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Re: Teen Sex
by Domkitten (saradevil@saradevil.com)
on Feb 13, 2004 - 08:19 PM
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The big thing here for me as a teacher who has had to work with pregnant teens, is the entire issue of being ready for sex.
Most teens don't know how to tell if they are ready. It can be very confusing, as the kids get raging hormones and no where to direct them. Then they sit down and watch movies like American Pie and think, right, I need to get laid.
Alas, for the state of our nation, as we could be served so much better by teaching kids about masturbation, about sexual pleasure, and about the pros and cons of sex, rather than the mechanics and cons of sex.
I mean, seriously, nothing makes sex more interesting than a bunch of adults who have already had sex telling them with one hand wait till your ready, and with the other that they will be back from their date after 1 am.
Granted, as a teacher in school I can't tell any of the students I've worked with directly that they need a wank more than a fuck, but that won't stop me from telling other kids.
It almost makes me nostaligic for my college days when I literally gave seminars to a house full of virigns that had never had sex. I taught them all how to masturbate during a series of several conversations. I think that writing a series on How to get laid should possibly include an article on How to Lay Yourself, but I'm not writing these things.
In the end this is my big test for the teens if they want to know if they are ready to have sex.
Can you talk about sex without laughing?
Can you talk about sex with your parents without being uncomfortable?
Can you talk about sex with other adults without wanting to fuck those adults (talking about sex with someone you want to fuck is like asking a drug dealer to cut you off)?
Can you buy your own protection?
Can you go alone to Planned Parenthood or any other local gyn including your own and be fitted for a diaphram, or start taking birth control without dying of embarressment?
Can you read these questions without giggling?
Teens who answer "no" to any of those questions are usually not ready. The reason for that is very simple, they have not yet learned to take it seriously.
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