hurt your rep, but who the
fuck cares.
*remembers that you do care* Okay maybe I'm just saying to tell him cause I
don't belief in lying to someone I care about. And then again I also don't
seem to care for anyone's approval. I mean if it does hurt your rep, you'll
find new friends and the whole thing will pass in a matter of weeks,
knowing our group, something a bit more "soup opera" will happen soon
enough. ____________________
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RavensSoul
Member Posts: 63 Registered: 27/3/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 09:25 PM |
I told him 4 days after it happened because thats when I saw him again. He
found out before you did. And, also, I didn't say that it meant nothing, I
said that it would never happen again because of how horrible I felt about
it and ashamed I was that I broke to lust. And this guy and this problem
still bothers me because, yea, I do still care about him, just not in an "
I want to fuck him and then spend the rest of our lives together" kind of
way. Thank ya very much. And the reason for not telling him in detail is to
keep bastard from getting sent to jail, because as much as I'm not liking
him right now, I'm not going to be responsible for the whole downfall of
his life, I'm not that much of a heartless bitch, yet... yea, not
gonna carry this on in a forum. Will be calling you tomorrow. ____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is to
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts
from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts
of
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Tvileren
Occasional Poster Posts: 38 Registered: 26/4/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 20/7/2003 at 12:47 PM |
So you both lied and cheated on the people that loved you and it was
illegal as well? You're right, this sounds like a soap opera. ____________________
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 21/7/2003 at 03:03 AM |
Dom, I think we have different definitions of "deal". By "deal" I did not
mean sit on your ass and do nothing, I meant take what ever action you can
find to make the situation better, and then when everything else is done,
suck it up and keep living.
By "deal" I never meant that a person should not notify authorities if
there is illegal behavior. By "deal" I never meant that a person should
not confront the people they have a problem with and try to work it out. I
didn't even mean that you should never go head to head with someone who is
causing a problem.
To me, that is "dealing" with the problem. And if you "deal" with the
problem by taking action, and the problem still exists, THEN you either
escape, or "deal" with it by living your life around it to the best of your
ability.
But of course, the highschooler's chance of escaping before the appointed
time is about nil, so if they can't figure out a way to deal actively, they
are forced to deal passively, which sucks. Is it any wonder that so many
highschoolers feel driven to suicide? ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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Anonymous
Posts: 116 Registered: 14/4/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 10:38 AM |
Finally, someone who understands teenagers. Schizo wil you come lecture the
parents and teachers and others. ::looks pityful:: Please. |
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 11:39 AM |
Lol...poor Schizo. |
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Abbadon
Fanatic Posts: 499 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 03:47 PM |
This forum wasn't originally about magic. But today i feel like a sheep so
I'm going to go along with that trail of thought. If any body would like me
to share my knowledge of the occult with them, let me know. ____________________ Light is changing to shadow, and casting a shroud over all we have known. |
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 27/7/2003 at 05:47 AM |
*shudders as she imagines a lecture hall stuffed to the brim with
unsympathetic parents and teachers*
I'll tell you what I'll do, Anonymous, I'll lecture anyone whocomes across
my path looking for advice about their "impossible teen".
Though it's a lot coming from someone whose child is only 1 year old, and
who hasn't been a teenager for almost 8 years! I'll need a lot of luck to
get anyone to listen to me! ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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Psychopixi
Fanatic Posts: 376 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 28/7/2003 at 05:54 AM |
I envy your child, especially when it gets to be a teenager - you're a
groovy mommy! ____________________ Do not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate life. |
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 29/7/2003 at 06:00 PM |
Woohoo!!!! I'm groovy! ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and
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dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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