Im Back New and improved and more depressed as ever. Every thing was going
good for about a month or so. Then i had to go and screw it all up. Lets
start at the begining after 19 long years i had finally did it I went and
got laid. You would think that i would be happier then a vampire in a blood
bank but no!!!! I dont understand it. Any time i need help i have turned
to my friends. This time they have no idea what to do. See the problem is
that this girl that i had sex with has a boyfriend, who is in the army and
could give me a run for my money in a fight. the problem is that i think i
love her because it is like no feeling i had ever felt before. I dont
think that shee is going to break up with him. I just don't know what to
do or think. HELP
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addastra
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posted on 26/10/2002 at 03:53 PM
now wait... was this your "first time", or are you older and just chose to
be celebate for 19 years? either way, maybe you just feel so strongly
because its been so long.
i'm also a big advocate of monogamy *or* "anything-goes" as long as each
party involved has some agreement.
i think im just going to leave it that simple. i dont want to get preachy.
i hope everything works out for you.
AloneSoul
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posted on 26/10/2002 at 07:46 PM
Think about it in a different angle, is what you feel true love or a
infatuation? It is difficult to tell the difference from them.
Ask yourself this question: Could you spend the rest of your life with
this girl, and she could make you happy for the rest of your life. I'm not
talking about High School love where it only lasts for a semester. I'm
talking about 7 years dating then getting married. Ask yourself that and
really give it some thought. Women, in my experiance, are usually not
something you want to be depressed about. My roomate (that is moving out
thank god) is still obsessing about some bitch that cheated on him and then
broke up with him. He mopes around all day and watches "Friends", looking
at the life he will never have.
Sure i thought i could have married some of the girls i dated in HS, but
now i think that would have been stupid, some of them didnt have goals, or
any thing planned for the future. Think of your future first. I'm not
getting married untill i have all my toys.
*Chaa Ching* My two cents has been entered.
-Mort
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posted on 28/10/2002 at 10:16 PM
Actually...you have a good point there Morte. I mean if you don't have your
own world somewhat established with your own toys and goals in place, it's
really hard to be with someone in a similar situation. It's one thing if
you actually meet your soul-mate straight out of high school, it's another
if you marry someone just to get married. I did the just to get married
thing, less than a year out of high school. It was stupid, and he wasn't
the person I was looking for and I know I wasn't what he wanted either. So
I didn't meet the man I was meant to marry until I was out of high school
for about 14 years. We both had some of our goals accomplished and we both
knew who we were and what we wanted. I've seen young men and women ruin
their lives by mistaking sex for love. If it's love sex will follow
automatically. If there's no respect or only one person wants the other
person, then it's best to move on and forget about them. It wasn't really
love, it was desire.
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posted on 30/10/2002 at 06:24 PM
didn't my mom tell you to get over it :-p
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posted on 30/10/2002 at 07:00 PM
less than 6% marry their high school sweetheart.
the mopey friend stuff is like the fat stuff. "Oh I'm so fat" but the
person is so skinny..someone says they can't live without someone but it
really isn't that deep so they force themselves to feel shitty. Yeah,
you'll mourn for a while but you have to think "did I learn something from
this person, did I enjoy being in the company of this person?" Because you
could be dating a pyschic vampire (steals your energy with self-pity) and
be blind to that because they have a piece of you.
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Comedian
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posted on 30/10/2002 at 07:21 PM
Buy a gun and train with it. Fewer than 3% of marines can put a hole in a
beer can sized object at more than 30 yards with a pistol.
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posted on 30/10/2002 at 09:57 PM
Loves target shooting
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MorteAscendo
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posted on 30/10/2002 at 10:34 PM
The biggest gun i have shot was a SKS. Kinda like an AK47, but semi auto
and super heavy. But accurate as a mother fucker. i tagged a bucket 3
outta 5 times from 100 yards. ahhhhhhhhh yeah!!!
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posted on 31/10/2002 at 01:33 AM
What caliber? Most of you military guys have gotten stuck with the low
caliber stuff since all those women started bitching about how a day of
using a .45 full-auto rifle was putting their backs out of whack, so they
put up all that .223 and 9 milimeter gear.
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posted on 1/11/2002 at 09:23 AM
The bigest gun i have shot was a .50 cal Baret sniper rifle i blew up a
water jug from a halh mile away.
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Shootmenow69
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posted on 1/11/2002 at 09:25 AM
Dude the first time I fucked, I told my girlfriend I loved her about 40
times in a row. Its pusy sickness, the sex glow will wear off, and the
chick will wanna keep getting shtooped buy her big army BF, so move on.
Xaoswolf
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posted on 1/11/2002 at 12:43 PM
A friend of mine has a pistle that fire a 20 gauge shell. I really wanna
try that. As for marines not being able to hit with a pistol, that may be
true, but give them a rifle, and I'm not going to be the one telling them
that they can't shoot. One of my coworkers was a Marine, and he can hit a
man sized target at 500 yards, with iron sites.
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posted on 2/11/2002 at 10:00 AM
A man-sized object at 500 yards is about the size of a beer can at 5 yards.
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Shootmenow69
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posted on 3/11/2002 at 02:59 PM
When did this evolve into a discussion about guns? Its kind of sad, the
guys all freaked out bye the chick situation and the BF, and you guys are
talking about human profiles at distances and shit. Then again I do love
gun. The biggest gun I've shot was a 50 calliber Flint-lock. that shit I'll
mess up your back. That guy is right, whats with the MArines and these 9mm
sidearms, that is fucked up. Ive seen a fucking dog get shot with a 9 and
keep going. For me, its .45 or .50, nothing else in a handgun will do. You
just can't stop a guy, especially if the guy your shooting at is the enemy,
and trained to take pain, with a 9mm. There only virtue is accuracy, and
when your shooting a friggin pistol, you shouldn't need that much acuracy,
thats the point of a side arm isn't it? close-combat backup weapon.
MorteAscendo
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posted on 3/11/2002 at 03:26 PM
Get used to the fact Shootmenow, these forums rarely ever stay the same
topic.
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posted on 3/11/2002 at 09:14 PM
Man, i was reading the after-action reports from the troops on Black Hawk
Down(the book) and they wer eall bitching about how those damn Somalis
could taker about 10 .223 rounds in the chest before they went down. .45
and .50 caliber, and good old .357-- only guns that anyone should be using.
I was watching a cops where this thug was shooting his fat Eskimo wife
with a 9mm, he put about two clips into the bitch before the went down, it
was hilarious. Cops get the light stuff too, why the hell aren't they out
there with the Casull 450 or the Raging Bull revolver? Sheer absurdity to
go out there with some that has barely better penetration than a .22 with
about 6 times the noise.
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posted on 4/11/2002 at 11:29 AM
I'm not sure about this but the weaker police side arms are simply
standard, for either the more "non-fatal" police issue or maybe even
funding itself. They still are a extremely deadly force...when not using
bean bags.
Cops down here in south florida don't get that 9mm shit, not a chance.
Right now there in the process of getting every cop to cary there new
standard issue firearm, the Glock 22, which is .40 caliber, and an
impressive 15 rounds per clip. The FBI uses the Glock 23, which is
esentially the same weapon, but more compact. I personally Don't settle for
anything less than a .45 for personal protection, and being a lover of
Glocks, thats the Glock 21.
thirteen rounds of jacketed .45 auto can take down any fat assed Eskimo
whore, and probably a bear for that matter. But i would keep a .40 or 9mm
around, there range to killing power is increased, and a .40 caliber gun
aint nothing to laugh at.