ariadne
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posted on 4/10/2003 at 09:10 AM |
i have been reading the other forums concerning paranormal activity and i
hope maybe some of you are knowledgeable enough to help me understand a
certain occurrence i had a few years ago and recently,this past week.
i would like to say before i begin that i am over this situation
emotionally . this is not a pity party. time heals all wounds,so to speak.
i am more concerned with strange goings on surrounding this scenario.
i would like to start by giving some background info on events that led to
this situation.in october 2000. i was pregnant and dating someone in my
platoon, we were both in the army. well, there must have been alot that
this guy was keeping from me, it seems that he was supposed to be getting a
divorce but he wasn't exactly being honest about that. i knew in my gut
that was so but his estranged wife put him through so much hell i knew i
couldn't turn my back on him. my pregnancy was not planned, even with
precautions we were placed in such a predicament.
any how, we were on a four day pass for columbus day weekend. he went the
whole day on our first day off, saying nothing, just staring. that night he
went to a friend's and made some phone calls and his mood altered and he
actually started speaking and being himself again. we got into an argument
because he was going to north carolina to take some things to his estranged
wife, i told him i didn't think he should go, i had a feeling that
something really bad was going to happen. he said it would be ok because a
mutual friend of ours was going with him which turned out to be a lie and i
did not find out until it was too late.
now to the real thing, the next morning he was loading up his truck
with everything and his mood altered again. he was distant and hardly said
a word to me.i told him i loved him and he left. he was supposed to return
that evening , he never did.
at 3am the next morning i woke up to the sound of his voice,he said,"i
am so fucking sick of all this..." and nothing more. i had slept in the
same spot he had slept the night before. i awoke and realised he was not
there. i was worried. his estranged wife had threatened to kill him many
times and he once played a message on his answering machine so i could hear
the way she threatened him.
when the sun came up i gathered my 2yr old daughter up to go and
report that he was missing. everyone thought i was overreacting. when i
returned home my 2yr old wouldn't go near or look at my front door . i
tried to console her but she kept covering her eyes as if she saw something
terrible. i tried to get her to take a nap on the couch but if she faced
thedoor she would scream and cry. if i walked towards the front door she
would scream and would not go with me which was really strange because she
usually followed me everywhere.
months later i found out that when he got to north carolina that he
was going there to work things out with his wife. what he found was his
wife shacked up with another guy and the knowledge that his kids were
calling this guy daddy. she conned him into false hope. from what i
understand there was a fight and his wife claims that he got pissed and
just left. his truck was found on the side of the road in the middle of
nowhere , parked in the woods. the detective said there was no sign of
struggle. a search was conducted and there has been no sign of him. the
detective believes he committed suicide. i am still trying to figure out
how he hid his own body after but that is another story.
a few months after i had my baby. i was going to put my 2yr old in
bed and when i was tucking her in she was covering her eyes and i asked her
what was wrong and she pointed to the foot of the bed and i asked her what
she saw and she said, "daddy" that was what she called him.
recently, this past week to be exact. i was filled with a feeling of
dread and sorrow. i have been diagnosed as bi polar but i am more manic
than depressed so this made no sense to me. finally i got a phone call a
couple of days a go from this guy's mom. (we have been trying to get the
army to help us with dna testing for my daughter fathered by this guy.)
when she called she let me know that she had been gone for a week because
her mother died unexpectedly. she said it was so strange because her mother
was the one that convinced her to help me prove paternity. mainly the
reason she decided to help was because her mother never knew her father
until too late. had she known him before that time she might not have
suffered through so much medically. i thought that was a coincidence
because that was my reason for trying to prove paternity in the first
place. any how do any of you believe it possible that i felt this woman's
passing. this was not just a depressed feeling i had. this felt like
something tragic happened and i could not understand why i felt such a way.
i am never depressed. what about the situation with my daughter, what do
you guys think could have been happening there?
please forgive the incessant rambling i hope what i have said is easy to
understand. ____________________
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic   Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 1/2/2007 at 08:24 PM |
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Mistress_SinisterLove
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posted on 1/2/2007 at 07:38 PM |
quote:
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yes lol ____________________
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feralucce
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 1810 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 31/1/2007 at 05:07 PM |
wow... the sig line.... is... wow
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Mistress_SinisterLove
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posted on 31/1/2007 at 03:38 PM |
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EyeCandyRayce
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posted on 25/2/2004 at 11:34 AM |
Many times someone who has died and feels they left something unfinished
will return. I'm probably saying too much here but I see them sometimes.
Alot of times, if the death was tramatic, the person is in the physical
state their bodies are in after the death. Once I saw a man whose boat had
sank. He had fallen down and hit his head while trying to fix the leak. He
stood there with blood gushing from a wound in his head.
Usually when they are just watching over a family they appear as they did
in life. Most children don't get frightened by that and in most cases,
don't raelize the individual is actually dead.
My guess is that your daughter is seeing him as he was when he died.
Depending on the condition of the wounds that caused his death, this could
be very frightening to a child.
I suggest that next time she sees him you sit down and talk to him right
that instant and in that very spot. Tell him how you felt and how you feel
now. Say goodbye. I think that maybe he has returned because of his own
guilt of what he had gone to do when he died. Maybe he is there in hopes
you will forgive him. Maybe he just needs closure.
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ariadne
Member Posts: 107 Registered: 26/9/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/10/2003 at 06:14 PM |
the wiffle bat w/ holy water sounds good. i never had anymore problems
after the episodes i described. it was just a really strange situation.
when my daughter reacted like that it really gave me the creeps. it was
almost like he was trying to tell us something. or maybe just say good bye.
who knows? i sure as hell don't. my daughter couldn't even describe what
she saw , she wasn't even talking yet so i guess i will never have a way of
knowing why she acted the way she did. i really believe she saw
something. all i know is she was terrified and there was no reason for it.
it happened as soon as we walked into my house. it boggles the mind.  ____________________
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/10/2003 at 05:14 PM |
A pound of salt and a copy of Chicken Soup for the Restless Soul can go a
long ways.
Correllates to a lot of urban legends and myths actually. Which could mean
lots of things.
In any case, yeah, kids see things. Sometimes kids make up things...but
every so often, whoomp there it is.
My guess, one hell of an anger bomb...
That stuff bleeds over after death, and sticks like rotten peanut butter to
just about everything. Hate and anger breeds more such emotions...and death
doesn't stop it, it just releases it. so it does it's whole little water
thing and trickles down to the places it knows, the places of least
resistance.
Lots of crap could be happening. My guess is your suffering from either a
fairly potent but simple haunting, or something signifigantly more complex.
I'm hoping for the haunting, those can be dealt with...but
complexities...well.
I highly doubt that all events have been laid for examination.
From what I know I could only suggest that you follow the course of action
you believe to be right.
blah...
You could always fill a plugged wiffle bat with holy water and go to
town...
No seriously...it's fun AND it works. ____________________
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ariadne
Member Posts: 107 Registered: 26/9/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 5/10/2003 at 07:05 AM |
| yeah ii know it sounds crazy. the latter part of my post was just a
coincidence i am sure. i am more concerned with my daughter's reaction
since i strongly believe that kids are able to see things most adults
can't. i do have a working knowledge of the occult and the paranormal but
i think that when a situation involves you it is important to get another
perspective since an objective view may be more accurate than mere wishful
thinking. ____________________
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Anya
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 656 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 5/10/2003 at 12:11 AM |
Alright...the first thing that I would do is go seek medical attention
first, which seems to be what you are doing. I'm not making fun of the
event, just the common sense thing to do before considering anything
supernatural. As far as your story goes, I'll ask some of my associates
for any insight.
I'm into this stuff and have experienced similar feelings every now and
then (i.e., something bad happening). In fact, I had a dream of an
Apocalyptical background with tormented souls and daemonic spirits and woke
up. The obvious was the War in Iraq going on and the weird part was
someone dying a day after I had that dream. Otherwise, I just shrug it off
and consider it just coinsidence. Either way, I'll see what I can pull for
you if you're really worried.
I'm not an expert at this stuff either...just have an interest in the
Occult.
[Edited on 10/5/2003 by Anya]
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MystryssRavynDarque
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 648 Registered: 24/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 4/10/2003 at 07:04 PM |
| Wow, that is very freaky. I don't know much about things of the paranormal
realm, but I might say that this would qualify in my book. ____________________
"People always say what we are looking for is a meaning for life…I don't
think that's what we're looking for. I think what we're looking for is the
experience of being alive." -Joseph Campbell
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