This forum is being started as a venting and advice place for anybody who
is tired of the inmature assholes that happen to be surrounding you.
I don't wanna seem like a complainer on here, because in my everday life,
I'm a very mellow, easy-going person, you can ask anyone who knows me * the
only one who uses this site, being poeticchaos* But I'm just so goddamn
tired of the asshole at school, the assholes online, and even the assholes
in my own house. But at this very moment, I'm pissed at a very specific
asshole who pretends to be my friend when he's bored and couldn't give half
a fuck about me any other time. I know I shouldn't bother with him anymore.
I know I should treat him exactly how he treats me * like shit * and above
all else, I know I should just try and block him from my life. But its so
damn hard because I really do care about him. Whenever he's not being an
asshole, he's a very decent, talented, happy person. And I guess I just
needed to get that out. :::sigh:::
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is to
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts of
night.
Schizo
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posted on 29/7/2003 at 06:00 PM
Woohoo!!!! I'm groovy!
____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
Psychopixi
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posted on 28/7/2003 at 05:54 AM
I envy your child, especially when it gets to be a teenager - you're a
groovy mommy!
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Schizo
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posted on 27/7/2003 at 05:47 AM
*shudders as she imagines a lecture hall stuffed to the brim with
unsympathetic parents and teachers*
I'll tell you what I'll do, Anonymous, I'll lecture anyone whocomes across
my path looking for advice about their "impossible teen".
Though it's a lot coming from someone whose child is only 1 year old, and
who hasn't been a teenager for almost 8 years! I'll need a lot of luck to
get anyone to listen to me!
____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
Abbadon
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 03:47 PM
This forum wasn't originally about magic. But today i feel like a sheep so
I'm going to go along with that trail of thought. If any body would like me
to share my knowledge of the occult with them, let me know.
____________________ Light is changing to shadow, and casting a shroud over all we have known.
Anya
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 11:39 AM
Lol...poor Schizo.
Anonymous
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posted on 24/7/2003 at 10:38 AM
Finally, someone who understands teenagers. Schizo wil you come lecture the
parents and teachers and others. ::looks pityful:: Please.
Schizo
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posted on 21/7/2003 at 03:03 AM
Dom, I think we have different definitions of "deal". By "deal" I did not
mean sit on your ass and do nothing, I meant take what ever action you can
find to make the situation better, and then when everything else is done,
suck it up and keep living.
By "deal" I never meant that a person should not notify authorities if
there is illegal behavior. By "deal" I never meant that a person should
not confront the people they have a problem with and try to work it out. I
didn't even mean that you should never go head to head with someone who is
causing a problem.
To me, that is "dealing" with the problem. And if you "deal" with the
problem by taking action, and the problem still exists, THEN you either
escape, or "deal" with it by living your life around it to the best of your
ability.
But of course, the highschooler's chance of escaping before the appointed
time is about nil, so if they can't figure out a way to deal actively, they
are forced to deal passively, which sucks. Is it any wonder that so many
highschoolers feel driven to suicide?
____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and
the
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dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest
of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
Tvileren
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posted on 20/7/2003 at 12:47 PM
So you both lied and cheated on the people that loved you and it was
illegal as well? You're right, this sounds like a soap opera.
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RavensSoul
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 09:25 PM
I told him 4 days after it happened because thats when I saw him again. He
found out before you did. And, also, I didn't say that it meant nothing, I
said that it would never happen again because of how horrible I felt about
it and ashamed I was that I broke to lust. And this guy and this problem
still bothers me because, yea, I do still care about him, just not in an "
I want to fuck him and then spend the rest of our lives together" kind of
way. Thank ya very much. And the reason for not telling him in detail is to
keep bastard from getting sent to jail, because as much as I'm not liking
him right now, I'm not going to be responsible for the whole downfall of
his life, I'm not that much of a heartless bitch, yet... yea, not
gonna carry this on in a forum. Will be calling you tomorrow.
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is to
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts
from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts
of
night.
PoeticChaos
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 07:39 PM
Listen, well read technically, I know you told the guy you're with, but how
long did that take you? Besides, you didn't even tell him what happened,
you just said you had a fling with a guy and it meant nothing. But if it
had really meant nothing *i know it was your first and all* then you still
wouldn't be stuck on this guy and this problem. And yes, she needs to know
what kind of guy she's with. But your boy has been nothing but true to you
and you didn't even have the balls *even though you are a girl* to tell him
the whole truth. I mean you want to break up with him anyway, so just tell
him what really happened for once and get it the fuck over with. I mean if
he tells one of his friends then yeah it may hurt your rep, but who the
fuck cares.
*remembers that you do care* Okay maybe I'm just saying to tell him cause I
don't belief in lying to someone I care about. And then again I also don't
seem to care for anyone's approval. I mean if it does hurt your rep, you'll
find new friends and the whole thing will pass in a matter of weeks,
knowing our group, something a bit more "soup opera" will happen soon
enough.
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RavensSoul
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 07:22 PM
Yea, we both fucked up on the whole relationships thing. And I'm not
justifying my actions by saying this, but at least I had the balls to tell
the guy I was with about my infidelities and let him decide how he'd
respond to my actions. I got lucky in that he didn't tell me to fuck off
and die.. but from what I've been told, the bastard has yet to confess his
wrong doings to this girl he's with. It's not fair to her, being with him
and not knowing the kind of guy he is, just like it wouldn't have been fair
to my boyfriend if I had gone on pretending that it hadn't happened. *
dammit, this is starting to sound like a soap opear*
Oh, by the way HEATHER!!! *you know anger when I use your real name* yes, I
will be calling and yelling at you. You didn't have talk about the whole
age thing and the illegleness and him just randomly showing up at my house
expecting to get some and actually getting it. You're supposed to zip your
lip about that part, girl.
Expect a maiming.
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is
to
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feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts
from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the beasts
of
night.
PoeticChaos
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 07:09 PM
*apologizing in advance* I'm sorry for what I'm about to say and Raven I
know you'll probably hate me for this a little later but it has to be said.
He's not the only one who screwed up, you did too. *is not going to try to
not go into too much detail on how* I mean there was the whole age
difference thing to begin with and that was mainly his fault, he should
have been intellegent enough to keep his dick in his pants and himself out
of your home. But there is more blame here, you could have said no, you
knew it was illegal and that you had a relationship at the time (even if it
was only a few days old, it still existed). Then again, the relationship
thing was both of you, I know you didn't know about his, but you knew about
your own, as did he about his own. So even though he's hurt you and he's
scum and so on and so forth, you both had these and plenty more reasons to
not have done what you did. I'm sorry I had to be the one to say it, but
I'm (as far as I know) the only one here who knows what happened and almost
the whole of both sides of the story.
*drops back into the shadows of her usual corner and waits to be called out
and yelled out again*
AloneSoul
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posted on 19/7/2003 at 03:25 PM
heh, well I can't complain about being chained up but now that I can speak:
You have to remember that you were not aware of what happened RS. Don't
blame yourself for something like that, aye? The guy should have known
better than to do what he did. He fucked up, not you.
I would say that you should somehow 'diplomatically' confess to the girl
he's with, but some stuff also is best to be quiet about. The question
here, however, is, "Which is more important, reputation or precautions?"
These two things (and likely more possibilities) could happen in this
situation:
1) She'll hate your guts for ever touching her boyfriend.
2) Later, out of the blue, she'll get hurt and confused over actually
finding out what guy he is.
Of course, there's the other possibility that the man might have a change
of heart......but that stuff normally does not happen over night.
My two cents. Best of luck.
[Edited on 7/19/2003 by Anya]
RavensSoul
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 09:50 PM
Sorry, once again. But I'm temporarily reverting this chatroom back to what
it once was, cuz I need some advice about a certain something.
I just found out that the guy I lost my innocence to *who, i no longer have
romantic feelings for* cheated on his girlfriend with me... and it makes me
feel sick what a dog he is and I feel guilty about it because apparently
she's really in love with him. I know I can't change the past and I know I
can't change what kind of a person he is... but any one got any ideas about
how to cope with this scum of the earth feeling I have???
Today was his and her's 3 month anniversary.
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is
to
/>
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts
from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the
beasts
/>
of
night.
RavensSoul
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 12:41 PM
Sorries callei, but I am kinda picky about being called a boy. Up until
about 7th grade I looked pretty boyish * goddamn puberty taking forever*
and that's one of many things that has emotionally fucked me up. It's not a
problem anymore, the looking like a boy thing, but for some reason, it
still bothers me immensely.
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is
to
/>
feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our hearts
/>
from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the
beasts
/>
of
night.
Squire-of-Gothos
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 11:37 AM
Up until recently, I'd have ranted and raved and bitched about school here
too. Becasue up unitl recently I was a good old fashioned high school
student. Shopped at hot topic, shoulder length hair, fuck authority, et
all. But then I decided action had to be taken. So I dropped out, cut my
hair, got a job, went to college, joined the film club and the college
paper, and bought some jeans. Now I'm not saying there is anything wrong
with highschool: because when you are 20 something you bitch too. just
about paying off student loans, and bank statemetns and getting a raise.
But the repetetiveness of this shit is out of hand. Vent, have fun, vent =
gooooood. But holy shit try and turn it into something productive or try to
change the system, or change yourself. There is a measuable limit to how
much bitching will get you, an as a 16 yar old in college, surrounded with
college students, I can tell you that shit don't fly.
Don't like your professor? Change him. You still don't like it. Your a
shitty student. Flunk and lose money. Period.
Life is hard? Congrads! epiphany #1 of
4,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000
is taken care of!
And flaming fires of hell the word poseur is like a cancer! Honestly people
does being called a poser, or losing a friend who doesn't care for you (and
that youve known for a semester) or being an ediot and dating shit sucking
prick that dumps you really the bane of your existance? It sucks, but I
should hope you care a smiggen for slightly more important things like:
Trust
Understanding
Your future
Life
Death
Discovering the real you (sans
stupid nitwits telling you whats up)
The rain forest.
wake up. please..........
____________________ “The only thing that can alter the good writer is death.”
“You know that if I were reincarnated, I’d want to come back a buzzard.
Nothing hates him. He is never bothered or in danger, and he can eat
anything.”
Faulkner
callei
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 10:47 AM
Raven? does it matter what sex you are to anyone here, well unless they or
you are picky AND think that you want to have sex?
giggle
*no more sugar for me so early in the day*
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away.
RavensSoul
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posted on 18/7/2003 at 10:10 AM
This is getting pretty interesting, see, some good can come from teenage
whinning. We're having a nice little debate about what it is to be a
teenager or adult, making choices and dealing with the consequences of our
actions.
Some very good points have been made and all of them are very true in their
own ways. I really can't think of anything I'd like to add to this, but I
am really happy with what this forum has turned into. And for future
reference, Domkitten, I am a girl. Not a he.
____________________ In my eyes, to be human is not to be able to live and die, but it is
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to
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feel pain, love, happiness, and all other things that keep our
hearts
/>
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from
freezing over into the bloody ice that distinguishes man from the