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| Articles: Cam Girl does not equal Slut |
Posted by
gothvail on Wednesday, February 13, 2002 - 10:22 AM PST
I HATE HATE HATE it when people assume that, because you are an erotic model and cam girl, you are also a big slut, just waiting to have sex with any guy who can type "hey baby". Nowhere on my site does it say that I engage in sexual activity of ANY form, including cybersex, with my fans or members. I sometimes honour polite requests from members, if I am in the mood, but stuff like this will get you blasted:
"Hey baby Im lookn for a hot gothic slut! send me some pictures of yuor pretty little pussy and Ill send you pictures of me beating off to it."
I REALLY hate being called a slut because I am not, and never have been, sexually promiscuous in any way. I have had sex with exactly two people, the first of whom I dated for two years, and the second of whom I have been with for more than two years. Plus, it is just not a nice thing to call someone, especially if you want something from them.
I realise that, in my line of work I should expect a little of this, but I also feel that I am in a good position to teach some manners, and I am not afraid to do so. If you want something from someone, ask nicely--say please--and don't expect a positive reply.
This guy got a polite brush-off in reply, which was more than he deserved, but the next person who tries this will feel my wrath!
OK...rant over...calm now.
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by Comedian (comedian@callatg.com)
on Feb 13, 2002 - 11:09 AM
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She DOES rant!
I mean, you've only been with Shmeng for like, a day? Did somebody on this site message you that? Is this rant inspired by one of our greedy, underage frothing poets?
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by Devin (devin-at-vibechild-dot-com)
on Feb 13, 2002 - 11:49 AM
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If you don't know who Carol Queen is, you need to. If you ever get a chance to see one of her talks, you should (I say see instead of hear because not many lecturers will show you their nipples to make sure you're paying attention). She has a book out too called Real Live Nude Girl which you might want to check out. She's Brilliant.
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by Phalkon13 (phalkon13@godisdead.com)
on Feb 13, 2002 - 11:52 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so rude, and stereotype someone just because of something they do. A friend of mine is an erotic dancer at a strip club nearby. As she is in collage, she is really hurting for money, and since she is good looking, she figured that it would be a good way to make some good money for now. It always pisses me off when someone finds out where she works, and automatically stereotypes her as "easy". She is one of the sweetest girls I know, and has a boyfriend. Yet still, people assume that for a price she'll do anything they want. I mean, come on!!! I for one try as much as possible to see people for who they are, even though some of the time I never see someone in a bad way until it's pointed out to me, and I hate that, but I'm gullible. ;) Oh well, I've said my piece. Blessed be.... ;)
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by gothvail (vail@gothicamateur.com)
on Feb 13, 2002 - 01:17 PM
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OK, this guy apparently saw me ranting about him in my livejournal, and was good enough to apologise lots instead of just never writing to me again and pretending it didn't happen. I appreciate that. It takes a lot of courage someone to stand up and say "I fucked up. Sorry."
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by nocta on Feb 14, 2002 - 04:48 AM
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From looking at a few of your pictures, I noticed that I look like you. I'm not a camgirl or a model, but there are still guys who objectify me and try to hit on me as a slut or an object. You probably get a lot more raunchy guys hitting on you than I do, but I just wanted to point out that even if you weren't a camgirl or model, you'd still get at least some of that negative attention from males. I say, don't hold back your wrath. Let them have it! Maybe next time they'll think a little bit before they hit on a girl in such a degrading manner.
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Sigh...
by Dolorosa on Feb 15, 2002 - 08:39 AM
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I wish girls would objectify me...life would be a hoot. Although I can understand what a pain in the ass it must be. Oh well...life sucks, thats why wer are what we are...whatever the fuck we are...right?...actually...I just managed to confused the batshit out of myself...hold up...
Yeah...
Don't let it get you too far down Vail, a lot of people confuse beauty and eroticisim with rampant monkey-carnality...Chimera has three heads, the noble Lion (marriage I think) The Dragon (Untouchable beauty) and the Goat (Mad gross can-eating horniness...wheee) naturally people fuck that up. Life's hard when your cute...lifes hard when your ugly too...but whats worse, is when your in-between. Thank your demented maker for making yo worthwhile of these types of problems, worse could happen.
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Re: Cam Girl does not equal Slut
by ravinsaend (-)
on Feb 18, 2002 - 10:38 PM
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don't hold back your wrath..
people will never learn if they're not shown the errors of their ways.
and we of the male persuasion(some of us, anyway) have to deal with that crap from women sometimes..although I tend to see alot of it for some reason..for all I try to avoid poeple period..
just don't let it bother you, show your wrath when it does, and enjoy who you are.
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