Closetgothbabe
Member   Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 06:59 PM |
Stic what is wrong with you today????? People arent trying to hurt you on
here its just people making a statement about how they see it......if you
didnt want feed back then you shouldnt have posted this on here. Back off
Merry is right and she is just saying what she feels just like you say what
you feel but you are attacking people for no reason and you know it. BE
NICE!
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Merry_Widow
Fanatic   Posts: 598 Registered: 24/8/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 07:09 PM |
You don't believe in teenage bisexuals? That's a fairly hypocritical
judgement call coming from you...someone also in their teen years.
You were extremely unfair to Altariel. You can't run around screaming
"don't judge me!" and then turn around and do it to someone else, who, by
the way, was trying to help your argument. ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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Sticupus
Fanatic  Posts: 254 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 07:58 PM |
| yeah..... oh well, what ever you say then. ____________________
The OBOLISK is Divine.
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Starlight
Extreme Fanatic   Posts: 618 Registered: 27/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 09:59 PM |
*feels a bit of her own "angst" coming out right now*...
Okay Sticcupus....you wanna know where all those "teenage bisexuals" are
ten years later....well let's see...this would be a little more than ten
years at this point....but I can speak personally for one of them. I
"knew" I was bisexual back from when I was about 8 or 9 or 10 and enjoyed
"experimenting" with the girls as much as with the boys...show and tell all
that crap...only we played "female prison guard and the naughty female
inmate" (a fond memory)....in high school me and my particular group of
friends had no trouble dancing female to female or female to male...and
some were bisexual males and some were completely gay or lesbian and some
(most) were completely heterosexual....
So where is one bisexual ten plus years after high school....right
here....married to a man...because I married my soul mate....who could have
been male or female...it so happened he is a heterosexual male...such as
things work out....but he knows I like to look at pretty women...in "that"
way...*soft smile*
When I made the comment about nature taking care of itself...I didn't mean
only in the way of overpopulation...but the part about there being an
increase in homosexuals when there is an overpopulation...........the first
time I was told that theory....it was by a 40 year old openly lesbian woman
who was a manager at the place I worked back in the early
nineties........just for the record and nothing more.
Okay...well there's my slight little delving into angst. ____________________
"When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've never
tried before." ~Mae West
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Closetgothbabe
Member Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 10:04 PM |
| I dont know why but this just pisses me off.......someone new comes and
then someone here gets a fucking attitude with them and chases them off.
Man this makes me mad on so many different levels. Altariel please dont go
away from this community I promis we arent all assholes here and you can
say anything you want, you said nothing wrong. I liked what you said and
you was being nice unlike alot of people.....hmmmmph! ____________________
Guns are good, Guns are great...Kill the people that you hate!
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Sticupus
Fanatic Posts: 254 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 10:05 PM |
| uh huh. ____________________
The OBOLISK is Divine.
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Closetgothbabe
Member Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 10:16 PM |
| OHHHHHH I so wanna smack you right now. ____________________
Guns are good, Guns are great...Kill the people that you hate!
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Closetgothbabe
Member Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/3/2003 at 10:44 PM |
| Stic you know I like you......I talk to you alot but damn you are just
being down right mean tonite. It wont hurt you to just admit you are wrong
and maybe apologize. The thing is you just keep doing it and expecting
people to keep forgiving you. One day people are gonna stop forgiving you
and then where would all this anger get you?? It will get you a lose of
some good people that actually cared about how you feel. I dont know maybe
I am wrong but its how I feel. ____________________
Guns are good, Guns are great...Kill the people that you hate!
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 10/3/2003 at 02:11 PM |
You know, you can be gay...and thats cool...but if you are a bitch, that
isn't cool...and Stic, I think I stand justifyed in saying...you are being
a gay bitch.
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In the valley of the Goats, the Goat Fucker is King
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AltarielOfTheUnderworld
Occasional Poster   Posts: 22 Registered: 2/2/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 02:08 PM |
Hoho (yes, I know I sound like SantaClaus)
Well, Sticupus, you've just proven my growing suspicion: Most gay people
are like the ones that desperately claim to be real goths, or whatever;
they all think they are the only ones. I am sorry if you are insulted by
the fact that I'm young and aware of my sexuality, and in one way, I can
understand you for being so judgemental. You have spent a lot of time
thinking about this matter, about your own sexuality, and that I as a
"teenage bisexual"came along, self-confident, was probably confusing and
rather annoying to you. That's fine, I'm used to it. Your kind is the type
of person I have learnt to avoid in dicussions. I'd rather make
conversation with a fourteen year old highschoolgirl than with a
self-centered baby like Sticupus. Some people never grow up.
Before you mention it: Yes, I know I sound like a "know it all", but bare
over with me. I'm just a fucking kid, right?
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AltarielOfTheUnderworld
Occasional Poster Posts: 22 Registered: 2/2/2003 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 02:17 PM |
By the way: to those of you who supported me here, thanks, but I do not
really need an apologize. I am not the insulted one here..
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Closetgothbabe
Member Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 02:31 PM |
Oh and if you wanna change your face on the side box....just go to your
profile then go to avatars and you can look at them and pick you a new one
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Guns are good, Guns are great...Kill the people that you hate!
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Sticupus
Fanatic Posts: 254 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 03:29 PM |
| I still don't believe in teenage bisexuality. PC or not, i can give a fuck. ____________________
The OBOLISK is Divine.
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Merry_Widow
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 04:33 PM |
| Who said anything abour PC? It's hypocritical. ____________________
Okay, dazzle me.
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic  Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 04:35 PM |
You know, Sticupus, just because you're going through a case of the tweeks,
doesn't make it an excuse to be rude whenever you want.
What if I said I didn't believe in teenage homosexuality? How would you
feel? Maybe that's how you would have made Altariel feel, if he/she didn't
have such a solid sense of self-worth as they seem to have.
Actually, I think that the teen years tend to be a time of exploration.
People often change radically from their teen personas in later years. But
this does not mean that a trait explored in the teen years will not stick.
Time will tell, with homosexuality, or bisexuality, whether this is a
permanent discovery, or merely a temporary part of development.
If you want us to remain sympathetic to your difficult situation, Stic, you
should at least show some hint of at least TRYING to get through your tweek
without taking it out on everyone else.
____________________
"You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism"
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Sticupus
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 04:53 PM |
Agreed Schizo. Exactly my point, in my opinion bisexuality is a little more
than beer and touching. In fact I think it takes a very sensitive and
intelligent, well rounded person (with experience, over time) to be a true
bisexual. Senseless fucking of both sexes makes you an animal, not a
bisexual. I am tired of 13- 15 year old little girls claiming bisexuality.
50% of boys have a sexual experience at some time or another with other
boys. Does that make them bisexual? No, it makes them average. Having the
capacity to deal with, understand, love. have sex with, and tolerate both
sexes interchangeably takes a strong, intelligent person. I
can't/won't/shouldn't do it, hence why I don't. I think it's just a new
trend, and it probably won't die off, so I will just state my opinion and
let things work themselves out. Taste and thought is all I ask for. And the
reason why I don’t personally believe in teenage bisexuality is because all
teenagers are so under developed in emotion, personality, social
interaction abilities, sexuality and their personal identity that I do not
think it is quite possible for them to truly exist as one. Just like all
fetuses are “female” before hormonal interaction, I think all teenagers are
“bisexual” before hormonal and social interaction. A true bisexual is a
beautiful thing, but in my opinion quite rare especially at a young age.
I do not need sympathy, I need places to vent. ____________________
The OBOLISK is Divine.
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Monolycus
Fanatic  Posts: 580 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 06:16 PM |
I've been biting my tongue... but, until a few very short months ago when
you decided that you were entirely gay, you claimed that you were a
bisexual. A few short months ago and into the present you were and are a
teenager. Now you've decided that it is uncool (or in your words
"average") to call yourself bisexual and you denigrate other people who do
call themselves that... because, as you keep reminding everyone, you are
more special than anyone else.
If someone brings up gothitude, you pounce on them and tell them how they
should worship you because you passed the goth test. If someone mentions
how hot someone is, you assert to anyone who will listen how pretty you
are. Finally, if someone has any kind of problem, you can trump them
because you, after all, are gay.
Maybe I'm running the risk of being a heretic, but I'm not under the
impression that you are all that damned special after all. I don't think
that it makes you special to be gay; I think it is particularly ugly to go
on how about how pretty you are; and I think that the lion's share of your
self-described teenaged angst is entirely self-induced. I've seen you
scratch at other people's eyes (including mine when I didn't call you a
genius) and then go storming off in a big, melodramatic pout so that you
can feel sorry for yourself.
You're right, you don't need sympathy... you have more than enough
self-pity to keep you going for years. What you need, in my humble
opinion, is to get over yourself.
~M.
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Sticupus
Fanatic Posts: 254 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 06:48 PM |
| But I'm God. ____________________
The OBOLISK is Divine.
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Closetgothbabe
Member Posts: 189 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 06:49 PM |
| DAMN!! Did I tell you Mono how much I love you lately?????? hehe ____________________
Guns are good, Guns are great...Kill the people that you hate!
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Starlight
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 618 Registered: 27/9/2002 Status: Offline
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posted on 11/3/2003 at 07:08 PM |
Well said Mono.
God?...I heard God was dead though. ____________________
"When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've
never
tried before." ~Mae West
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