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| Drama: Cat Piss Stinks. |
Posted by
bettie_x on Sunday, November 25, 2001 - 12:55 AM PST
This may put some panties in a wad, so you may want to remove them before reading...From things I've seen here and on several other messageboards, it seems that cattiness is on the rise. And frankly, cat piss stinks.
(note: this is something that's been building up over a long long time, I realize I'm probably overblowing it, but I see it at work, on television, in conversations I hear, on messageboards and such. I AM NOT ATTACKING ANYONE FOR ANY COMMENTS MADE, THEY ARE YOURS AND YOURS ALONE AND I FEEL YOU ARE ENTITLED TO THEM IN EVERY RESPECT, THIS IS A SORT OF RUM AND COKE WITH EXTRA CHERRIES EDITORIAL ON SOMETHING THAT'S BEEN BUGGING ME NON STOP FOR *YEARS* [especially triggered by the "this insults women" sticker put on my car over my bettie page air freshener on the windshield] ...the hatred of anything sexual and "womanly" begun by 1960's bra burning femi-nazis that make it a crime to proverbial "shake your moneymakers"...If you're mad at me after this, it's okay, just send me a message and I'll play nice and explain myself a little clearer when I'm nice and sober)*ahem*What's up with everyone being so mean to the new girl?I've seen good and plenty pictures that have big boobs into the camera. A LOT. Nobody seems to have a problem with them.So what's with the hostilities? I'm sure some of us thought we were being harmlessly funny, but some of us were down right MEAN.I mean jeezus christ, ARE THEY REAL?! Does you collar POP them when you lie down?!or my favorite.....um, yeah...C'mon you guys, for a 'persecuted subculture' that is so into frowing upon superficiality and how ignorant 'those people' are for making fun of or judging us on our appearance, we sure like to dish out what we hate the most.For such intellectual people, we're really good at making people who popped up to say "hi" feel like big breasted shit.What a welcome mat to such an open minded clique....forgot about that big trap door underneath it.Hell, I like pictures that are accidentally situationally funny....jeezus I put up a picture that looked like a goddamned PLUG was coming out of my head and into the wall!*I* laughed over that when I saw it.And I know I'm not known for being the nicest person in the world, but when I feel my humor is unwelcomed nor reciprocated, I STOP. I won't be a hypocrite, I will own up to it if anyone cares to put up how I hurt their feelings or whatnot.But to make fun of someone because of their physiology? Man....I mean, it's your perogative to speak your mind as you wish and how you wish (as the reason I'm here! Praise our constitution!), just as it is her perogative to put up a picture that has her boobs in it. But the question I pose is, who asked?I've seen a lot of classy photos of beautiful women that get catty comments, like someone popping up and saying out of the blue "I don't find her attractive at all". That's nice, but who asked you? Granted, if they had put up a caption that read "look at my beautiful '___' or 'aren't I attractive" then it would be warranted, but (here comes the mean side) if everyone would put up what they really think (or what I really think) of some of the pictures up there, it would take the wind right out of your sails and attitudes. You wouldn't like it at all. It would hurt your feelings, like hers were.Man, for my part I would LOVE to have half of that...just to be over an A-cup...but after a few of the things said, I think I'm glad I'm not.But I'm sure someone special gets to appreciate them a lot more that some of us did. I'm just glad that my fiance likes "fun sized" boobies or I might have some competition :)C'mon, I know I've made someone mad. Go ahead, I'm a big girl, I can take it.But I agree with Devin...Catty comments suck.
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by VampCourt (Morbidchic@hotmail.com)
on Nov 25, 2001 - 02:32 AM
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Um, Yeah.
That was my only responce to that picture. what the hell else am i sposed to say? The whole focal point of the picture is her breasts. How am i being catty? If i wanted to be catty.. believe me. I would be. *I* posted a cleavage picture a long while back and why? Because i thought it was funny.
A girl shouldnt be reconized for how large her funbags are or how good she can suck a cock. I am sure the new girl is friendly. or has a great personality.
but when she posts a picture with cleavage to her chin.. how am i to react?
As to the other comments. i dont know the feeling that was backing them. but mine was certainly not to be pertained as catty. Thankyou very much. :)
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Re: Cat Piss Stinks.
by Silvernyte (silvernyte@hotmail.com)
on Nov 25, 2001 - 08:48 AM
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When looking at a pic of someone isn't it a good idea to try and look at the whole pic, not just what her boob size is. It's like looking at a pic of a guy and trying to check out how big the bulge in his pants is. Try looking at the face first then check out the rest of it.
I'm with bettie, I got pretty ticked looking at the comments made. Making someone feel a least partially welcome and not feeling like they are going to be ranked on for just putting a pic up. Come on! Constructive criticism is not that bad of a thing either. They'll find out soon enough that we all have a bit of an attitude (if they haven't already from looking around), let alone the honesty they are going to get in this site. Don't get me wrong, this is one of the better sites that I frequent. The honesty is a nice change from the games played on other sites. Would it hurt any of us to at least try and make the new person feel a little welcome before you start in on them.
I don't have a pic up because I don't have one I like, let alone what everyone else is going to say. That part I really don't care about, I have to be pleased with it first before I put it up.
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Man, I shouldn't have gone home for Thanksgivin'...
by Comedian (comedian@callatg.com)
on Nov 25, 2001 - 04:41 PM
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Damn. Missed sparks flying and flames everywhere and whatnot.
But, when you look at a picture, you only see a temporal moment out of someone's life. A single second. 60 seconds in a minute, 60 minutes in an hour, 24 hours in a day... To base judgements of people based on a single picture that depicts only a fraction of a person's activity seems rather... quick?
To draw this back to humor, stileproject once posted a link to "the world's sexiest woman." It was four pages of a girl gradually stripping, and the last picture of her had her with her pants down. She was a hermaphrodite. For viewing any of the other pictures anybody could think that she was a woman.
I sent the link to a buddy who sent it to a friend who in a chat six months later said one of his buddies puked when they got to the last picture.
Le sigh. Don't judge life on a single second, instead, judge it on words and meaning and dialogue and videos and a full view of the person you're about to judge.
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Re: Cat Piss Stinks.
by callei (plyn@plynlymon.com)
on Nov 25, 2001 - 06:14 PM
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When i had boobs, I showed 'em off. There is no way to hide them and you get fewer looks if you stick 'em straight out than if you try to pretend you havent got them. You also end up with better selfestemm than hating your own body and all it has to offer
The fundimental Christian idea that women are evil, (dont ask unless you want to me to tell) compounded with the idea that women only have value as housewives or whores, compounded with other womens' self opinions (beliveing that they are either a housewife or a whore) makes for lots of mean things said.
She posted one of the cuter pix. Following this bend, evil logic, she is a whore and therefore, unlike christ, we , the other women MUST throw stones, if we are to prove that we are good housewives.
Me, id rather be the whore, less dishes and the men are more polite.
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Re: Cat Piss Stinks.
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
on Nov 25, 2001 - 11:23 PM
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Man, this is going over a lot better than I anticipated. I figured that this would be the end of bettie x, and I should at least go out with a bang.....how unexpected.
I'm glad some people get it.
This wasn't intended to slam or ridicule or single out. I didn't use names, feeling that would be unfair to those involved, slinging mud before things could be ironed out, so to say.
This is, as C said, not just about some picture, it's about the way things have developed over years and years. Degenderization. That it's not okay to be what you ARE. I had some bitch put a piece of tape on my windshield over where my bettie page air freshener was, stating that it insults women. Well, I'm a woman, and I'm not offended. So does appreciating a pretty girl make me less in the eyes of my own gender?
If it does, I denounce them, every last one.
I'm tired of being leary of dressing up, even for work, for fear of being seen as "competition" or a "cock tease" if I go to a bar, even with my fiance! That my merely putting effort into my looks will draw attention away from some sullen ho bag and in turn she won't get laid because of me, though I'm clearly taken by the scary man on my arm and the nice fat diamond on my finger.
It's almost a crime nowadays to want to look, act, and BE a girl. If you dress down and don't pay much attention to your looks and focus on your brain and intelligence, you're a dyke or a nerd, and if you dress up, are smart AND pretty, you're a bitch or a whore or a cock teaser/blocker and ultimately COMPETITION.
When did women get so fearful of each other? Perhaps I'm outside the curve or something, but it never occured to me that another girl was a threat. Not even strippers.
Ultimately, I just feel that we were waaaaaay to hard on someone we never met before. Yes, she probably is a very very nice girl....but how will you know now that you've completely alienated and put her into a very uncomfortable corner?
And you know this isn't the first time her breasts have been the first thing people comment about, ask about, and talk to.
But you know what? If she's proud enough of her body to show them, who are we to judge?
I don't know, it's years of frusteration coming to a head over a picture.
I've said my piece, and I'm certainly glad that I didn't come off as the big raving bitch I usually do and that I've been clear about my feelings.
And that I'm not alone.
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Re: Cat Piss Stinks.
by whitedove (jaroddove@doveworksentertainment.com)
on Nov 26, 2001 - 10:28 AM
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I didn't even see the picture - nor do I know of a new girl (you leave for a few days and you miss everything!). Even without seeing it I can tell I would probably feel the way Bettie X does - I hate when someone is brave enough to share themselves with others and the reaction they get is nothing but snide, hateful, snotty remarks. I would never post something that would hurt someone else, simply because if others saw my picture; that is what I'd receive. There are very few pictures of me, I don't like my appearance at all so I avoid getting them (I wasn't even in my senior yearbook). Now for me to post a picture in a public, to let myself be judged, is a big step in the way of building self confidence or destroying it. Who knows though, I didn't even see the picture...
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Re: Cat Piss Stinks.
by darkness_of_shadows (Darkness_of_shaddows@yahoo.com)
on Jul 07, 2002 - 12:38 AM
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i dont *think* i commented on it simply because if i did say something it would have been mean.. in all truth its who i am.. hell i go to stripclubs.. i would go with the mean guy on my arm in a heartbeat.. HE wont even go to one.. (least not with me) guys (i dont think) for the most part dont want females to see them gawking at other females.. weather it makes them feel inferior or whatever..
no i dont have a pic on here either i too need to be happy with the picture before i let people judge me on it.. i hate cameras.. specially when they arent my own.. simply for the fact that i may never see the photo that has been taken..
i hate the way i look..
i will be the *second* to be the first to admit it (LOL)
if i do say mean things its usiually jolking around.. but when its not.. well.. then im in a bad mood and shouldnt be looking at others peoples things in the first place!
if i ever have said somethig nasty about your picture.. just want ya to know i didnt mean it..
as bettie has i have now also said my peace
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