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Squire-of-Gothos
Fanatic Posts: 206 Registered: 1/1/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 12/1/2003 at 10:36 PM |
Recently, I have discovered some things about myself, and am in need of
advice. Between my last girlfriend and some conversations with a friend I
sort of acidentally found out I like pain. I like getting it, and I like
giving it. Me and my last girlfriend started out with playfully wrestling
in bed during forplay etc, which evolved into bitting lips and ears, which
evolved into her cutting me with her nails and hair pulling, cutting, that
sort of stuff. As per the bondage, it was part of a game my girlfriend and
I played, slave/master that type of stuff. Well she found a new master, and
I'm sitting here with all these new emotions and fantasies with no where to
turn. I can't seem to find a community where I can discuss this stuff, or
friends who feel the same way. I'm sort of lost and was wondering if anyone
here has any experience in the matter, or could refer to a place where I
can find out more about this stuff. ____________________ “The only thing that can alter the good writer is death.”
“You know that if I were reincarnated, I’d want to come back a buzzard.
Nothing hates him. He is never bothered or in danger, and he can eat
anything.”
Faulkner |
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Domkitten
Fanatic Posts: 470 Registered: 23/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/1/2003 at 08:38 AM |
Well, this all depends on how old you are, as I recall from reading around
some of your posts you might still be at a legal age were getting a
spanking could constitute statutory rape.
If you are an adult, there are probably lots of things for you to find
depending on where you live.
I'd advise more but I'm kinda curious about the age question... ____________________ It's like kegel exercises for your throat.~Monolycus |
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Ironboots
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 893 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/1/2003 at 10:32 AM |
Yeah, I'm 99% sure he's underage. (Of course, unless he was left back a
couple times in grade school)
Doesn't that bite? (no pun intended...) But I guess the rules were created
to attempt to keep kids from screwing (again, no pun) up their lives.
*shrugs* ____________________ Piggy's got the Conch! |
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Erishkigal
Member Posts: 62 Registered: 5/10/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 13/1/2003 at 04:24 PM |
Well, I can see where you're coming from, but unless you feel like visiting
a fetish porn site you're unlikely to find a How - To guide. The thing
about BDSM is thats its a little out of the ordinary and therefore an
individual thing which each person treats differently and has their own
methods for. There are the more typical methods - bondage, handcuffs, gags,
biting, whips... then some have their own fetishes, although I personally
dont really stray from the aforementioned.
Its a playground and pretty much make-your-own... unless you fancy shelling
out tons on specialist gear from dodgy shops then you'll probably have to
suffice with using substitutes from the actual equipment and just doing
what you feel tempted to do, as long as your girlfriend is cool with it
all. Its also advisable to have a 'safe word' you can use if you panic and
want to stop or its gone a bit too far.
Although BDSM isnt actually all that unusual, some people can view it in a
bit of a perverted light, so I wouldnt mention the heavy stuff to your
mates quite yet, hehe. Play safe, have fun ____________________ Let viagra bring the magic back. |
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 15/1/2003 at 05:37 PM |
Out of the ordinary, maybe, but always fun!
Like as before mentioned, try online, but if you are underage, all you can
do is look at pictures and yearn.
It also depends on where you are located. For instance, if you were in San
Diego, and of legal age (can't stress that enough) I could tell you a
couple of places to go. But if you are in the middle of a nowhere bible
belt town, well, let me now how that works out.
Most importantly though is, no matter what you end up doing, be careful.
Even if you aren't underage, even if you like being hurt, there is always a
limit. Make sure you are always in a situation where you are completely
comfortable, make sure you are with somebody you trust, and make sure you
will be able to pull out at ANY time.
Since the general consensus seems to be that you are a youngin' you have to
be extra careful. I'm not going to sit here and lecture you on not going
out and doing stuff, because if you really want to, faceless words aren't
going to stop you. Just be careful in what you do and who you do it with. ____________________ Okay, dazzle me. |
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