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Articles: Oogy freaky boy |
Posted by
fergshmuck on Friday, October 12, 2001 - 04:39 AM PST
Speaking of nasty annoying exes, by the way, I did regret losing my virginity to the person I did. He ended up becoming a felon, a wannabe rapist, a drunk, a Navy boy, and then got kicked out of the navy and has been trolling around Cruces for another year or so now, it seems. The day before yesterday he called me out of the blue after five years of no contact, and I was scared, because my number is unlisted.
My old number, however, is not. He'd called that from the phone book, gotten the wrong number bit, and then.."oh, hey, here's her dad's number! Maybe he'll tell me." and my dad had told him, which is funny, because my dad once swore to kill the little prick if he ever heard from or saw him again.
Okay, so he got my number from my dad, and called me, and I was socializing through gritted teeth. He talked us into meeting him at the mall today to hang out, (well, he talked ME into it and Randall agreed to come with me and be as boyfriendly as he possibly could to discourage any bad thoughts- it won't work, but at least he'll be with me) so okay. We're going to hang out at the mall for awhile, and go home, and never hear from him again because he'll get stoned that night and forget all about me, right? Wrong. Last night he showed up at my front door at 11:30. He said he wanted to check the address cause it seemed familiar, and he'd realized that his ex-girlfriend used to live in our apartment complex, and right next door to our apartment itself. He'd been walking around the complex knocking on doors and asking for me! Unfortunately, even if I'm scared, my effin' dad has me trained to be polite anyway. So we sat in the computer room and I showed him my comics and mp3s and computer stuff. When he was back on the sidewalk getting ready to go home, he remarked, "You kind of made a mistake here." "What do you mean?" "Well, verifying your number and address with me and all, you know? You'll never get rid of me again!"
FUCK I could have pissed myself and screamed. At least I didn't though, and said "Well, that's what 911 is for." "I didn't know I was that annoying." And he laughed and left. Needless to say, I locked the door, the windows, turned off the lights in the rest of the house, and kept Randall's dagger on my lap at the computer the rest of the night. I pulled the dagger on poor Randall when he got home from work this morning, I was so scared.
I hate I Hate I HATE creepy exes.
`rik
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Re: Oogy freaky boy
by Schizo on Oct 12, 2001 - 04:57 AM
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*shudder*
That's CREEPY!!!
Did he say why he hunted you up after all this time?
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Re: Oogy freaky boy
by Maranda (saboneta@aol.com)
on Oct 12, 2001 - 05:58 AM
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Start keeping a detailed log, beginning with this episode, of all the times he contacts you and what takes place. I don't know if there are anti-stalking laws where you live, but in most places that have them, you need to be able to provide detailed accounts of exactly how many times and in what form the unwanted contact took place.
You also need to tell him, in front of a witness, that you want no further contact with him. This witness should not be your boyfriend.
In some states, a tape-recorded phone call where you tell him specifically that you don't want him to call you again is admissible. Recording laws vary greatly from state to state, but usually, if one party is aware that the call is being taped, the tape does not qualify as eavesdropping. Check with the local police for details on this.
Hopefully this guy will leave you alone. But since he's told you that he won't, start lining up ammunition for a harassment complaint, in case you need it. And as "nice" as you want to be, DO NOT hesitate to file a complaint if needed.
Best of luck.
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Re: Oogy freaky boy
by bettie_x (strangersangel@hotmail.com)
on Oct 14, 2001 - 07:31 PM
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"Well, that's what 911 is for"
*snort* that's damned funny....
If he comes around again, just start reminising about all the rotten times you had and how glad you are to have moved on with your life.
Or, invite him in, and ignore him.
You could always just answer the door, sigh disapointedly, and then shut it again, turn off everything, and if he knocks again, get to the peephole and blurt out in your best accent
"no habla englaise" until he goes away.
that'll make him feel stupid. If he's a felon, they're keeping an eye on him as we speak, and any sort of disturbance will bring them running. See if he has any warrants, and if he does, give them his address.
MY favorite is to only let him in when your boyfriend is home, then start macking on your man while he sits there.
that always works...nothing more insulting to your manhood than watching the ex that you're stalking mackin' on someone other than you.
all fun and games aside, take this seriously and do what maranda said if things get even remotely scary. Even now, with what he said that it wasn't a good idea for you to verify your address and phone number, 'cause now you'll never get rid of him. *EW*
slimeball.
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