jadedraven
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posted on 10/3/2002 at 05:11 PM |
ok, so tell me, no bluffing or boasting, do you get laid whenever you want
it? If you don´t, have you ever thought of cheating (if you are in a
relationship) to fix that problem? <BR> <BR>I´ll go
first, since I am a very sexual person(hey, I AM a Scorp) I like it a lot,
so I have to be with a guy who feels the same (like that is sooo hard to
find...) if I am in a relationship with that person. and yes, there is a
chance I might cheat if I wasn´t getting my fair share, but that problem
has never come up, but I would probably bring it up with my signifigant
other first. ____________________ this is your world in which we grow and we will grow to hate you |
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MorteAscendo
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posted on 27/7/2002 at 05:05 AM |
You hit that one on the bud Necro...more then you know. ____________________ "Roses are Red, Violets are Blue. I'm a schizophrenic, and so am I". |
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necromancer
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posted on 9/5/2002 at 11:01 PM |
Be careful. Love will ALWAYS find a way to fuck you in the end.
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Des
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posted on 9/5/2002 at 08:36 AM |
yes change is good...being one of the only constants in the
universe...(hmm, do we mention that the prominent form is entropy??) but in
any case, goodyes. and write. write it all. keep ´now´ on paper; record
beauty and pleasantries. i send you well-wishes..... ____________________ 'i am a little world made cunningly of elements and an angelike spirit, but
black sin hath betrayed to endless night my worlds both parts, and oh, both
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 9/5/2002 at 06:46 AM |
Thanks Des...ooh, man...this stuff is awesome. I´m probably gonna´ write
out a fuller story on it...fuck yeah! Everything just changed for me. And
hey...change is good yah?
:D :D :D :D :D :D ____________________ In the valley of the Goats, the Goat Fucker is King |
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Comedian
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posted on 7/5/2002 at 07:16 PM |
Virgin! Get your red hot virgin right here! :lol: ____________________ Make way for the bad guy! |
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Des
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posted on 7/5/2002 at 09:42 AM |
to begin with...hooray dolorosa for the falling in love bit. meaningful
exchnge is always good.
though i don´t imagnine love for me will be the fantastic, explosive,
consumption that we seem to be fantasizing
about. i imagine it will be a quiet, precise, and slightly tragic affair.
hopeless romantic that i am, there will be one
great love, and it will teach me all current unknowns of the greatest
tranquil beauty, and the most elegant and seizing pain.
its miraculous that any two people connect at all. people and their complex
octagons of existing. interesting people-relation
= double-octagonship. but then where do we continue living? in what
terrain? its amazing what passes for real.
the way things work is that, eventually, something catches. ____________________ 'i am a little world made cunningly of elements and an angelike spirit,
but
black sin hath betrayed to endless night my worlds both parts, and oh,
both
parts must die...' |
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 1/5/2002 at 05:16 AM |
>whew< Thanks Callei...at least I know it won´t be boring. Unless by
some slim cosmic misfortune our blosseming relationship is the catalyst
upon which the stars and fates crash into eachother like so many european
cars going down the audobon at a hundred and eight miles an hour BLAM!!
Then again, that would be kind of neat...>sigh< now all I can do is
sit here and look all lost and dreamy eyed. Yay!! :roll: ____________________ In the valley of the Goats, the Goat Fucker is King |
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pAris
Member Posts: 115 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 1/5/2002 at 04:34 AM |
Well, most people - even if they cannot admit it - have double standards.
They want to have fun and do whatever, but cannot seem to handle their
partner having fun without them. I know people who get pissed if their
partner gets jealous of them, but get jealous themselves very easily.
We´re human. I sometimes am that way, as is my grrl - neither of us mean
to be, but it´s hard not to ever be jealous of another´s situation. What
seems to help us is talking about it instead of letting those negative
emotions fester and turn into shmeng. ____________________
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Anonymous
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posted on 30/4/2002 at 08:19 PM |
Alright, I have a question. What if the girl wants an open relationship,
(i.e. mineself) and the guy is against it for a reason he won´t tell? I
think I´d enjoy it and it seems to make more sense most of the time than
monogamous relationships... but even though when he lived in another state
he was fine with orgies and whatnot, he´s not alright with me even being
friendly with guys.. ____________________
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callei
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 759 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 30/4/2002 at 01:53 PM |
Aries & Gemini
A promise of great excitement and entertainment! Both signs are endowed
with good cheer and optimism, which makes them perfect pals. Life together
is like an ongoing party, highlighted by flashes of imagination and
friendship with others. Gemini easily adapts to the demanding Aries
character, while Aries finds his or her partner to be an inexhaustible
source of fresh air. The couple lives for the moment, with scarcely a care
for tomorrow, but this continual improvisation is not the stuff of which
lasting ties are made. Stay tuned for more adventures...
(from Yahoo.com) ____________________ Real goths wear silver and crosses to keep the werewolves and vampires
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Dolorosa
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 856 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 30/4/2002 at 12:56 PM |
Oh shit oh shit oh shit...I just fell in love...fuck, everything just went
out the window. God dammit, we have yet to bang eachother till our ears
bleed...but hell. Anyone know anything about the compatabilities of an
Aries and a really cute Gemini? :eek: ____________________ In the valley of the Goats, the Goat Fucker is King |
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Des
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posted on 19/4/2002 at 10:42 AM |
ooooo yay bettie - she brought up a good point. and i must say that i have
seen many an ´arrangement´ sour on the involved parties (as i have had my
own rather messy arrangements). and so i seek openness sans signularly
detrimental clauses. i think the ideal for me has become a relationship
without title. the labels only serve to complicate things; to burden with
external/societal expectation. but is not the goal to find a person who
will be with you always out of want, and not out of duty or need?
´cheating´ requires rules. rules create obligation. i no longer have the
stomach for such drama-laden invitations for disaster.
sex. i love sex. but sex, at its base, has nothing to do with
relationships or emotional investement. and while this is fact, i do find
myself slipping into the want for a higher sexual connection. i am a
hopeless romantic of a girl, so while i have never experienced this
first-hand, i believe it exists. obviously, i dream to find such a thing,
but until i do, i refuse to muttle things up by allowing two drastically
different drives to cross over. i do not personally have much desire to
fuck anyone else while in a relationship, open or not. *sigh* i suppose i
am the wrong person to be posting about this, as my lines are a bit blurry.
the long and short of it : hooray for arrangements as long as all parties
are on the same page. monogamy is not a natural physical state for most
animals, but well-ingrained in human social-mores and therefore cannot be
entirely discounted. there is no widely applicable rule for relationships
and sex; each relationship requires its own consideration/deliberation.
lastly, EVERYONE should be entitled to a great deal of good sex. i am
convinced it should be an inalienable human right. *grin* ____________________ 'i am a little world made cunningly of elements and an angelike spirit,
but
black sin hath betrayed to endless night my worlds both parts, and oh,
both
parts must die...' |
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Schizo
Extreme Fanatic Posts: 897 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 19/4/2002 at 06:08 AM |
I just thought of a definite argument against girls being monogamous, based
on a real-life situation. (The older sister of the psycho-slut.)
If you have many sexual partners and get pregnant, you can pick which guy
seems most likely to be able to pick up the tab financially, and is dumb
enough to go along with it without insisting on a paternity test!
True story! Really! Of course, this is also the girl who smokes a pack a
day and drinks whenever she wants and does multiple drugs (and cries if her
sister has drugs and doesn´t share). So maybe it isn´t so smart an idea
after all... ____________________ "You can tell by the scars on my arms and the cracks in my hips and the
dents in my car and the blisters on my lips that I'm not the carefullest of
girls." - Dresden Dolls, "Girl Anachronism" |
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jadedraven
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posted on 11/4/2002 at 11:02 AM |
I can see the benefits of monogamy, but I can also see the benefits of
having a more open relationship, I think that we as a culture believe that
we HAVE to have a monogamous relationship or it is not right, or sinfull or
whatever you want to call it. I would just like to keep my mind open to
all possibilies. I have always thought of just settling down with one
person, because growing up, that is what you are taught (at least I was)
But I can´t believe that EVERYONE on teh planet is happy being that way,
just like EVERYONE can´t be happy in one religion, and so on. ____________________ this is your world in which we grow and we will grow to hate you |
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bettie_x
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posted on 11/4/2002 at 10:01 AM |
Speaking of "arrangements" all the ppl I´ve known that have had open
relationships have been for the benefit of the guy. The women in those
relationships have all had esteem issues, fear being alone, or many
failed/abusive boyfriends. I´m not saying that´s true in all cases, just
what I´ve noticed. If having several sexual partners makes you happy then
great, super, you go boy/girl. Me on the other hand would never consider
looking elsewhere. Bettie (laurie) had freinds in highschool that had
arrangements which for them meant the guy could screw around while the girl
was at home taking care of the kid. Doesn´t seem fair to me. Plus it opened
the door for him to prey on all her friends. So, my thoughts on the all
thing is a quote for George Michael "Sex is best when it´s one on one" Oh
gawd now I´ll have that song stuck in my head. <BR>Pick one
person, love one person, and be good to each other. <BR> <BR>~Michael ____________________ Trapped in time. Surrounded by evil. Low on gas. |
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Xaoswolf
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posted on 9/4/2002 at 01:01 PM |
I believe in what ever happens, well it happens, if I meet a cute girl, and
we hit it off, then get it off, well, all the better. However, if I meet a
girl, and things get serious, well, I pretty much go monogomous. The only
real problems in my love life would be that every insane girl in the
tri-state area wants me, which wouldn´t be so bad, if they weren´t insane.
And I´m not talking about borderline sanity problems, I´m talking like
first date talking about our wedding then calling at 2:30 in the morning
when I have to get up the next day for work crazy, then threatening suicide
to keep from me from breaking up with them, then calling the next day,
thinking I was joking when I was breaking up with them, then calling the
next week asking if I want to go back out... ____________________ Sometimes I dream about dinosaurs shopping for cargo shorts at the Gap.
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asja
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posted on 9/4/2002 at 02:17 AM |
ok i´m a leetle confused...scorpio´s are monogomus?( i can´t spell) I´m an
Aquarius, that probably explains the confusion. But yeah on this monogamy
thing, its cool if you can handle being smothered, and i love being
smothered. But i can understand where you are coming from with the father
daughter thing. Some guys are simply a little to enthusiastic. But you´re a
babe - I mean its only natural they want to keep you all to themselves!!
<IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_razz.gif"> <BR>So although
me and my boyfriend are doing this whole mngmy thing he doesn´t mind if i
kiss girls .. i don´t know why tho...maybe he doesn´t feel threatened or
see it as a sex thing which he might if i kissed another guy. But, yeah we
were tlaking about it today, and i have to say there´s no other guys out
there i want to be with but girls..hmmm you never know <IMG
SRC="images/smilies/icon_smile.gif"> ____________________
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jadedraven
Member Posts: 114 Registered: 31/12/1969 Status: Offline
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posted on 8/4/2002 at 08:01 AM |
The scorps will rule the world!!! <BR>mwa ha ha ha ____________________ this is your world in which we grow and we will grow to hate you |
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Shade
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posted on 8/4/2002 at 07:25 AM |
hehe, we´re out to get you! ____________________ It is only through the lack of sex that humanity derives the need for an
all encompassing blind love. And in that moment of extreme horniness with
no relief in sight, in that moment can be found the birth of religion.
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