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| Articles: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again |
Posted by
Schizo on Tuesday, January 21, 2003 - 04:03 AM PST
What do you do when someone threatens to let the air out of your tires if you don't do what she says, but you can't report her to the police because you can't prove she said it, and they're all her friends anyway?
That's what the psycho-slut did to us Friday. She wanted us to take my boyfriend's daughter overnight. She said she'd drop her off at 5 on Saturday. My boyfriend told her that we couldn't take her, and that we wouldn't even be home at 5. We had a lot of shopping to get done that day, and practically no food in the house. The psycho said if we weren't there she'd let the air out of our tires. (I know, you're thinking, "how could she let the air out of the tires if you weren't there." But my boyfriend's truck would be there, and she also knows where we go grocery shopping, so if she wanted she could go there.)
We would love to take his daughter overnight, but we only have one bedroom, so his daughter would have to sleep on the living room couch, and my boyfriend's on a second shift schedule. Which means, once the kids go to bed, the only place he could hang out without waking them up would be the bathroom! Of course, he could go to bed then, too, but that would be like a first shifter going to bed at 4 or 5!
Well, we called her bluff. She didn't do anything. Probably her boyfriend wouldn't let her. But of course she had to come over and bitch. She gave her daughter a long speech to make her daddy feel guilty (which lost its punch when the little girl turned around and asked her mommy what she was supposed to say next!) Then she threatened to take my boyfriend to court. Then she went through an elaborate dodging-the-issue game, by changing the subject everytime my boyfriend tried to argue with her. Everytime he was about to pin her down, she would say "no I'm not!" and immediately accuse him of something that had nothing to do with visitation, but do it in a way that almost made you think it was connected. She finally left.
I'm so sick of her! But she's right - the cops are on her side. What can I do?
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by Squire-of-Gothos (Brian0049@hotmail.com)
on Jan 21, 2003 - 04:09 AM
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I"ve had similar situations. Some punk kid decided I hated girlfriend, and threatened to kill me in my front lawn. I took little of it, until the next morning my car's rear window was shattered and the tire was slashed. The police could do nothing, and I was left fearing for my life and out 300 dollars in repairs.
Baseball bat to the knees, dry-wall hammer to the head, works like a charm. Or you could purosefully provoke her into doing something, and catch her in the act with a hidden video camera, the cops eat that shit up. In reality the legal sytem fails the general public 99.95% of the time, and it high time we moved to Canada.
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
on Jan 21, 2003 - 10:49 AM
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You can park away from your apartment in an obscure spot, avoid it, or well hell, call her bluff and see what happens. The worst is she lets the air out of your tires, so just get a pump, and don't let it bother you. Or she could slash your tires, which sucks BIG time (and by far both are the most JUVENILE thing in the whole fucking world). All you can do is just report every threat she makes, and every even that "happens" until eventually she's caught. Does your apartment complex have security? The one I used to live at (cobble court affectionately nicknamed "compton court") was regularly patroled by police. If you have security or regular patrols, let them know what's going on and see if they can't sort of keep an extra eyeball on your space.
Next time she shows up, for whatever reason, the minute she starts acting up tell her to leave. IMMEDIATELY. Not angrily, play it as cool as you can, tell her that when she's calm she can come back over and resume her conversation. If she refuses to leave, call the police as she's raving in the background so they can at least HEAR the dimwit.
Above play it as cool as you can handle, and do everything you can to make her feel like the fool she is. She'll either go away, or she'll be pushed SO far by your lack of response that she'll do something that will get her caught, and then problem solved.
I agree that if you can somehow get or buy a video camera, park right by your apartment window and set it up in the window whenever you leave.
This woman is a fount of idle threats...but sometimes they actually get the cajones to follow through. You just have to catch them in their moment of stupidity/bravery.
Good luck babe. If all else fails..>VOODOO!
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by Arthegarn on Jan 21, 2003 - 01:33 PM
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Well, first of all remember the parable about the poor widow ant the wicked judge. Keep the faith in the system.
But then again you of all people know what it's keeping the faith so give it a hand. I strongly suggest you record the conversations in an audio tape. That's not hard to come by, it's not expensive and it's legal to record your own conversations in your own home. Ask her to leave as soon as she upsets you, kindly but firmly. Warn her that she is in your home and if she doesn't leave immediately you'll have her prosecuted at once. Let her boast all she wants, and don't lose your nerves. You can also call the police to inform them you have and intruder home, which is not technically a lie.
When you have three of these tapes, go find a lawyer. Your wonderful system allows for the cuota litis agreement (the 40% thing) so you don't actually need any money. Ask him to sue her form both physical, psychologycal and moral damage AND get that goddamned restraining order that you and your stability need. You have been enduring her since before you even had Riley, I really think it's been enough time.
I know you don't want to put your BF through any more than he is already going through, after all she is the mother of (two of) his kids but think about your daughter. That woman should be kept as far away from her as possible.
And... Well, you know... You could just post a picture of her and give some data... We are a lot here in Shmeng... Accidents happen...
Hold on, girl! You're doing a superb job!
Arthegarn
PS: Anyone attempting to sue or prosecute me for what I just stated should know what Animus Jocandi is
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by IamSquid (undisclosedgettheaddressfrommeepersonally)
on Jan 21, 2003 - 02:09 PM
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Wow! This person seems to be one ferocious bitch! The easiest (and certainly evilist) way to screw with her is through her daughter which she's obviously doing to yor boyfriend so give her a taste of her own medicine.
This is a difficult attack because yoo really don't want to get the little girl caught in the crossfire but there are still options.
If that's a path yor unwilling to walk, however, and yor okay with giving this asshole a taste of her own medicine, try dropping a marble into her gas tank. What happens is the vaccum created by the car running will suck the marble into the engine and the marble will clog the fuel line causing the car to stall. The genius is that when the car stalls the vacuum stop and the marble drops back down meaning the dumb bitch will get the car going another block or so before it stalls again.
Eeeeeeeeeeeevil!!!
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by Merry_Widow on Jan 21, 2003 - 03:32 PM
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Whatever you do, don't forget to lay down a good tarp and always, always, double bag the left overs. I can't stress that enough.
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by Schizo (Aranea@spidersdance.com)
on Jan 21, 2003 - 04:14 PM
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I called the town police and asked them what to do in this sort of situation. Without naming names, of course. They told me to tell her not to come to my house except to drop off or pick up the kids. They said if she showed up again, call them and they'll tell her the same thing. They said if that didn't work, and she still shows up, that she can be arrested for criminal trespass.
Then I talked to my boyfriend. It seems I've left out an important detail. The little bitch has poisoned the force's minds against him. If he so much as twitches, they'll throw his ass in jail. If I call them to my house, and my boyfriend is there, and he's had even as much as one drink, they'll probably can him right there. I'm not exaggerating. After all, they arrested him once because he was being attacked by the little slut.
Chances are, the police won't do that. But still, there's enough of a chance that it makes us both extremely nervous to even think of inviting the police into our home. I feel like I'm in fucking Nazi Germany, or Communist Russia. I swear, we've got to get out of this town! That's the only answer.
That and voodoo. I think she's pushed me far enough. Normally I hate the thought, but there's an exception to every rule.
That marble idea sounds pretty cool! Maybe I'll try that!
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by Geist (tattooedslacker@yahoo.com)
on Jan 21, 2003 - 05:16 PM
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My mother is going through a similar situation with my step-father right now although he as been quite a bit more violent. I don't know where you're from or the exact laws in your area but the first question would be how are visitations arranged between your boyfriend and his children. If is is solely on his ex-wifes good will then I would reccomend getting a lawyer and have paperwork drawn up for a set visitation schedule in conjunction with a restraining order. This will most likely mean that the children will have to be dropped of with a 3rd party by their mother and then picked up by your boyfriend. Be careful with getting set visitations though, because if something comes up and your boyfriend can't pick them up when the papers says then she will most likely throw it in his face and say he can't have them.
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Re: The Psycho-Slut Strikes Again
by Closetgothbabe on Jan 21, 2003 - 07:33 PM
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My question is how often does he keep his daughter? Just kinda curious cause I know with my ex and my two kids it gets frustrating, he doesnt pay child support and doesnt hardly ever get the kids. For her to act like that though doesnt do any good and isnt what she should do. I have just come to terms that there dad isnt ever gonna change and not much I can do about it *shrugs*. Your daughter lives there also though right?
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