This is just proof that some people really really suck.
I broke up with this loser boyfriend who is just, a moron. An insult to
my intelligence. And I was even nice about it, I wasnīt angry or anything.
He went out with my old best friend-who i have a bad history with-two
hours later. Then asked me why I hated her.
After being convinced that he would not get angry or be offended I gave
him the most honest reasons:
Shes kaniving, a snot, stuck up, uncaring to othersī feelings, a
backstabber, etc. etc. And this was all without using profanity which I
was very tempted to do.
When he was done taking all that in he got angry, of course. I just
insulted his girlfriend.. but he basically asked me to. So he gave the
reasons why no one would go out with me:
1.Iīm goth and looks really do matter a lot.
2.Iīm a Witch/Wiccan and those people are just creepy.
3.My hair color
4.No one wants a girl whose different.
It took me about two seconds to take all that in, and first of all
my hair color is currently brown which isnīt a bad color. By then people
were listening and I was ready to throw gravel in his face. Before I said
anything my friend Alison stepped and told him those were all stupid
reasons, very opinionated and he could be the only one on earth that
doesnīt want to date me. I walked away feeling a little better and that
all disappeared when I saw him again about 5 minutes later. I was with
Alison, and he picked another fight backing it up with those stupid
reasons. I started walking away and he kept pushing it, so I turned around
and told him.. "You know what? I highly doubt that any guy would want a
girl whose just like everyone else, that would be boring. Witches are
cool, I am one, and you should be more respectful to those that died in the
middle ages, not just real witches but all people that died then. My hair
color is brown at the moment, if you havenīt noticed. Its not pink or
blue. And I donīt think anyone gave you the right to label me as anything.
You are so shallow that yes, you and Amy would be perfect for eachother.
You might as well take that as a compliment and leave me alone."
Okay now, so that was over with right? Ha, they made me the center of
their worlds. Constantly talking about me, harassing me. It got so bad
that I was going to file harassment charges, but they stopped talking to
me. It was my fault for using poor judgement and telling him how I really
felt about his girlfriend instead of leaving him to wonder. I think it
would be best to stay away from guys for a while.
____________________ "Pity no one was there
No angels in the air
And the morning paper ran
One more suicide"
Ironboots
Extreme Fanatic
Posts: 893 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
posted on 31/7/2002 at 12:27 PM
Its just my opinion, but I feel that goth girls are more appealing
(straight off the bat) than īnormalī girls...
But yeah, you did screw up by trying to piss them both off. You only gained
more malice from them, and brought yourself down to their level.
But donīt swear off guys, please? ;) Weīre not all bad...
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VampCourt
Fanatic
Posts: 293 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
posted on 31/7/2002 at 12:29 PM
fuck that noise girl. people like that are as you say "shallow" . they have
no real concept of culture or the unique. His Ideas about you are bullshit.
there are plenty of people that date "diffrent" people. Those are the
people that are best because they see past the typical mainstream over
used, over glamourized crap. Why have your self a plain olī vanilla
icecream cone when you could have a Buetiful deliciouse multicolored
sno-cone?
That really irks me that he said those things. but then again he is yet
another one of those sad sad people who have that concept that every person
should look the same and follow the crowd.
and theres Nothinī wrong with witches DAMMIT. One of my best friends back
home in MA is a witch and he is one of the nicest laid back friendly
persons you could meet...
let that little shit stain go off with his trendy piece of plastic.. at
least you know your better than the both...
____________________ "Thou shalt not be afraid of the dark, nor of graveyards nor ghosts nor the
devil, for thou art scarey and mean." -The Goth commandments
DarkMistress
Member
Posts: 170 Registered: 6/6/2002 Status: Offline
posted on 31/7/2002 at 01:22 PM
Yes I realized I stooped to their level, it was kind of fun to do that
again. The only problem was they didnt know when to stop. Theyīd have
people over at my exīs house and Iīd be online and theyīd start talking to
me and asking me questions and trying to offend me, I have half my buddy
list on block.
Iīm happy to see other people back me up on the idea of dating someone
whose just like everyone else. Eww, Iīd hate that. Hi Brad, I mean Matt,
I mean Dom, gosh, who are you? Youīre all the same! I havenīt given up,
Ironboots, there just arenīt any differenīt guys around here. Too small of
a town.
____________________ "Pity no one was there
No angels in the air
And the morning paper ran
One more suicide"
Alugarde
Member
Posts: 185 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
posted on 31/7/2002 at 10:19 PM
Please tell me you didnīt know he was like that before you started dating
him... :o
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AloneSoul
Fanatic
Posts: 522 Registered: 6/7/2002 Status: Offline
posted on 31/7/2002 at 10:45 PM
He wanted honesty and thatīs what he gets. If he canīt handle the brutal
truth then thatīs his problem. People who just want to jerk you around
arenīt even worth your time nor the title of a "friend."
Good job! Itīs best that they piss off.
You should take a break off from dating. Live a singleīs life alittle.
Like Ironboots said though, donīt be so hasty to judge all guys from that
asshole. Weīre not all bad.
a few years ago, my mother told me that "normal" guys would never like me.
it hurt at the time, and it took a long time for me to realize why she told
me that, and that i wasnīt really missing much with the "normal" guys. That
guy sounds pretty normal to me. Screw him.
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~~ QUACK!
Anonymous
Posts: 116 Registered: 14/4/2002 Status: Offline
posted on 1/8/2002 at 09:50 AM
Alugarde-no I didnīt realize he was like that when i started dating him.
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DarkMistress
Member
Posts: 170 Registered: 6/6/2002 Status: Offline
posted on 1/8/2002 at 09:52 AM
that was me^
____________________ "Pity no one was there
No angels in the air
And the morning paper ran
One more suicide"
Monolycus
Fanatic
Posts: 580 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
posted on 1/8/2002 at 10:20 AM
Iīve heard this kind of thing before, and I have to agree that when the
dating pool needs to be chlorinated that badly, itīs time to dry off for
awhile. If you find yourself saying things like "Men/Women all suck", you
should take a break for a bit and get back to dating later.
A lot of people are frightened by being single for some reason... they feel
that they will never find a mate (or that it is even important that they
do). Iīve said this before and I donīt expect it will make any difference
this time either: Learn who YOU are. You are not an incomplete person
without a significant other (as a matter of fact, by defining yourself in
terms of the relationships you are or are not in, you are less complete
when you DO have an S.O. because they keep you from individuating
yourself). Take some time off. Enjoy. Let yourself grow and let everyone
around you grow up a bit and then take a fresh look. I think youīll find
that it changes the equation in your favour. I am, I was, I will be
that guy!
~Monolycus.
____________________ "I believe that woman is planning to shoot me again."
DarkMistress
Member
Posts: 170 Registered: 6/6/2002 Status: Offline
posted on 1/8/2002 at 10:47 AM
Thatīs the reason that I broke up with him besides the fact that he
practically cheated on me. I was thinking..if he thinks that being "goth"
and a witch and bla bla bla is all that bad then why did he go out with me
in the first place. Hypocrite.
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