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Author: Subject: more sex stuff

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  posted on 10/3/2002 at 05:11 PM
ok, so tell me, no bluffing or boasting, do you get laid whenever you want it? If you donīt, have you ever thought of cheating (if you are in a relationship) to fix that problem?
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<BR>Iīll go first, since I am a very sexual person(hey, I AM a Scorp) I like it a lot, so I have to be with a guy who feels the same (like that is sooo hard to find...) if I am in a relationship with that person. and yes, there is a chance I might cheat if I wasnīt getting my fair share, but that problem has never come up, but I would probably bring it up with my signifigant other first.

 

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  posted on 10/3/2002 at 05:17 PM
cheating is sex with another person when you are in a commited relationship and not telling your partner - and thatīs a no no. if you want sex elsewhere, best to get an OK from the sig. other.
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<BR>if you cant find someone to give you enough - well then find someone who isnīt hung up on monogamy.
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<BR>and yes, i get enough <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_wink.gif">

 

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  posted on 10/3/2002 at 07:42 PM
I get enough, am very satisfied... and yet, I like to cuddle my friends... I donīt see it as cheating, neither does Rogue... he cuddles his friends too... whatever makes the other happy is our basic rule for a happy relationship... when I was in other relationships, where we hadnīt talked this out, I was very monogamous, wouldnīt cheat for any reason...

 

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  posted on 11/3/2002 at 01:05 PM
Yeah, my grrl and I do not cheat. Thatīs not to say weīve never slept w/ anyone else, but itīs ALWAYS in the open and with approval and w/ some pre-discussed ground rules. It sounds like a bit of a pin in the ass, bt in the long run saves a lot of headache.
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<BR>Do I get enough? HA! I could probably have sex 4 times a day and not get enough, so I do not expect anyone to have to satisfy me completely. We do have wonderful sex, and encourage looking, cuddling, and some playing (as long as things are kept respectful).
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<BR>Am I happy in my relationship? Of course. Communication and fun and sex and beauty cannot be beat and we both try to not get unappreciative of each other.

 

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  posted on 11/3/2002 at 05:54 PM
I havenīt been died sex before if thatīs what you mean. My and my former g/f are treating each other like g/f and b/f but we donīt go out(In other words, if we did go out, we wouldnīt treat each other any differently). We do this because we donīt want to have sex with just one person. Weīre only 17! we shouldnīt be with just one girl just yet. Anyway, weīre together for the sex and the extremely close relationship and weīre allowed to have sex with other peeps as well just for sex, thatīs it. I donīt remember ever being denied but there were a few times where I was drugged up and lost some memory of things here and there.

 

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  posted on 11/3/2002 at 06:28 PM
I * could* if I wanted to I suppose. As it is.. I do pretty good. Iīve got a great husband whom I love a lot.. and a.. well..lover/second/ FWB that I love as well. I donīt get to see him nearly as much as I would like tho. I donīt have to cheat. Iīm allowed to see others.

 

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  posted on 11/3/2002 at 08:33 PM
Funny how weīre told that the only thing thatīs supposed to work and make us happy and satisfied is total monogamy, but the people I know who are the happiest and most satisfied all have "Arrangements"

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 08:52 AM
Youīre so right, Devin. It still (as stated in your commandments/suggestions area) has to rely on respect for yourself and for your partner(s).
<BR>I hate when people sleep around just to create drama or to make someone else feel crappy. And in our little cult, we always give each other the power of veto (although we also leave open the ability to try to talk the other into it).
<BR>I also go out of my way to make sure my partner has no reason to feel jealous or to not trust me. And my partner does the same for me (although being human, sometimes we do get jealous a little, then we talk about it. Then we have sex and laugh about it).

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 10:59 AM
I donīt NEARLY get as much as any of you. hehehe. I guess itīs part of being goth in South Africa. Trust me. Yall have it good. Iīm kindof an outcast because we really donīt have much here. I sent my pic through for all yall to see. Just waiting feedback from Devin (or whomever gets those submissions) . Itīs raining here. Modem is gonna die. Will check in later guys and gurls.
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<BR>CIAO

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 03:49 PM
There are two things that keep me from having a relationship with more than one person. First off, the guys I tend to fall in love with are not up for that sort of thing, and I am not likely to find any who are in this area, and second, I would probably get possesive, i like to be the center of attention

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 09:44 PM
Iīm afraid Iīm a hardened monogamist, but Iīm perfectly all right with anyone designing their relationship however they want. Although I must agree with those that say it MUST be in the open and agreed on by everyone involved. Having fun is one thing, but risking someone elseīs trust and happiness is quite something else.
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<BR>As for me, I donīt think itīs as much virtue as laziness behind my monogamy. The relationship I got myself into was way too confusing, and now that Iīm pregnant with his baby, Iīm not going to be able to get completely out of it. Adding someone else, although I donīt feel it would be wrong in any way at all, just seems like adding to the complication. And this is just MOVING ON to another relationship, not just the question of doing one or two guys in a given time period.
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<BR>And having to share my boyfriend against my will for so long kind of left me with a sour taste in my mouth for sharing of any kind.
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<BR>But all of you in creative relationships - go for it, if itīs really your thing! I love hearing about it, even if I may never do it!
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<BR>But I must admit - my sex life sucks! <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_razz.gif"> Oh well, being pregnant kind of drains the sex drive out, anyway... <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_frown.gif">

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 09:53 PM
Paris.. your arrangement sounds kinda like ours.. If the hubby dosnīt like one of my "prospects" (not that there are a ton.. but, you know) he can say no. To which I reply with "but.. well.. heīs really nice.. and etc.etc." lol. But it all comes down to respect.

 

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  posted on 12/3/2002 at 10:10 PM
I have always kept extremely open relationships with my signifigant others. Go out, and do whom we wish to do...as long as we come back to eachother. With my enlistment into the military, that kind of dissolved...basically, the way it is with me now, and with a lot of military types...screw when you can, to hell with the consequences, and if you can do it again...do it again. We donīt have time for commitment, or cheating for that matter.
<BR> It sucks in a way...but at the same time, it cuts a lot of trouble and thinkering.
<BR> If I could find THE one though...as much of a free-spirit that I am, if theyīre uncomfortable with multiple partners...I wouldnīt have a problem giving that up. Weird huh?

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 09:43 AM
Not so weird. I am a hopeless romantic and can be selfish, and my love is all I really want and could be happy with just her the rest of my life. But I like her to be happy and free, and she feels the same way about me. We do not play that often, but we both figure itīs better to be in the open than in the dark. Well, sometimes, itīs fun to be in the dark in the open, but you know what I mean.
<BR>Plus, if there is anything more beautiful than the naked body of the one you love, itīs 2 (or more) naked bodies.....

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 02:42 PM
i really dislike it when people say that "do you get any whenever you want". It sounds as if your partner is just an object. <br>
<BR>On another note, me an my HS friend make out at the lockers after lunch in front of everyone and Itīs a great thrill to see the other inexperience people see us <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif"> . If thatīs not being open, I donīt know what is. Is that what your talking about being open? If itīs not, then well I do talk openly with my partner if thatīs what everyone means by "open". <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_cool.gif">

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 03:18 PM
No.. "open" means being in a committed relationship where both people are allowed to see/date/sleep with/flirt with etc. other people.

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 05:51 PM
oh well I do that already with my freethinking girl <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif"> .

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 07:19 PM

<BR>Oh well, the shy guy gets none... (meaning me) But I suppose Iīd be open to multiple partners, if sheīs there... you know, a party... <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_wink.gif"> Iīm kinda possessive...
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<BR>But my īMedia and the Messageī class (very catholic-values-weighted) has been discussing this very topic these past few days, most of us in class trying to argue against our teacher, who says that sex, outside of marriage, and without the possibility of conception is wrong. One of the large reasons why I donīt like the Catholic Church...

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 11:38 PM
I think my biggest beef with any reliogion saying sex before or outside of the marital union is wrong is bacause they generally respond to "why?ī questions with "because God said so" I never took that from my parents, Iīm not about to take it from some hoity toity figmant of the local clergyīs imagination. (no offense)

 

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  posted on 13/3/2002 at 11:41 PM
I remember making out in HS...and how much fun it was, then I joined the Navy and went to see Bangkok...
<BR> two words...Live Cobra.
<BR> HS Makeouts suddenly seemed tamer than a nunīs fart. <IMG SRC="images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif">

 

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